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Topic: My Sammy is gone
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simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001 |  Posted: 3:50 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 |     |
My Sammy is gone. She went peacefully with her head on my shoulder. 
I'll post more later. I just can't do it right now
*Update*
At 1pm yesterday I had to put my Sammy down. Her walking got worse and the vet thought she may have "cranial" issues (possibly cancer) because of some strange behaviors. Yesterday morning she could barely walk. I knew it was time. It doesn't help, but I knew
I spent my last moments with her cuddled on the floor and petting her. She purred.
At the vet's office she was on a towel on the exam table. She crawled over to me and I dropped to my knees so I could be as close to her as possible. She buried her head on my shoulder. The same shoulder she crawled onto the day she picked me at the shelter. She has been on that shoulder for 18 yrs.
She went peacefully. I pet her the entire time and gave her plenty of kisses. I kept telling her "mommy loves you" and "you're my love." I hope she heard me. She left my world with dignity and grace, as it should be.
She was my cat and I was her person. She will always be in my heart.
Me and my Sammy at her last morning
[This message edited by simplydevastated at 7:27 PM, August 9th (Saturday)]
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell! |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 |  Posted: 3:51 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
((( simplydev )))
Me - 45
DD(24), DS(21, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Posts: 9964 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There |
Waiting4Daylite
♀ 36213
Member # 36213 | | Posted: 3:53 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
((((Simplydevastated)))
Posts: 2264 | Registered: Jul 2012 |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 3:58 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
((Simply and Sammy))
I'm sorry
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 9154 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
imagoodwitch
♀ 23375
Member # 23375 | | Posted: 4:12 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm sorry.
A head full of fears has no space for dreams.
Posts: 6575 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 4:39 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((hugs))) I am so sorry.
Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 7052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
cass
♀ 24261
Member # 24261 | | Posted: 5:47 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((sd))))
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
Posts: 5134 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Scotland |
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001 | | Posted: 5:53 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
Thank you everyone
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell! |
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341 | | Posted: 5:53 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
I am so sorry for your loss.
Proud mom to a lovely young lady and a sweet little boy.
Posts: 8397 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Southeast US |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 6:02 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((SD)))
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posts: 50541 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101 | | Posted: 7:00 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((SD And Sammy))))
Their losses hurt too much.
May warm memories of furry livings ease your pain.
Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 18 & 20
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Posts: 13164 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 7:08 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((SD and Sammy)))
I'm so sorry.
Posts: 12215 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
deeplysad
♀ 16590
Member # 16590 | | Posted: 7:08 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry for your loss
(((hugs)))
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
Posts: 3406 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 7:37 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
Oh hon I'm so sorry. Wish I could give you a big hug. My heart just aches for you.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
Myname
♂ 23138
Member # 23138 | | Posted: 8:00 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm sorry.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S
Posts: 3781 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer. |
Random thoughts
♀ 2959
Member # 2959 | | Posted: 8:09 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm sorry for your lost of Sammy...
Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW
Posts: 1673 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey |
yewtree
♀ 16671
Member # 16671 | | Posted: 8:09 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry.
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
Posts: 4914 | Registered: Oct 2007 |
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369 | | Posted: 8:10 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
Just now saw this.
I am so sorry for your loss. ((((SD))))
Posts: 30659 | Registered: Dec 2010 |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 8:14 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
Oh SD. I'm so sorry.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25300 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384 | | Posted: 8:23 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014 | |
I am sorry. SD.
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 3439 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh |
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