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lovemywife4ever (original poster member #42834) posted at 12:21 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Still high bp. They admitted her. She's threatening to walk out of there. Will update later. Taking a day off on vacation to stay there. Baby not due for a bit over three months so nervous here. They will take him/her early, but hoping to hold off a bit. Will know more later.
[This message edited by lovemywife4ever at 6:28 AM, August 15th (Friday)]
Me-WS
Her-BS (deena04)
Upper 30s and kids at home (hers/mine/ours)
Cheater-me 2.5 years into relationship, 2 months before engagement, 1.5 year before M...this is not an excuse but a timeline of our life
Now: real love and maturing
REMARRIED AN
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:30 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Sending good thoughts to both of you.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
pizzalover ( member #38336) posted at 12:33 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Thinking of you and your wife. Hope everything is okay.
Trying to rebuild each day
Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats
Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09
DrJekyll ( member #43618) posted at 1:04 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Hang in there. Gods for you, for taking the day off. Be supportive.
A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.
ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)
I do not PM with Women
Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny. C.S.Lewis
determinata ( member #42124) posted at 2:17 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Sending positive thoughts to your wife, baby, family and you. Stay focused on what counts.
M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
TheIrishGirl ( member #43496) posted at 2:42 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
I hope they take excellent care of her & baby. I'll be thinking of them.
FWIW I have a friend that delivered twins at 30 weeks due to pre-e, they were just over 1lb each, but are now thriving 3 year olds.
Me: 33, BW Him: 40, fWH
Together 11y, married 8
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Working on R, and it's working
somethingremorse ( member #42047) posted at 2:43 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
We had the same thing for DS 13 years ago. It sounds scary, but it will be OK. Hang in there.
Me: WH (40s)
DDay 11/03/13
In MC and IC
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 2:45 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Sending good thoughts out her way. Good call on taking the day off to be there for her. Keep us posted on how things go. Best of luck.
StartingFreshNow ( member #44224) posted at 2:56 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
Hang in there and do what you need to for your family. My thoughts are with you all.
My BH was born a premie and his mother blames my father-in-law for it but you know what, my BH was just fine. Hospitals are equipped to care for premie's and yours will be a fighter. I hope the baby stays in for at least a few more weeks, but if not, my heart is with you all.
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 3:16 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
I had a 29 weeker and she's now almost 15 and just fine. They can do things to help baby stay in a bit longer or help their lungs develop more before birth.
Thinking of you all. I know how scary it is!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:47 PM on Friday, August 15th, 2014
You and your wife are in my prayers.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
BrokenButTrying ( member #42111) posted at 8:06 AM on Saturday, August 16th, 2014
Hope Deena and the baby are ok. Thinking of you all.
Madhatters - We have R'd.
Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. We can do this.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:38 PM on Saturday, August 16th, 2014
Sending good thoughts. I hope everything is ok.
Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 2:55 PM on Saturday, August 16th, 2014
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