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MelisssaZZZ (original poster member #25953) posted at 10:22 AM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2014
And my life has stabilised, I have fully reinvented myself in various ways. For most of the time - happy :)!
then BOOM - xwh is taking me to court (to happen in october). to 'rejuggle' finances. become really invasive (using DD as a doorway). accuses me of being god knows what, working hard on creating yet anohter epic drama lama.
Then i check ow fb page. and she is single.. I have to say i have absolutely no feelings about their break up - indifference is bliss.. i did have to laugh as she has gotten fat and looks even uglier...
However, this comes with a sting - he obviously has more time to torment me.. and surely this lawsuit is just the beggining of going fater the person who 'ruined' his life..
sight.. and i have just started dating someone.. its early days and unlikely to survive the sh*tstorm x is creating yet again.
[This message edited by MelisssaZZZ at 6:04 AM, August 12th (Tuesday)]
Me BS - 40
WH 42
1 child - 9y
married 5 yrs, together 7
DD1 midmarch 09
DD2 early june 09
some more DD's of course - cannot bother to list
Status: Divorced Oct 2011
Him: not with OW anymore. She grew up and ditched him..
LoveHerStill ( member #31504) posted at 6:07 PM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2014
Shields up!
Remember the basics. Email only for correspondence, or better yet, it all goes through your lawyer concerning the suit.
Do Not Engage, just don't bite when he starts trying to press your buttons.
He most likely has nothing to merit a change in his financial support unless he can prove hardship on his part.
Be up front with SO, but do not involve him in this.
Me BH-45 @ Dday
Her WW-44 @ Dday
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011
It only hurts when I breathe.
HurtingandLost ( member #29322) posted at 6:19 PM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2014
I would refer all communication through your Lawyer.
My ex wife and I split in 03 and every time she was on the rocks with OM she would stir the drama Llama B.S. with threatened court dates etc. DON'T RESPOND DON'T FEED THE LLAMA! My response is and has always been "There's no need to correspond directly with me, here's my lawyers contact info".
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