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Reconciliation :
Was it our anniversary?

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 vtach (original poster member #27639) posted at 3:13 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014

I do not remember our anniversary. Not sure if is subconscious or not. I spent a wonderful afternoon with my sister and best friend. The shock came as I was making a special dinner for my husband. He said something like..."do you know what today is?" I just asked, no what? He reminded me it was our anniversary.

Anyone that knows me knows how sentimental I am. It makes me very sad that my brain cannot remember. Maybe that's a good thing tho.

me 48
wh 63
1st DD Thanksgiving day 2009
2nd DD 12/27
3rd DD 3/5/10

We are a work in progress...

Tho I'm fully aware, of your desperate despair, I'm still charmed by the words that you say...Jaron and the Long Road to Love

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Time Ticks On ( member #33772) posted at 4:22 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014

Maybe you do not remember as it is no longer a special day for you.

FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

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tl502 ( member #42607) posted at 2:18 PM on Sunday, August 10th, 2014

I have been through 3 anniversaries since dd. We celebrated the last one, but it was an effort. It was our 30th. Our children wanted to have a party, but I just couldn't do it. We went out to dinner. I feel like a hypocrite celebrating a m that was full of lies and cheating.

On our 30th, this past May, we decided to start anew. I have read the stories here on SI of people who D then got back together later on. Well, I didn't want to go through a D, but decided to let the old m die and just become a memory, mostly happy because of our 2 kids and plenty of good times, but obviously scarred by betrayal.

Now our 30th anniversary is our new start date. So far untouched by lies and betrayal. That's something I think I can celebrate next year. Maybe someday it will be something I could celebrate with family and friends without feeling like a hypocrite.

Married 35 yrs.
dd1 9/10/2011 ea/pa
DD2 3/25/2013 same ow, never stopped email and phone contact.
Putting the past behind us and moving forward together

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