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User Topic: Anniversary
♀ 43864
Member # 43864
Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Earlier this week, I had posted in General" about my apprehension over the 1st anniversary since DDay. My emotions were all over the place. I am happy to say that the day, which was yesterday, went pretty well. We spent most of the day together, spoke lovingly to each other, and enjoyed each other's company. It seems like our reconciliation may be on the right track!

Married over 40 yrs
Me: 63 yrs old, always faithful
WS: 66 yrs old, 2 ONS 1978, EA (he says) In 2013

DDays: 12/11/13, 12/18/13, 12/27/13 (he's big on TT)
Also discovered he cheated with 2 women while we were engaged, 40 years after the fact.

Posts: 56 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: SC
♀ 44060
Member # 44060
Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad to hear. Ours is this week and my WH is out of town for work...I am extremely nervous/tense.

Me (BS)- 42
Him (WS)- 44
Married 21 years
3 beautiful daughters (18,16,14)
DDay- 4/23/14- 6 month EA turned PA just before DDay

Posts: 762 | Registered: Jul 2014
♀ 40605
Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is wonderful! I had a similar experience on my 1st antiversary a few days ago. I was dreading it so much, and as it turns out, it was actually a very positive day.

To anyone coming up on their antiversary, it's not always awful.

Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every day

Posts: 698 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
Time Ticks On
♀ 33772
Member # 33772
Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also thought it would be awful. It wasn't. I don't even pay attention to the date anymore.

FBW- 50
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

Posts: 2001 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
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