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7yrsflushed (original poster member #32258) posted at 12:14 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Every evening I pull into my driveway. I wonder if it's here yet. I take a deep breath, get out of my car and walk down the gravel path. The red flag is down so the mail man has come and gone. I pause and wonder again if it's here yet or not. Damn you Schrodinger!!! Until I open it, my mailbox both contains and does not contain my divorce decree. I can sit and stare at it but eventually I have to open it. So, today I open it and once again it isn't there.
Tips hat and raises glass of Woodford Reserve, well played mailman, well played...
Oh well there's always tomorrow. 
[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 6:15 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)]
D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 1:15 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
I have that with the court meetings, where every meeting a lawyer says, "this is the last one!" Well, you-know-who's lawyer is drafting the papers and leaves things out so we all tromp back out again.
I am very suspicious of this as an attempt to carry it on and bill Perv longer.
Lol on the mailman humor, thanks for the snicker.
I know the feeling because when I still lived in the house, I used to hide behind trees to watch the mail lady take the papers away to bring to the lawyer.
Suspense.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
WastedTime12 ( member #34767) posted at 1:18 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
(((7years,)))
Just wanted to let you know you have been heard.
Take care
Life is meant to be lived, not numbed!
In his quest for freedom, he set me free!
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 1:21 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
(((7 years)))
I was just thinking about posting to see if it was final yet (due to your signature line).
Crossing my fingers it's there tomorrow for you!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
kg201 ( member #40173) posted at 1:24 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Love this post. The Schrodinger reference is excellent. 
In a lot of ways our marriages were like Schrödinger's cat (or a box of chocolates) you never knew what you would get coming home. You had a marriage and you didn't have a marriage. All possibilities at the same time. Brilliant!
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
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