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User Topic: In One Word
MammaMia
♀ 34030
Member # 34030
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Post Dday: if you can describe your WS in one word, what would that be?


My answer: Liar!!!


And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

Posts: 884 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South
gimmeshelter
♂ 44263
Member # 44263
Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Scared Sh#$less" would describe the look on her face right after discovery. She though she had it safely tucked away in her past. The cover up and lies was her self preservation kicking in. It was truly disgusting....


Me 47
WW 40
D-day Jan 2014 2month EA 2011 TT D-day #2 Feb 2014 2 brief PA 2010-2011
D 12 S 9
Working on recovery

Posts: 286 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: mn
TheIrishGirl
♀ 43496
Member # 43496
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad


Me: 31, BW Him: 38, WH
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email

Posts: 802 | Registered: May 2014
sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

disgusting


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3556 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
BtraydWife
♀ 42581
Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to have to go with LIAR as well. That's who he was and how he behaved.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 2561 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

XWH: Unworthy (of my time, thoughts, energy)
WH: Remorseful


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6735 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
tearingaway
♂ 28618
Member # 28618
Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Compartmentalizer.

Posts: 357 | Registered: May 2010
totalheartbreak
♂ 41589
Member # 41589
Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

broken


Me: BH (30s)
Wayflost: WW (30s)
"Ever notice those that advocate anything for 'happiness' are perennially unhappy?"
time isn't what you think it is.

Posts: 173 | Registered: Dec 2013
HurtingandLost
♂ 29322
Member # 29322
Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pathetic


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 1032 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

motherfucker

7 years later: sweetheart


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6693 | Registered: Jan 2011
SunshineSoul
♀ 43374
Member # 43374
Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Liar.

If I could choose a second, it would be lost.

[This message edited by SunshineSoul at 4:05 PM, August 5th (Tuesday)]


Me = BS, 36
Him = WH, 42
2 beautiful kids: 6yo & 11 month old.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.

It's just not that simple.


Posts: 110 | Registered: May 2014 | From: West Coast
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Coward


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5274 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
imarriedmymother
♂ 34360
Member # 34360
Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fucked


M 24 yrs
DD 9/9/11
Drunken ONS w/aquaintance, EA/PA with co-worker. Moved in w/AP 10/1/11, Kicked Out 12/19/11
Recongealed

24 years down the tubes, but at least I lost my man boobs.


Posts: 81 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: upper u.s.
stunnedmullet
♀ 42975
Member # 42975
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Disappointment


DD April Fools Day 2014 (unfortunately no joke)

BS (me) 40
WH 38
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years

4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA

Us together 20 years, married 17 and 6 kids

I always thought I was enough but obviously not!


Posts: 232 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Australia
whattheh
♀ 40032
Member # 40032
Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right after dDay it would have been "imposter".


BW- mid 50's (me)
fWH-late 50's
M 33 T 35
DD-Early 2013 PA 2010
In R but I have PTSD...

Posts: 606 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Chinadoll30
♀ 43131
Member # 43131
Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Split. He was 2 different people.


"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave

Posts: 343 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia
luluphoenix
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On D-day: Loser
7 months out: Broken


When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.
-I am going to be one damn sparkly oak when this is done.

Posts: 69 | Registered: Jul 2014
rachelc
♀ 30314
Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Limited


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5739 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
painfulpast
♀ 41038
Member # 41038
Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

on DDay? Asshole

Now, over 3.5 years out? improved


The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends

Posts: 1898 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
Gr8Lady
♀ 36307
Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Liar

End of story


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 628 | Registered: Jul 2012
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