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 HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 11:15 PM on Friday, August 1st, 2014

I was driving to visit a home care client and had just turned on his road when something caught my eye. There was a sign taped to a mailbox, and when I was leaving I got a closer look.

I don't know how to edit out the guy's name.

They were plastered all over the place.

His car, the house, the front door, the stop sign was leading into the neighborhood.

Boy, do I understand the pain behind this. But I have to kind of admire the balls to pull this off.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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GonnaGetThru ( member #38817) posted at 11:59 PM on Friday, August 1st, 2014

Yeah, I gotta admire somebody with the balls (ovaries? Lol) to pull that off!

BW (me): 31
WH (him): 32
2 DD's 9 & 6. DS born 8/2015
"Every decision you make indicates what you believe you are worth."

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3kids30years ( member #38879) posted at 12:56 AM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014

I kinda like the idea - maybe I'll post a few of OW at the next soccer game. So all the parents can be on the look out for her. I'd laugh so hard!

Make me feel better, but then she'll just call the police again. (she has called them 3 times on me - for NOTHING!!!)

Never mind. - But I love the idea!

BW - 52 on Dday
WH - 53 on Dday
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm 2+ year EA/PA
TT until 2016 - why do they do that?

Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.

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Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 1:04 AM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014

Wonder if you could write the info for SI on a sign or two.

Thought about doing so,etching similar at the new condo xOw2 bought right before d-day. Like a pic of MrH and one of her and a note saying "If you've met xOw2, your newest neighbor in 1234B, know that her 'BF' is a married man and she's "thankful for the time [he] takes away from his children to be with her." So welcome "Harlot" if you want but be cautious around her.

What actually held me back was a few things:

The drive- 45 mins or worse in traffic.

Nobody to watch the kids as I did that.

Knowing that xOw2 is a vindictive and litigious b!tch.

[This message edited by Holly-Isis at 7:05 PM, August 1st (Friday)]

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 8:39 AM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014

He comes up right away on Pipl. Anyone with a Spokeo account could easily get contact info for his relatives. Four women on his facebook profile with the same last name - could easily be a wife and three relatives, or Been Verified has a woman with a different last name listed as his spouse.

The internet. Remarkable.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 2:42 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]

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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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 HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 2:44 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014

Dang, Ama. I didn't even think of that. Something to think about. Thanks!

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 3:43 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014

ps - if you open those pics in Microsoft Paint you can easily black out his name and face, since this is the internet... you would just need to save them to your photobucket again.

ETA: or if you're on a Mac without Paint, download Skitch, you'll find it very useful.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 9:44 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]

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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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