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User Topic: In One Word
MammaMia
♀ 34030
Member # 34030
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Post Dday: if you can describe your WS in one word, what would that be?


My answer: Liar!!!


And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

Posts: 911 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South
gimmeshelter
♂ 44263
Member # 44263
Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Scared Sh#$less" would describe the look on her face right after discovery. She though she had it safely tucked away in her past. The cover up and lies was her self preservation kicking in. It was truly disgusting....


Me 47
WW 40
D-day Jan 2014 2month EA 2011 TT D-day #2 Feb 2014 2 brief PA 2010-2011
D 12 S 9
Working on recovery

Posts: 461 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: mn
TheIrishGirl
♀ 43496
Member # 43496
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad


Me: 32, BW Him: 39, fWH
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Working on R, and it's working

Posts: 1936 | Registered: May 2014
sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

disgusting


BW - 39
DD - 6 years old
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

Posts: 4500 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
BtraydWife
♀ 42581
Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to have to go with LIAR as well. That's who he was and how he behaved.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
Unremorseful for 3.5 years
Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he can't meet them.

Posts: 4410 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

XWH: Unworthy (of my time, thoughts, energy)
WH: Remorseful


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(19, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (suicide prior to finalized divorce)
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 7693 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
tearingaway
♂ 28618
Member # 28618
Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Compartmentalizer.

Posts: 399 | Registered: May 2010
totalheartbreak
♂ 41589
Member # 41589
Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

broken


“You know hope is a mistake. If you can’t fix what’s broken, you’ll go insane.” - Max Rockatansky

The smart man divorces a lawyer.
The smarter man never marries one in the first place.

To her we were never worth the effort. :-/


Posts: 200 | Registered: Dec 2013
HurtingandLost
♂ 29322
Member # 29322
Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pathetic


37 fBH
Sons 17 and 9 Daughters 12, 8, 6.
Ex#1 and Ex#2 both cheated, got a dog as a companion after D. At least she's loyal. Obstinate but still happy to see me every day!

Divorce Final!


Posts: 1241 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
Rebreather
♀ 30817
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

motherfucker

7 years later: sweetheart


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 7237 | Registered: Jan 2011
SunshineSoul
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Liar.

If I could choose a second, it would be lost.

[This message edited by SunshineSoul at 4:05 PM, August 5th (Tuesday)]


Me = BS, 36
Him = WH, 42
2 beautiful kids: 6yo & 11 month old.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.

It's just not that simple.


Posts: 143 | Registered: May 2014 | From: West Coast
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Coward


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5725 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
imarriedmymother
♂ 34360
Member # 34360
Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fucked


M 24 yrs
DD 9/9/11
Drunken ONS w/aquaintance, EA/PA with co-worker. Moved in w/AP 10/1/11, Kicked Out 12/19/11
Recongealed

24 years down the tubes, but at least I lost my man boobs.


Posts: 84 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: upper u.s.
stunnedmullet
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Disappointment


DD April Fools Day 2014 (unfortunately no joke)

BS (me) 40
WH 38
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years

4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA

Us together 20 years, married 17 and 7 kids (last a HB baby)

I always thought I was enough but ob


Posts: 299 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Australia
whattheh
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right after dDay it would have been "imposter".


BW- 50's (me) fWH-early 60's M 34 T 36
DD-Jan 2013 cheated 2.25 years with late 40s CL ho who told me very cruelly & stalked us; DD2 8/15: AM profile setup Dec 2012 no CC setup and email deleted b4DD

Posts: 909 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Chinadoll30
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Split. He was 2 different people.


"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave

Posts: 371 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia
luluphoenix
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On D-day: Loser
7 months out: Broken


When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.
-I am going to be one damn sparkly oak when this is done.

Posts: 360 | Registered: Jul 2014
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Limited

Posts: 7595 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
painfulpast
♀ 41038
Member # 41038
Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

on DDay? Asshole

Now, over 3.5 years out? improved


DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

Posts: 2246 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
Gr8Lady
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Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Liar

End of story


BS: Me (65yo)FWH: HIM (67yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013

friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.


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