I don't even know why this was going through my head earlier.
X husband's previous wife cheated on him and then left him to move in with her MOM.
Two things I distinctly recalled him saying.
1). How could she disrespect me by moving in with him while we are still legally married? Bad enough she is cheating with him.
2) She had the nerve to tell me that she wouldn't have had to cheat if I had been "nicer" to her. How much nicer could I have been? I did everything for her to include raise a child like my own that wasn't mine.
Isn't ironic that i could now say the same thing about him...except i raised 2 kids for 10 years and he only raised 1 for 3 years. He said and did just about everything she did while he was cheating.
Just goes to show that they really do follow the same script lines while cheating.