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User Topic: It's because you're a minimal parent, asshole
newlysingle
♀ 38735
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've got my guard up big time right now with the a Gnat after the stunt he and Hello Kitty pulled in my mom's driveway. So why on earth he felt like he could share his big parenting triumph with me is a mystery.

He walked the kids to the door this morning and said "look what DS can do! Show mommy, DS! Where's your nose? Where are your toes? Where are your knees?" DS is excitedly playing along pointing at said body parts. I just stood there and said "smart boy!", feeling amused that DS has been doing this for weeks already. Thankfully, DD says "dad, he does that all the time for me and mommy".

He looked deflated and annoyed, before he turned and left. This is what happens when you easily hand over 80% custody of your kids, so you and your whore can travel and pretend you don't have kids. He hasn't taken ANY vacation time to spend with his kids since DDay. He spends all of his time off with his whore.

You're missing out on your kids growing up, asshole. You'll never get these years back. I'm glad I'm here witnessing all of it in your place.


BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
OW - Hello Kitty the Whore Engaged to the Gnat. I hear the white trash, wedding bells as we speak.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (7), 1 DS (2)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 983 | Registered: Mar 2013
risingfromashes
♀ 3903
Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no! You burst his bubble! Your smart boy comment was perfect. Gnat was taking credit for being an amazing teacher/parent instead enjoying his child's accomplishment. NPD? A little?


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Mar 2004
kiki1
♀ 37184
Member # 37184
Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep and he got just what he deserved!!

I'm so happy your dd spoke up. Always from the mouth of babes.

You enjoy those babies newlysingle, they are so lucky to have you.

Hugs,,,,,,,,,,,,,


Posts: 701 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
newlysingle
♀ 38735
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, he's so NPD, and you're right, the kids are basically just his performing circus monkeys to feed him kibbles.

Thanks for your kind words, Kiki!


BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
OW - Hello Kitty the Whore Engaged to the Gnat. I hear the white trash, wedding bells as we speak.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (7), 1 DS (2)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 983 | Registered: Mar 2013
BtraydWife
♀ 42581
Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I bet the look on his face was priceless when your dd spoke up.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 2580 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to go DD!!! And your "allowing" him to have his moment? Pricelss!

Can't you imagine him being all pissy because you knew and you didn't say anything. And yes, I fully agree with the "it's all about him and not DS" comments.

Thanks for sharing!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5938 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
southsidecali
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Member # 22752
Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lol.. you know at the end of the day or first thing in the morning that i am in bed and have so much love surrounding me(my little ones) I cannot imagine giving that up.

How sad lives they lead.


Posts: 863 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: CA
Lola2kids
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Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad your DD spoke up.
NPD for sure.
It's so important to teach them something cute so they can perform for others.
How about some real parenting?

What a dork.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1477 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
GingerAle
♀ 33822
Member # 33822
Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thankfully, DD says "dad, he does that all the time for me and mommy".

Good job little lady!


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 428 | Registered: Nov 2011
StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love your daughters pragmatism and timing!!!!!
(((to DD)))


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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