On the main page of a forum, what do those hearts in the margin mean?
Also, what are your SI habits? Some people have posted hundreds, if not thousands, of messages. That is a lot of time here
Married: April 9, 1994
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014
As far as posting habits, that varies from person to person. Some folks have been here for years and only have a couple hundred posts, but they read daily.
Others post a lot, read a lot, etc.
Hope that helps!
WH#2 (suicide prior to finalized divorce)
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
I don't post or respond unless I really feel like I can contribute.
It's important to me. Kind people here helped keep me afloat when I was sinking, and it's important to me to pay it back.
Hard won experience, and all...