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38years (original poster member #43864) posted at 1:19 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
Our 39th wedding anniversary is Saturday, and I feel mostly numb about it. My emotions are so mixed. At times, I'd like to acknowledge it. Other times, it's just another day of trying to heal from the nightmare my WH brought into our lives. Does anyone have any similar experience?
Married over 40 yrs
Me: 63 yrs old, always faithful
WS: 66 yrs old, 2 ONS 1978, EA (he says) In 2013
DDays: 12/11/13, 12/18/13, 12/27/13 (he's big on TT)
Also discovered he cheated with 2 women while we were engaged, 40 years after the fact.
OakStreet ( member #41193) posted at 1:48 AM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
((38))
I just posted about this in the third week of July. I called WH while I was out of town and said, "We have nothing to celebrate, so no cards, no gifts."
Others said that they "changed" celebration dates, but I think that's hard too. We were so happy on that date.
Hell, I've subtracted two years off our marriage....making my son 'illegitimate' - not really, I HATE that term!
Sorry you are going through this.
Me: 60, WH 67
Married: 23 years
DS 21, 2 adult stepdaughters
DDay: Oct. 14, 2013
Divorced Jan. 2016
JimmyB ( member #43976) posted at 3:00 PM on Thursday, August 7th, 2014
38years,
I'm sorry you feel that way, it sucks! I am feeling the same as my 2nd anniversary after the last DD is coming up. I was hopeful last year, this year I don't even want to think about it.
ME: 60 Madhatter, 1 PA, 6 months(making out, no sexual contact), 2006. 1 sexual act with a stranger in a car - w/hands, 2010.
WW: 57 Madhatter, 25 year (1988-2013) PA, 3 separate affairs, same OM). 8 year, 2005-2013, EA with 1st boyfriend/lover
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