Many of us have been in your shoes and you just have to let go. My XH moved from my house right in with his whore and threw her right in my kids' faces immediately. My kids were 5 and 9 months at the time. Their dad also appears to cross dress with the full support of OW. I still can't keep the kids from those losers.
Your son will know you are his mother. Just be the stable loving, presence he needs. That always wins out over some cheap OW.
Just know, they you can say whatever you want about morality in a divorce decree, but they aren't enforceable. I wanted one too initially, but my attorney warned that me that are not enforceable and can actually make you look bad. Like you're the petty one that can't just move on and put your kids first.
It sucks I know, but this isn't something you can control.
[This message edited by newlysingle at 5:23 PM, August 10th (Sunday)]
Guess we just have to swallow our pride and be the best parents that we can and hope/pray that our children will see through this bullshit when they are older!
(((hugs to you)))
Better to hold your head high, smile big during the child exchanges, and be the best parent you can be.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
Eta: I know this is not really enforceable, but better than nothing IMO.
[This message edited by lknup at 8:33 AM, August 11th (Monday)]