As others have said, separation / divorce requires SEPARATE bank accounts. There is ZERO need to share an account for support.
When I was divorced from XWW, I asked her for her account info and then set up a direct deposit with my employer to send money straight into her account.
With STBXWW, I expect to do the same. As a side note, due to XWW antics during divorce, STBXWW and I have never shared ANY accounts.
Sons 17 and 9 Daughters 12, 8, 6.
Ex#1 and Ex#2 both cheated
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