Assuming that one is not in physical danger or separated (e.g. long distance relationship), this is what I believe:
If you have a *relationship* with someone, in that it is a commitment then I believe it deserves an in person discussion.
If you have gone on a few dates and nothing committed, then I think you owe the person a conversation on the phone.
One or two dates but not feeling it, I think it's fine to send a text that you're not feeling it.
If you're just texting and get a weird vibe, poofing acceptable.
If someone is violent or makes you feel unsafe or is offensive (e.g. dick picks as the second message) I think that poofing is perfectly acceptable.
Just my own views.Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
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