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newlysingle posted 8/13/2014 14:11 PM

I've got my guard up big time right now with the a Gnat after the stunt he and Hello Kitty pulled in my mom's driveway. So why on earth he felt like he could share his big parenting triumph with me is a mystery.

He walked the kids to the door this morning and said "look what DS can do! Show mommy, DS! Where's your nose? Where are your toes? Where are your knees?" DS is excitedly playing along pointing at said body parts. I just stood there and said "smart boy!", feeling amused that DS has been doing this for weeks already. Thankfully, DD says "dad, he does that all the time for me and mommy".

He looked deflated and annoyed, before he turned and left. This is what happens when you easily hand over 80% custody of your kids, so you and your whore can travel and pretend you don't have kids. He hasn't taken ANY vacation time to spend with his kids since DDay. He spends all of his time off with his whore.

You're missing out on your kids growing up, asshole. You'll never get these years back. I'm glad I'm here witnessing all of it in your place.

risingfromashes posted 8/13/2014 14:27 PM

Oh no! You burst his bubble! Your smart boy comment was perfect. Gnat was taking credit for being an amazing teacher/parent instead enjoying his child's accomplishment. NPD? A little?

kiki1 posted 8/13/2014 14:28 PM

Yep and he got just what he deserved!!

I'm so happy your dd spoke up. Always from the mouth of babes.

You enjoy those babies newlysingle, they are so lucky to have you.

Hugs,,,,,,,,,,,,,

newlysingle posted 8/13/2014 14:38 PM

Oh, he's so NPD, and you're right, the kids are basically just his performing circus monkeys to feed him kibbles.

Thanks for your kind words, Kiki!

BtraydWife posted 8/13/2014 15:06 PM

I bet the look on his face was priceless when your dd spoke up.

caregiver9000 posted 8/13/2014 15:46 PM

Way to go DD!!! And your "allowing" him to have his moment? Pricelss!

Can't you imagine him being all pissy because you knew and you didn't say anything. And yes, I fully agree with the "it's all about him and not DS" comments.

Thanks for sharing!

southsidecali posted 8/13/2014 17:13 PM

lol.. you know at the end of the day or first thing in the morning that i am in bed and have so much love surrounding me(my little ones) I cannot imagine giving that up.

How sad lives they lead.

Lola2kids posted 8/14/2014 07:10 AM

So glad your DD spoke up.
NPD for sure.
It's so important to teach them something cute so they can perform for others.
How about some real parenting?

What a dork.

GingerAle posted 8/14/2014 09:05 AM

Thankfully, DD says "dad, he does that all the time for me and mommy".

Good job little lady!

StillLivin posted 8/14/2014 14:45 PM

I love your daughters pragmatism and timing!!!!!
(((to DD)))

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