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User Topic: Crappy Parenting
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Member # 29322
Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guess the kids gave STBX another day full of the joys of motherhood. She checked out of parenting them for over half of their lives and now finds everyday parenting difficult.

Came back from having her truck serviced and is hyperventilating, blood pressure through the roof. Took a bath then ran out the door to "sit in the hot tub at the Y", but not before a frantic search for her phone.

WW Truth Translation; Bad day facing the consequences of selfish behavior so running off to meet OM and escape. For her own health and the well being of the kids I sure hope (for the millionth time) that she gets some much needed psychiatric and medical help for her issues.

37 fBH
Sons 17 and 9 Daughters 12, 8, 6.
Ex#1 and Ex#2 both cheated

Rediscovering Life. It may not be a bed of roses but at least I don't smell like dog$h!t

Posts: 1430 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's true - a lot of them can't deal being an adult with real stresses and life with families - which is one of the main reasons for the affairs I believe - to escape reality.

WH 'escapes' every moment he can but OW lives out of town - so it's on the phone texting or talking or whenever he can arrange a trip or she comes here. I noticed as soon as he leaves the house he calls her - almost like a 'take me away' moment.

My kids don't know about OW yet - so I wonder how he 'hides' that - but who I am kidding - he hid her from me for 3-4 months - so what's new.

D-Day 1/24/14
D-Day2 04/08/14, false R
17yrs married, 23yrs together
Two kids in middle school
Divorced 10/2014

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