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haleyscomet posted 8/7/2014 15:03 PM

i left my cheating (livei-in) boyfriend over a year ago
i remember when i came here and found a lot of understanding and support
and a lot of misery and pain that i could relate to

i just wanted to come back after all this time and say IT GETS BETTER

the best thing I did was leave him --- sooo glad I did not let him me anymore

i know the pain
the feeling of betrayal
the anger
the bitter tears
the horrible, horrible crying --- with the deep heaving and unbelievable torment of why, why, why?

you're allowed to go through it but be strong
BE STRONG
you know this isn't good for you
you will get through it
you will be happy again

the best thing i did since i left him was cutting off all contact --- and even then he kept texting me for 6 more months.... but since i never answered thankfully he gave up

i'm happy now
and can barely believe i grieved so badly over him
they are not worth it

just wanted to share hope

and that advice (cut off contact!)

hugs and love to all ye brokenhearted

you deserve to be happy!

mchercheur posted 8/7/2014 20:47 PM

Hi haleyscomet,

I am so happy you are in a better place.
It is very healthy to take a stand for yourself.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey & giving hope to the rest of us.

Wishing you the best of luck in the future.

LoveIsDead posted 8/7/2014 20:59 PM

Wow! Today is my first day on this site, and it feels so good to hear things like this. The more I see things like this the better I feel.

Thank you for posting this, it really does help

NobleHeart posted 8/7/2014 21:08 PM

Hi there!

Thanks for your post, I needed to know there is hope! I just left my fiancé, we were supposed to get married tomorrow...

We deserve so much better than these cheating/lying men!

Best of wishes for you, and thanks again for sharing your experience and hope.

Skan posted 8/8/2014 10:10 AM

I'm so glad that you're doing much better and Thank You for coming back to share that with everyone here!

NeverAgain2013 posted 8/8/2014 10:14 AM

Of course it gets better - you are correct.

Life is too short to waste on lying, selfish assholes.

I'm in your club and happy to be a member.

10yearsafter posted 8/8/2014 11:16 AM

That is so awesome!

BaseballMom31 posted 8/8/2014 20:36 PM

This post gives me hope!! Thank you!

theroadahead posted 8/9/2014 08:03 AM

So glad to hear that you are happy. Thanks for sharing.

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