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Topic: In One Word
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MammaMia
♀ 34030
Member # 34030 |  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 |     |
Post Dday: if you can describe your WS in one word, what would that be?
My answer: Liar!!!
And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
Posts: 891 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South |
gimmeshelter
♂ 44263
Member # 44263 | | Posted: 2:54 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
"Scared Sh#$less" would describe the look on her face right after discovery. She though she had it safely tucked away in her past. The cover up and lies was her self preservation kicking in. It was truly disgusting....
Me 47
WW 40
D-day Jan 2014 2month EA 2011 TT D-day #2 Feb 2014 2 brief PA 2010-2011
D 12 S 9
Working on recovery
Posts: 398 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: mn |
TheIrishGirl
♀ 43496
Member # 43496 | | Posted: 3:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Sad
Me: 31, BW Him: 38, WH
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Posts: 992 | Registered: May 2014 |
sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703 | | Posted: 3:25 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
disgusting
D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
Posts: 3815 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY |
BtraydWife
♀ 42581
Member # 42581 | | Posted: 3:26 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
I'm going to have to go with LIAR as well. That's who he was and how he behaved.
Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years
Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson
Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.
Posts: 3281 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 3:33 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
XWH: Unworthy (of my time, thoughts, energy)
WH: Remorseful
Me - 42
DD(21), DS(19, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids - 3 dogs, 2 cats
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - F that guy.
XWH#1 (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs
I edit often for typos/clarity.
Posts: 7001 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California |
tearingaway
♂ 28618
Member # 28618 | | Posted: 3:58 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Compartmentalizer.
Posts: 374 | Registered: May 2010 |
totalheartbreak
♂ 41589
Member # 41589 | | Posted: 4:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
broken
Me: BH (30s)
"Its said the actual affair is not the main cause of D....its how the wayward chooses post-A that determine if a M survives." -- Blakesteele
"Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man
Posts: 182 | Registered: Dec 2013 |
HurtingandLost
♂ 29322
Member # 29322 | | Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Pathetic
36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.
Posts: 1033 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest |
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817 | | Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
motherfucker
7 years later: sweetheart
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 6831 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
SunshineSoul
♀ 43374
Member # 43374 | | Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Liar.
If I could choose a second, it would be lost. [This message edited by SunshineSoul at 4:05 PM, August 5th (Tuesday)]
Me = BS, 36
Him = WH, 42
2 beautiful kids: 6yo & 11 month old.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.
It's just not that simple.
Posts: 121 | Registered: May 2014 | From: West Coast |
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827 | | Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Coward
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Posts: 5347 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest |
imarriedmymother
♂ 34360
Member # 34360 | | Posted: 5:10 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Fucked
M 24 yrs
DD 9/9/11
Drunken ONS w/aquaintance, EA/PA with co-worker. Moved in w/AP 10/1/11, Kicked Out 12/19/11
Recongealed
24 years down the tubes, but at least I lost my man boobs.
Posts: 82 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: upper u.s. |
stunnedmullet
♀ 42975
Member # 42975 | | Posted: 5:14 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Disappointment
DD April Fools Day 2014 (unfortunately no joke)
BS (me) 40
WH 38
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years
4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA
Us together 20 years, married 17 and 6 kids
I always thought I was enough but obviously not!
Posts: 259 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Australia |
whattheh
♀ 40032
Member # 40032 | | Posted: 5:17 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Right after dDay it would have been "imposter".
BW- mid 50's (me)
fWH-late 50's
M 34 T 36
DD-Early 2013 PA 2010
In R but I have PTSD, HPV, HSV-1...
MOW late 40s psycho stalker lookin to upgrade lifestyle at my expense
Posts: 701 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA |
Chinadoll30
♀ 43131
Member # 43131 | | Posted: 5:18 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Split. He was 2 different people.
"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave
Posts: 366 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia |
luluphoenix
♀ 44168
Member # 44168 | | Posted: 5:47 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
On D-day: Loser
7 months out: Broken
When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.
-I am going to be one damn sparkly oak when this is done.
Posts: 173 | Registered: Jul 2014 |
rachelc
♀ 30314
Member # 30314 | | Posted: 5:57 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Limited
his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's
“Take action to change what needs changing. Take action to respond to your situation. Let the discouragement take ca
Posts: 6409 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest |
painfulpast
♀ 41038
Member # 41038 | | Posted: 6:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
on DDay? Asshole
Now, over 3.5 years out? improved
Posts: 1998 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast |
Gr8Lady
♀ 36307
Member # 36307 | | Posted: 6:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,
Posts: 636 | Registered: Jul 2012 |
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