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stillcrying4ever posted 8/2/2014 09:08 AM

H came home and told me OW left message on his phone. He wanted to change his no. Did that last night. He wanted me to listen to the message. He hasnt had contact for 3 months. She can't believe that he won't talk to her anymore.

RomanticInnocenc posted 8/2/2014 09:12 AM

Hey stillcrying,

why is this a first? Is it because he was honest and open with you or because the OW is obviously a couple of sandwiches short of a lunch box?

stillcrying4ever posted 8/2/2014 09:17 AM

It is a first because he had never told me of any contact ever. I've always found it or the other woman had found mean and horrible hurtful ways for me to know.

RomanticInnocenc posted 8/2/2014 10:02 AM

Then that is really great! I applaud your WH for finally getting it!

I still hold on the lunch box thing tho... what exactly doesn't the OW understand that you don't F*CK married men and then keep in contact with them!

I hope your WH continues to come to you with stuff like this!

Questioningall posted 8/2/2014 12:34 PM

I'd say that was a very good thing. My WH has been doing that and it shows me he's really working on R, since I know he's scared but is willing to be open anyway. I hope he keeps it up!

BtraydWife posted 8/2/2014 16:42 PM

Yeah that sounds like a fantastic first. Good job Mr stillcrying!

Jump right on that and get him a new number!

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