Me: BW. 40's
My h was served D papers last week. We have had a few talks since then, the latest this morning.
He would like us to legally separate instead of D. I get that it would benefit him as he has no medical insurance, and I feel bad that would leave him high and dry.
He also wants us to figure things out on our own. Basically, without attorneys, who he says will be creating a lot of debt. He wants us to discuss the basics regarding the house, monthly payments, the kids.
Has anyone ever done this successfully?? I don't know all the ins/outs, but if we could save some money, why not?? If we go this route, can the final things just be submitted to the attorney and then file for D??
There's so much to think about. He is actually being very calm about this. I am just wondering if he is covering the fact that he is nervous about the content of his safe deposit box.
Him: WH POS. 40's
2 kids. DD16, DS14
Don't let my user name fool you...I am NOT hopeful for us at ALL!!