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User Topic: Really nice guy becoming really nice boyfriend
risingfromashes
♀ 3903
Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We talk every day and have been out 8+ times. Sometimes just for a walk or glass of wine. It's easy to be with him.
So this is what a relationship is supposed to feel like?! I am not familiar with feeling respected and valued. For the first time in a long time I feel beautiful!
Things are moving fast, like having the exclusive talk, but neither of us seems concerned. This might be a result of our ages. Once you hit your mid-fifties it's pretty clear what you like and what you don't!



There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1730 | Registered: Mar 2004
Lonelygirl10
♀ 39850
Member # 39850
Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay

What does it feel like? Since I haven't quite found it yet, I'm very curious


30 Bgf
Dday: April 2013
Relationship ended: January 2014

Posts: 1345 | Registered: Jul 2013
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Only advice I have is to go with the flow! Happy for you.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3267 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

isn't it WEIRD? And nice and all of that too.

So happy for you, rising. You deserve it.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
steppingup
♂ 42650
Member # 42650
Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TO RISINGFROM ASHES

CONGRATULATIONS


I'm looking forward to similar in my future! I daydream all the time about my future wife, she is going to be a real peach! I love the idea of her..I can already feel it.


Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

Posts: 740 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CALI
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could not imagine this coming from a more deserving poster... YAY! for you. and please, for those of us living vicariously lots of posts in the future!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5947 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18698 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Forged1
♂ 43418
Member # 43418
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent. Enjoy every second of it.


Me: BH
Her: Almost XW

Almost done with D
==================================
At this stage, I'm pretty much bulletproof.


Posts: 358 | Registered: May 2014 | From: USA
gma56
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Cool  Posted: 6:45 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Love this post Rising !
Yeah, it does feel that good !
Big happy Hugs !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Rising...I am so happy for you.

Please keep posting for those of us who are enjoying your new experience!!!!!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17796 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Blackhair
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Member # 39451
Default  Posted: 3:42 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love these kind of posts, we all deserve these happy butterflies feelings? Nice!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met 20 yrs younger girl online.
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
SoHappyNow
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Member # 8923
Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes, the good karma happens! This is such a happy post.....I am another good karma receiver and I'm happy for you!


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus

***Used to be hit-by-a-train***
Remarried 2/14/14


Posts: 2302 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
wonderingbull
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Member # 14833
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy girl!

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 6004 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
bigskyblues
♂ 36759
Member # 36759
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you

BSB


BH 50s
xWW 50s

Dday1 7-2012
Dday2 8-2012
Divorce 9-2012

4 kids all adults.

Married 22+ years.

I have moved on and life is good!


Posts: 277 | Registered: Sep 2012
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 10:42 AM, August 10th (Sunday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

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