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BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 2:19 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Hope you have a wonderful day! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 2:24 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Happy Birthday! Here's a map to remind you of where you do not live 
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:35 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:13 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Geez, LTHM; did I move again?? Not even close!
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 3:36 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:40 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Had to share. This happened last night at dinner. Followed by fried bananas and ice cream.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 6:21 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Happy Birthday, SAZ! Hope it is a great day! 
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 6:46 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Happy Birthday, Sazzy!! Once again, BR has found the perfect cake!
That looks like a very interesting pre-bday dinner. 
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 7:19 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:28 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Happy Birthday sweet friend. I hope you have a wonderful day. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 8:37 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Geez, LTHM; did I move again?? Not even close!
See the word NOT - that's where upstate is. 
ETA: Upstate is where the mountains are (YES, they ARE mountains ) You would actually be very happy in UPSTATE
[This message edited by Lucky2HaveMe at 2:38 PM, August 8th (Friday)]
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
Waiting4Daylite ( member #36213) posted at 8:39 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:22 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:34 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Happy Birthday!!! I hope it's fantastic!
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:04 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:22 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 7:33 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
Thank you for the birthday wishes. I was stuck all night at work with a humongous computer network outage. Going to bed so I can get up and head back in. No rest for the wicked.
I so wish I was hiking in MY MOUNTAINS LTHM (ever heard of the Taconic Trail? I'm even close to the Appalachin Trail... 
)
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 12:46 PM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
Happy birthday.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:55 PM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
I think you need to celebrate a birthday weekend. Happy Birthday!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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