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DrJekyll posted 8/3/2014 16:16 PM

Just wanted to share some frustration.

My BS and I had a huge week. Things have been great. Trust building. Relationship repairing. Communicating. But now today the last day of vacation is drawing to an end. We are both sad about it. My BS is withdrawing. Tomorrow back to work. Back to that Help where there is an AP. I do not get upset with my BS. I can totally understand her withdrawing. It is just so frustrating after such a great week for it all to come to an end.

The good news is I should hear back Friday on a new job possibility that I interviewed for. And there us another job possibility coming up also. In case this one doesn't work out. This was the fifth position I have I interviewed for since dday. Hopefully I catch a break soon. Maybe a smile down from above for my hard work. It is probably too much to ask from an unfaithful lying cheating self centered POS. But just maybe.

Ok rambling vent over.

GabyBaby posted 8/3/2014 16:41 PM

Sending over some job mojo to get you (and your BS) out of hell...

sorrowfulmate posted 8/3/2014 21:01 PM

DJ,

How often do you call BW and ask how she is doing or to check in with her while you are at work?

Just wondering

DrJekyll posted 8/4/2014 04:48 AM

I call her at least 5 times and text her also

somethingremorse posted 8/4/2014 08:30 AM

It sounds like a pretty normal reaction to going from vacation back to the real world. Be mindful, get through it.

Good luck with the job. Keep pushing forward.

bionicgal posted 8/4/2014 08:35 AM

We just went through the same thing -- 1.5 weeks of family time (unheard of for us) and then last week H is back at work and it feels like he is withdrawing/absent/no longer loves me. Ha.

Sounds like you are at home, like me? It is TOUGH being the one at home -- feeling left behind. I pretty much had a melt down on Thursday, but things are getting better. I try to put myself in his shoes and imagine the stresses he is under. It is good that you don't get upset with her - I am not that advanced, yet.

Hang in there, and good luck on the job!

Brandon808 posted 8/4/2014 08:58 AM

Job mojo to you. Keep posting. It's good to get those frustrations out. Coming back from a good vacation is always a let down. Just more confirmation that it was a good one.

DrJekyll posted 8/4/2014 09:21 AM

Thanks for the support.

I was relieved that when I got into work, my XAP is off of work today.

And I will say that this last week has probably one one of the best weeks of my life. I get excited thinking about the future. Future vacations without the dark gloom overhead.