Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy
So with our D finalization looming likely this week (judge has our settlement agreement in his hands as we speak), I had an interesting milestone occur. My wedding anniversary was this past weekend. We have been S for almost 5 months, so it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. In fact, I totally forgot about it until one of my family members brought it up the day before. I was super busy with work and family the day of our anniversary, so it kept me busy.
My STBX sent me an email telling me it was hard for her and that she was thinking about me - just a couple of sentences. I didn't respond until the next day. I was conflicted with how to respond and if I even should respond, because to be completely honest I was not thinking much about her. I mean, don't get me wrong, I thought about her, but really was so busy, that it was hard to focus on anything but what I was doing in the moment.
It would have been our 16th anniversary of being together (11th married). Glad to have gotten through it all right.
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