After receiving and responding to some very nice replies in the "Just Found Out" forum, I'm feeling kinda stuck now.
I'm past the "Just Found Out" stage, so I feel kinda out of place there now; I don't know what my jerk H plans to do, so I don't know if the "Divorce and Separation" area is for me yet; we haven't spoken in nearly 3 weeks, so the "Reconciliation" forum is not an option yet, etc. I'm feeling out of place everywhere! I can't even offer guidance to others yet because this whole A thing is so new to me and I don't even know what to do next in my own M.
Just wanted to vent a bit.
Thanks for listening.