I am frustrated!! STBXWH did not fill out any of his questions regarding OW and previous OW. Since we are in a no fault state he is basically claiming the 5th as she isn't an issue. Umm really? We would not be getting a divorce if I hadn't gotten the anonymous phone call and every other thing that has happened since then.
He had to list the weaknesses that I have as a parent and I must admit, they hurt-he called me arrogant (I'm not), obsessed with Doctor's (ummm I work with them), not patient and easily frustrated. I think he is building his case against me as an unfit mother. Along with all the verbal things that he says to me on a regular basis, it is a wonder I can function :(
As for custody of the kids, he wants joint physical custody (aka no child support), if he can't get that (he works a rotating schedule on nights) then he wants them 3 nights a week after school until bedtime, every other weekend (his 3 days off) and 2 weeks in the summer plus the holidays and birthdays.
I don't want him to have the kids. He doesn't spend time with them now, he plunks them in front of the TV or netflicks. On his days off, they are in daycare and he is with 'her'. Right now he is gone for 3 days on a 'getaway' with 'her' because 'he needs it'. It is the last days off he has before the girls start school and he is out of town with his whore. She has become the main priority not our 3 kids.
So once this part is done, what is next? Everyone keeps telling me that it is going to get worse before it gets better. I'm not sure how much worse I can take. The verbal abuse and emotional roller coaster are enough.
Today he called for no reason other than to ask if I had heard from my attorney and to ask if anyone he works with have been talking to me, feeding me information-I replied 'no' to both. ugh!