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Topic: Anniversary

38years
♀ 43864
Member # 43864

Posted: 6:51 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014

Earlier this week, I had posted in General" about my apprehension over the 1st anniversary since DDay. My emotions were all over the place. I am happy to say that the day, which was yesterday, went pretty well. We spent most of the day together, spoke lovingly to each other, and enjoyed each other's company. It seems like our reconciliation may be on the right track!

Married nearly 40 yrs
Me: 61 yrs old, always faithful
WS: 64 yrs old, 2 ONS 1978, EA (he says) In 2013

DDays: 12/11/13, 12/18/13, 12/27/13 (he's big on TT)
Also discovered he cheats with 2 women while we were engaged, 40 years after the fact.

Posts: 43 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: SC

peaceBmine
♀ 44060
Member # 44060

Posted: 7:40 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014

So glad to hear. Ours is this week and my WH is out of town for work...I am extremely nervous/tense.

Me (BS)- 42
Him (WS)- 44
Married 21 years
3 beautiful daughters (18,16,14)
DDay- 4/23/14- 6 month EA turned PA just before DDay

Posts: 598 | Registered: Jul 2014

iwillNOT
♀ 40605
Member # 40605

Posted: 8:41 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014

This is wonderful! I had a similar experience on my 1st antiversary a few days ago. I was dreading it so much, and as it turns out, it was actually a very positive day.

To anyone coming up on their antiversary, it's not always awful.

Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 563 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest

Feelthrownaway
♀ 33772
Member # 33772

Posted: 11:10 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014

I also thought it would be awful. It wasn't. I don't even pay attention to the date anymore.

FBW- 49
FWH-49
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 23 years- together 25

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

Posts: 1427 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South

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