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simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 9:50 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
My Sammy is gone. She went peacefully with her head on my shoulder. 
I'll post more later. I just can't do it right now
*Update*
At 1pm yesterday I had to put my Sammy down. Her walking got worse and the vet thought she may have "cranial" issues (possibly cancer) because of some strange behaviors. Yesterday morning she could barely walk. I knew it was time. It doesn't help, but I knew
I spent my last moments with her cuddled on the floor and petting her. She purred.
At the vet's office she was on a towel on the exam table. She crawled over to me and I dropped to my knees so I could be as close to her as possible. She buried her head on my shoulder. The same shoulder she crawled onto the day she picked me at the shelter. She has been on that shoulder for 18 yrs.
She went peacefully. I pet her the entire time and gave her plenty of kisses. I kept telling her "mommy loves you" and "you're my love." I hope she heard me. She left my world with dignity and grace, as it should be.
She was my cat and I was her person. She will always be in my heart.
Me and my Sammy at her last morning
[This message edited by simplydevastated at 7:27 PM, August 9th (Saturday)]
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 9:51 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Waiting4Daylite ( member #36213) posted at 9:53 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 9:58 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
((Simply and Sammy))
I'm sorry
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 10:12 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
I'm sorry.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 10:39 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
(((hugs))) I am so sorry.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
cass ( member #24261) posted at 11:47 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 11:53 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Thank you everyone
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 11:53 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:02 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
(((SD)))
I'm so sorry for your loss.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:00 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
(((SD And Sammy))))
Their losses hurt too much.
May warm memories of furry livings ease your pain.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 1:08 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
(((SD and Sammy)))
I'm so sorry.
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 1:08 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss
(((hugs)))
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 1:37 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
Oh hon I'm so sorry. Wish I could give you a big hug. My heart just aches for you.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 2:00 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
I'm sorry.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
Random thoughts ( member #2959) posted at 2:09 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
I'm sorry for your lost of Sammy...
Those three words are said too much and not enough.Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.FWW
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 2:09 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 2:10 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
Just now saw this.
I am so sorry for your loss. ((((SD))))
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 2:14 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
Oh SD. I'm so sorry.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 2:23 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
I am sorry. SD.
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
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