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User Topic: This is a first
stillcrying4ever
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Member # 38310
Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H came home and told me OW left message on his phone. He wanted to change his no. Did that last night. He wanted me to listen to the message. He hasnt had contact for 3 months. She can't believe that he won't talk to her anymore.


D Day May 27, 2012



Posts: 186 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
RomanticInnocenc
♀ 43041
Member # 43041
Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey stillcrying,

why is this a first? Is it because he was honest and open with you or because the OW is obviously a couple of sandwiches short of a lunch box?


Me: BS 31
WH: 29 (theseseatsRtaken)
DS: getting close to 1
Together 10 years, married 2.
DD1: 8th of Jan 2014
DD2: 10th of Jan 2014
NC: 8th of Jan
In hopeful R!

Posts: 429 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Australia
stillcrying4ever
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Member # 38310
Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is a first because he had never told me of any contact ever. I've always found it or the other woman had found mean and horrible hurtful ways for me to know.


D Day May 27, 2012



Posts: 186 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
RomanticInnocenc
♀ 43041
Member # 43041
Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Then that is really great! I applaud your WH for finally getting it!

I still hold on the lunch box thing tho... what exactly doesn't the OW understand that you don't F*CK married men and then keep in contact with them!

I hope your WH continues to come to you with stuff like this!


Me: BS 31
WH: 29 (theseseatsRtaken)
DS: getting close to 1
Together 10 years, married 2.
DD1: 8th of Jan 2014
DD2: 10th of Jan 2014
NC: 8th of Jan
In hopeful R!

Posts: 429 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Australia
Questioningall
♀ 43959
Member # 43959
Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd say that was a very good thing. My WH has been doing that and it shows me he's really working on R, since I know he's scared but is willing to be open anyway. I hope he keeps it up!


Me-BS 50
Him-WS 50 Sorrowfulmate
Married 26 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 2 ONS, 1 LTA
TT until 7/14 Timeline given

Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because


Posts: 68 | Registered: Jul 2014
BtraydWife
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Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah that sounds like a fantastic first. Good job Mr stillcrying!

Jump right on that and get him a new number!


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 2559 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
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