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Topic: In One Word
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MammaMia
♀ 34030
Member # 34030 |  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 |     |
Post Dday: if you can describe your WS in one word, what would that be?
My answer: Liar!!!
And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
Posts: 930 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South |
gimmeshelter
♂ 44263
Member # 44263 | | Posted: 2:54 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
"Scared Sh#$less" would describe the look on her face right after discovery. She though she had it safely tucked away in her past. The cover up and lies was her self preservation kicking in. It was truly disgusting....
Me 47
WW 40
D-day Jan 2014 2month EA 2011 TT D-day #2 Feb 2014 2 brief PA 2010-2011
D 12 S 9
Working on recovery
Posts: 474 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: mn |
TheIrishGirl
♀ 43496
Member # 43496 | | Posted: 3:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Sad
Me: 33, BW Him: 40, fWH
Together 11y, married 8
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Working on R, and it's working
Posts: 3137 | Registered: May 2014 |
sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703 | | Posted: 3:25 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
disgusting
BW - 40
DD - 6 years old
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
Posts: 5137 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY |
BtraydWife
♀ 42581
Member # 42581 | | Posted: 3:26 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
I'm going to have to go with LIAR as well. That's who he was and how he behaved.
Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
He choked me. What else is there to say.
Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he can't meet them.
People change when staying the same becomes more painful than changing.
Posts: 5431 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 3:33 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
XWH: Unworthy (of my time, thoughts, energy)
WH: Remorseful
Me - 44
DD(23), DS(20, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Posts: 9465 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There |
tearingaway
♂ 28618
Member # 28618 | | Posted: 3:58 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Compartmentalizer.
Posts: 399 | Registered: May 2010 |
totalheartbreak
♂ 41589
Member # 41589 | | Posted: 4:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
broken
“You know hope is a mistake. If you can’t fix what’s broken, you’ll go insane.” - Max Rockatansky
The smart man divorces a lawyer.
The smarter man never marries one in the first place.
To her we were never worth the effort. :-/
Posts: 200 | Registered: Dec 2013 |
HurtingandLost
♂ 29322
Member # 29322 | | Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Pathetic
38 fBH
Sons 17 and 10 Daughters 13,8,7.
Ex#1 and Ex#2 both cheated
Posts: 1502 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: WI |
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817 | | Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
motherfucker
7 years later: sweetheart
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Posts: 7763 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
SunshineSoul
♀ 43374
Member # 43374 | | Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Liar.
If I could choose a second, it would be lost. [This message edited by SunshineSoul at 4:05 PM, August 5th (Tuesday)]
Me = BS, 38
Him = WH, 43
2 beautiful boys.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.
It's just not that simple.
Posts: 162 | Registered: May 2014 | From: West Coast |
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827 | | Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Coward
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Posts: 5734 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest |
imarriedmymother
♂ 34360
Member # 34360 | | Posted: 5:10 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Fucked
M 24 yrs
DD 9/9/11
Drunken ONS w/aquaintance, EA/PA with co-worker. Moved in w/AP 10/1/11, Kicked Out 12/19/11
Recongealed
24 years down the tubes, but at least I lost my man boobs.
Posts: 84 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: upper u.s. |
stunnedmullet
♀ 42975
Member # 42975 | | Posted: 5:14 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Disappointment
DD April Fools Day 2014 (unfortunately no joke)
BS (me) 40
WH 38
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years
4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA
married 19 and 7 kids
He has now decided he can't do it anymore and left
Posts: 351 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Australia |
whattheh
♀ 40032
Member # 40032 | | Posted: 5:17 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Right after dDay it would have been "imposter".
M over 30 yrs-in R with fWH who cheated at 27.5 years of M
Mult MOW-CL,AM for NSA sex
Multiple DDs 2013-15 due to TT and lying during R (not more phys cheating after jan 2013 DD1)
Passed polyg test
Being stalked sev yrs BPD/NPD CL slut
Posts: 1185 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA |
Chinadoll30
♀ 43131
Member # 43131 | | Posted: 5:18 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Split. He was 2 different people.
"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave
Posts: 372 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia |
luluphoenix
♀ 44168
Member # 44168 | | Posted: 5:47 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
On D-day: Loser
7 months out: Broken
When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.
-I am going to be one damn sparkly oak when this is done.
Posts: 466 | Registered: Jul 2014 |
rachelc
♀ 30314
Member # 30314 | | Posted: 5:57 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Limited
Posts: 7613 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest |
painfulpast
♀ 41038
Member # 41038 | | Posted: 6:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
on DDay? Asshole
Now, over 3.5 years out? improved
DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband
Posts: 2246 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast |
Gr8Lady
♀ 36307
Member # 36307 | | Posted: 6:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
BS: Me (65yo)FWH: HIM (67yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013
friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.
Posts: 709 | Registered: Jul 2012 |
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