Topic: wife in hospital
Member # 42834
| Posted: 6:21 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Still high bp. They admitted her. She's threatening to walk out of there. Will update later. Taking a day off on vacation to stay there. Baby not due for a bit over three months so nervous here. They will take him/her early, but hoping to hold off a bit. Will know more later.
[This message edited by lovemywife4ever at 6:28 AM, August 15th (Friday)]
Upper 30s and kids at home (hers/mine/ours)
Cheater-me 2.5 years into relationship, 2 months before engagement, 1.5 year before M...this is not an excuse but a timeline of our life
Now: real love and maturing
Posts: 454 | Registered: Mar 2014
Member # 16024
| Posted: 6:30 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Sending good thoughts to both of you.
Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.
Posts: 51160 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 38336
| Posted: 6:33 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Thinking of you and your wife. Hope everything is okay.
Trying to rebuild each day
Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats
Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09
Posts: 779 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 43618
| Posted: 7:04 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Hang in there. Gods for you, for taking the day off. Be supportive.
A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.
ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)
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Posts: 1183 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
Member # 42124
| Posted: 8:17 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Sending positive thoughts to your wife, baby, family and you. Stay focused on what counts.
M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
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Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York City
Member # 43496
| Posted: 8:42 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
I hope they take excellent care of her & baby. I'll be thinking of them.
FWIW I have a friend that delivered twins at 30 weeks due to pre-e, they were just over 1lb each, but are now thriving 3 year olds.
Me: 33, BW Him: 40, fWH
Together 11y, married 8
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Working on R, and it's working
Posts: 3134 | Registered: May 2014
Member # 42047
| Posted: 8:43 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
We had the same thing for DS 13 years ago. It sounds scary, but it will be OK. Hang in there.
Me: WH (40s)
In MC and IC
Posts: 911 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 30369
| Posted: 8:45 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Sending good thoughts out her way. Good call on taking the day off to be there for her. Keep us posted on how things go. Best of luck.
Posts: 24411 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 44224
| Posted: 8:56 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Hang in there and do what you need to for your family. My thoughts are with you all.
My BH was born a premie and his mother blames my father-in-law for it but you know what, my BH was just fine. Hospitals are equipped to care for premie's and yours will be a fighter. I hope the baby stays in for at least a few more weeks, but if not, my heart is with you all.
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
Posts: 316 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: USA
Member # 10552
| Posted: 9:16 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
I had a 29 weeker and she's now almost 15 and just fine. They can do things to help baby stay in a bit longer or help their lungs develop more before birth.
Thinking of you all. I know how scary it is!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15740 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 35812
| Posted: 1:47 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
You and your wife are in my prayers.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 7595 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 42111
| Posted: 2:06 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
Hope Deena and the baby are ok. Thinking of you all.
Madhatters doing well in R.
Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.
Posts: 1363 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
Member # 31528
| Posted: 8:38 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
Sending good thoughts. I hope everything is ok.
Posts: 46323 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 35619
| Posted: 8:55 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
Hope she is ok.
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