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HurtingandLost posted 8/11/2014 19:32 PM

I was smoking and looking at the shitpile of a "garage" that the STBX filled with SHIT. PILES AND PILES OF SHIT. She came out and asked which whatever she could take and I said "ALL OF IT". "I hope you don't think you're just gonna drop off a bunch of shit and leave my new place a mess". I said "why not? That's exactly what you've done with every place we've lived! Shit, I can see it now, I'm going to set up my table saw over there, my router table there, my compound miter saw there, this shits gonna be great!"

"Stop acting like you're excited to get rid of me, its irritating!"

Nope. Living with a selfish disrespectful slob is irritating. Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!

GingerAle posted 8/11/2014 20:18 PM

"Stop acting like you're excited to get rid of me, its irritating!"

Awwww, why are you being so mean to her? My STBX is also a slob and hoarder. Tonight is his last chance to get the rest of his crap out of the garage. So excited for my kids and I to have a tidy, clean garage, and be able to get our bikes in and out of it without hurting ourselves!

Enjoy your new, clutter free work space

ChangeMaker posted 8/11/2014 20:50 PM

My STBXWW was a hoarder in denial. Until now. She rented a storage locker to keep her shit in while we try to sell the house.

Then she filled it.

Then she rented a bigger one.

Then she filled it.

She asked me to help pay for it. I laughed like it was a joke. I laughed so hard she began to laugh too, lest it appear whe wasn't kidding!

There's no furniture or clothes in there yet. Just shit. Mounds and mounds of shit.

Some days are better than others.

HurtingandLost posted 8/11/2014 22:30 PM

My stbx is in denial about her hoarding as well. Gets pissed if I bring it up. At one point we were living in a 2600 sq ft clutterfucked house and renting three storage units. The final straw in our marriage was when I rented two dumpsters and filled them up before her mom and step dad visited in June and we still couldn't walk through the house. They rode her ass and she went running to OM. Sucks when the dysfunction that they hide behind a marriage is exposed.

Softcentre posted 8/12/2014 02:11 AM

The Arse is a hoarder too...there used to be piles EVERYWHERE. What's worse is I got used to it over the years and stopped trying to put everything away. I'm having to retrain myself back to normal habits now. Over a year since he left, I'm still trying to get rid of 'stuff'. It's hard to work out what to keep because I was so used to us keeping everything 'just in case'

pmal64 posted 8/12/2014 08:36 AM

bless her heart...

Lola2kids posted 8/12/2014 08:57 AM

"Stop acting like you're excited to get rid of me, its irritating!"


Your response: "I'm not that good of an actor."

Gr8Lady posted 8/12/2014 09:03 AM

I had no idea so many people suffered the agony of living with a hoarder.
It is hell.
I know. Been in that hoarder hell for years. Attempts to clean and organize us like pissing in the wind.
No more.
I'm now free and it is wonderfullly freeing to finally be in a clutter free home.

brokeninfl posted 8/12/2014 09:45 AM

Love your post.


The final straw in our marriage was when I rented two dumpsters and filled them up before her mom and step dad visited in June and we still couldn't walk through the house

Yowza! That is crazy. My xwh wasn't a hoarder -- not like that - but he was a "collector" and had tons of different "collections" that were everywhere -- drove me crazy. I love that I can just get rid of stuff now - no more clutter in my house.

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