Topic: wife in hospital
Member # 42834
| Posted: 6:21 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Still high bp. They admitted her. She's threatening to walk out of there. Will update later. Taking a day off on vacation to stay there. Baby not due for a bit over three months so nervous here. They will take him/her early, but hoping to hold off a bit. Will know more later.
[This message edited by lovemywife4ever at 6:28 AM, August 15th (Friday)]
Upper 30s and kids at home (hers/mine/ours)
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Posts: 457 | Registered: Mar 2014
Member # 16024
| Posted: 6:30 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Sending good thoughts to both of you.
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54937 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 38336
| Posted: 6:33 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Thinking of you and your wife. Hope everything is okay.
Trying to rebuild each day
Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats
Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09
Posts: 779 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 43618
| Posted: 7:04 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Hang in there. Gods for you, for taking the day off. Be supportive.
A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.
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Posts: 1183 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
Member # 42124
| Posted: 8:17 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Sending positive thoughts to your wife, baby, family and you. Stay focused on what counts.
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Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York City
Member # 43496
| Posted: 8:42 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
I hope they take excellent care of her & baby. I'll be thinking of them.
FWIW I have a friend that delivered twins at 30 weeks due to pre-e, they were just over 1lb each, but are now thriving 3 year olds.
Me: 33, BW Him: 40, fWH
Together 11y, married 8
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
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Posts: 3226 | Registered: May 2014
Member # 42047
| Posted: 8:43 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
We had the same thing for DS 13 years ago. It sounds scary, but it will be OK. Hang in there.
Me: WH (40s)
In MC and IC
Posts: 911 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 30369
| Posted: 8:45 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Sending good thoughts out her way. Good call on taking the day off to be there for her. Keep us posted on how things go. Best of luck.
Posts: 30010 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 44224
| Posted: 8:56 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Hang in there and do what you need to for your family. My thoughts are with you all.
My BH was born a premie and his mother blames my father-in-law for it but you know what, my BH was just fine. Hospitals are equipped to care for premie's and yours will be a fighter. I hope the baby stays in for at least a few more weeks, but if not, my heart is with you all.
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DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
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Posts: 316 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: USA
Member # 10552
| Posted: 9:16 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
I had a 29 weeker and she's now almost 15 and just fine. They can do things to help baby stay in a bit longer or help their lungs develop more before birth.
Thinking of you all. I know how scary it is!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15922 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 35812
| Posted: 1:47 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
You and your wife are in my prayers.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
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Posts: 9252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 42111
| Posted: 2:06 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
Hope Deena and the baby are ok. Thinking of you all.
Madhatters doing well in R.
Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.
Posts: 1363 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
Member # 31528
| Posted: 8:38 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
Sending good thoughts. I hope everything is ok.
Posts: 49710 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 35619
| Posted: 8:55 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
Hope she is ok.
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