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User Topic: My Sammy is gone
simplydevastated
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Helpless  Posted: 3:50 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My Sammy is gone. She went peacefully with her head on my shoulder.

I'll post more later. I just can't do it right now

*Update*

At 1pm yesterday I had to put my Sammy down. Her walking got worse and the vet thought she may have "cranial" issues (possibly cancer) because of some strange behaviors. Yesterday morning she could barely walk. I knew it was time. It doesn't help, but I knew

I spent my last moments with her cuddled on the floor and petting her. She purred.

At the vet's office she was on a towel on the exam table. She crawled over to me and I dropped to my knees so I could be as close to her as possible. She buried her head on my shoulder. The same shoulder she crawled onto the day she picked me at the shelter. She has been on that shoulder for 18 yrs.

She went peacefully. I pet her the entire time and gave her plenty of kisses. I kept telling her "mommy loves you" and "you're my love." I hope she heard me. She left my world with dignity and grace, as it should be.

She was my cat and I was her person. She will always be in my heart.

Me and my Sammy at her last morning

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 7:27 PM, August 9th (Saturday)]


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( simplydev )))


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6749 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Waiting4Daylite
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Simplydevastated)))

Posts: 1871 | Registered: Jul 2012
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Simply and Sammy))

I'm sorry


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7872 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5513 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs))) I am so sorry.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5947 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
cass
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((sd))))


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4978 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6972 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SD)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Posts: 36832 | Registered: Mar 2011
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SD And Sammy))))
Their losses hurt too much.
May warm memories of furry livings ease your pain.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SD and Sammy)))

I'm so sorry.


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deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss

(((hugs)))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3260 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh hon I'm so sorry. Wish I could give you a big hug. My heart just aches for you.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Myname
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

Posts: 3160 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry for your lost of Sammy...


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

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yewtree
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4712 | Registered: Oct 2007
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just now saw this.

I am so sorry for your loss. ((((SD))))


There will come a time, you'll see, with no more tears. And love will not break your heart, but dismiss your fears.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh SD. I'm so sorry.


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

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LA44
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry. SD.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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