The TT is definitely a killer.
He finally understands this and he was really just protecting himself by not giving the whole story.
And thanks, I wish it would stop. My whole world is spinning and stopping without any control.
And at times I've thought, was I really happy? He was so awful to me the whole 16 months that the A went on. He made me want a divorce.
and for some reason, I can't remember before that. And we've been together 30yrs.