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User Topic: WS can't look at BS
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have noticed so many BS that had their ex H/W leave them when caught that the WS can't look them in the eyes anymore.

Weather it is in court or where ever, the WS just will not look them in the face. Mine is like this.

Why is this?

I have some good thoughts on it but was just curious what you all have experienced and what do you think causes this? After all, we are the awful, mean, terrible monsters that caused them to cheat

[This message edited by shiloe at 7:32 PM, August 14th (Thursday)]

But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- another married ho-worker- D

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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is true with wasband, although I kicked him out rather than him leaving of his own accord. In his case it's shame-based.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's how I always knew he was up to no good. Every single time- majority of time he was always looking for my face when he talked but once he started screwing up he wouldn't- he avoided me at all costs.

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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He stopped looking me in the eyes when I got pregnant, and he only barely looked me in the eyes for several years before that. I was at one point convinced that he was on the autism spectrum, to be perfectly honest. I now think he just honestly hated & despised me that much, plus he probably did feel an overwhelming sense of guilt & shame.

Considering how much it made him sick to be around me (his phrase), I will always wonder why he didn't just divorce me.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

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