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User Topic: Now we'll see
kg201
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been trying to get D'ed as quickly as possible and have tried to remain as reasonable as possible. X has held it up and for one of the main issues, her life insurance, she has argued that because of my financial mismanagement during the M, I should not be sole trustee to the insurance on behalf of my kids.

So I have made a request to see all of her business account statements going back four years, the length of her A. I originally didn't ask for these because I didn't really care about it....the speed of D was more important to me. But now we'll see who has financially mismanaged things. I know of one night out with her AP that was paid with money that should have come to the family. We'll see how many more there are. She has refused to give these up without a formal request from my lawyer, so maybe it is juicier than I had thought? We'll see.

Stoopid Waywards.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 802 | Registered: Aug 2013
Jduff
♂ 41988
Member # 41988
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That should be one interesting discovery process!


Divorced - 5/23/14
Already in my New Beginning - :)

Posts: 653 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: texas
BtraydWife
♀ 42581
Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Must be juicy, the push back confirms the need to expose. Ok if she wants to play that game, batter up!


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 2580 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
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