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MammaMia (original poster member #34030) posted at 8:45 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
Post Dday: if you can describe your WS in one word, what would that be?
My answer: Liar!!!
And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
gimmeshelter ( member #44263) posted at 8:54 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
"Scared Sh#$less" would describe the look on her face right after discovery. She though she had it safely tucked away in her past. The cover up and lies was her self preservation kicking in. It was truly disgusting....
Me 47
WW 40
D-day Jan 2014 2month EA 2011 TT D-day #2 Feb 2014 2 brief PA 2010-2011
D 12 S 9
Working on recovery
TheIrishGirl ( member #43496) posted at 9:00 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
Me: 33, BW Him: 40, fWH
Together 11y, married 8
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Working on R, and it's working
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 9:25 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 9:26 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
I'm going to have to go with LIAR as well. That's who he was and how he behaved.
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 9:33 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
XWH: Unworthy (of my time, thoughts, energy)
WH: Remorseful
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
tearingaway ( member #28618) posted at 9:58 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
totalheartbreak ( member #41589) posted at 10:00 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
“You know hope is a mistake. If you can’t fix what’s broken, you’ll go insane.” - Max Rockatansky
The smart man divorces a lawyer.
The smarter man never marries one in the first place.
To her we were never worth the effort. :-/
HurtingandLost ( member #29322) posted at 10:02 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 10:02 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
motherfucker
7 years later: sweetheart
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
SunshineSoul ( member #43374) posted at 10:04 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
Liar.
If I could choose a second, it would be lost.
[This message edited by SunshineSoul at 4:05 PM, August 5th (Tuesday)]
Me = BS, 38
Him = WH, 43
2 beautiful boys.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.
It's just not that simple.
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 10:04 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
imarriedmymother ( member #34360) posted at 11:10 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
M 24 yrs
DD 9/9/11
Drunken ONS w/aquaintance, EA/PA with co-worker. Moved in w/AP 10/1/11, Kicked Out 12/19/11
Recongealed
24 years down the tubes, but at least I lost my man boobs.
stunnedmullet ( member #42975) posted at 11:14 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
DD April Fools Day 2014 (unfortunately no joke)
BS (me) 45
WH 43
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years
4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA
married 22 and 7 kids
Attempted reconciliation for 18 months until he walked out without warning
whattheh ( member #40032) posted at 11:17 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
Right after dDay it would have been "imposter".
Retired & now in 60's-M 39 Yrs-DD 2013-TT for 3 yrs (new details incl there had been 3 more MOWs)--all this started with porn use for mid 50s WH (felt he was possessed)~~Cheating and aftermath is huge time waste with high opportunity cost~~
Chinadoll30 ( member #43131) posted at 11:18 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
Split. He was 2 different people.
"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave
luluphoenix ( member #44168) posted at 11:47 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
On D-day: Loser
7 months out: Broken
When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.
-I am going to be one damn sparkly oak when this is done.
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 11:57 PM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
on DDay? Asshole
Now, over 3.5 years out? improved
DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband
Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 12:45 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2014
BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013
friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.
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