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User Topic: Worst birthday ever
hurting mom
♀ 12869
Member # 12869
Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two days ago we told the kids about the divorce. My older son bawled and so did I. Because of that, I just told all my friends and family not to say anything about my birthday, because I don't want my birthday to be associated with negative memories in the future.

Today, I got home from work to find my STBXH has taken the kids to see his new house. It's gorgeous - 4 BR, 4 bath. So the kids are talking about how nice the new house is, about the furniture they're getting for their bedrooms. And he just got back from a trip to Florida with them.

I feel like his mistress is stealing my life, my kids, my financial security. Happy f------g birthday.


Posts: 51 | Registered: Dec 2006
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that sucks.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 14 DS 11
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 6273 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
healingroad
♂ 41920
Member # 41920
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, what a jackass. Sorry you're going through that. Ugh!

(((hurting mom)))


BH 48 STBXWW 47 DS16 DS11
D-Day #1 12/24/2013
D-Day #2 4/15/2014
Pulled the rip cord 7/19/2014
Divorce Pending

Posts: 1126 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Futurefear
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Member # 43176
Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a total ass!
(((Hugs))) and Happy Birthday
🎂🎉🎁🎈


me- BW him-serial cheater (2 during our marriage, still with OW)
together 10 yrs, married 7.5
kids-9,6,and 2!
DD#1-Jan 2014,filed for divorce April 2014
May 6, 2015 - divorced.

Posts: 657 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Iowa
betrayedpregnant
♀ 43304
Member # 43304
Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry he chose to do it and rub it in on your special day. Very insensitive. I understand what you are saying on your last line. If it offers any consolation, happy birthday...

Posts: 358 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Hawaii
GreatRoleModel
♀ 36809
Member # 36809
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((hurting mom))))
There are no words for dickheads behavior.
Happy Birthday!


BS (me)
XWS (him) NPD
DIVORCED!!!
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost

Posts: 459 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: NC
deena
♀ 27275
Member # 27275
Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is the one of only times I say let your lawyer try and get as much as he can for you in the divorce. Break him!!

So so very sorry hurting mom

((((((((Hurting mom))))))))))))


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.


Posts: 3268 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Canada
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday, hon. Do something very nice for yourself.


May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this

Posts: 21818 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
ChangeMaker
♂ 43899
Member # 43899
Default  Posted: 7:14 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nobody can steal their mother. Nobody.

Hold your head up.

Happy Birthday. The next one will be much happier.


"Nothing prevents happiness like the memory of happiness" - Andre Gide

DDay - June 7, 2014
Me - 43
XWW - Irrelevant
DD - 2008 and 2011
Ended the cruel joke April 1, 2015. Divorced.


Posts: 975 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Ontario
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