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User Topic: Humor me with your revenge scenarios
Chinadoll30
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Member # 43131
Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please, humor me. The karma bus was all set to plow directly into OW's shitty life, and somehow she dodged it. Where is the justice? So please, humor me with your most outlandish revenge scenario. I know we all have them, and they're unhealthy, blah blah blah. What was your plan?

My most recent one was to fill water balloons with red paint and splatter her car. Sounds lame now that I type it.


"We must see all scars as beauty. Okay? This will be our secret. Because take it from me, a scar does not form on the dying. A scar means 'I survived'." -Chris Cleave

Posts: 343 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Philadelphia
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The justice is, it will eventually catch up to her.

I have dreamed about embarrassing her (ow) at a public event. I went back and forth on what would be the best way to do that.

I don't think about revenge as much anymore. I have faith her actions will catch up with her somehow, but I would delight in it being something I can read about in the paper or on a news channel.

There are many natural disasters in her area. I would be completely comfortable with one hitting her house only, as long as her bs and kids were away.

That's about as fantastic as I have anymore.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 2607 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
MissedRedFlags
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Member # 43344
Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OW in my situation is an attorney like my WH & this made me very hesitant to do anything because I didn't want to get into any legal trouble but....... did fantasize about going to her law office and speaking to the receptionist about how the OW had a 3 year affair with my husband. Just wanted to get her office talking about her. Wanted people to know the kind of person she is...sigh. I never did it though...not yet anyway! HA!


Me: BS 41
Him: WH 40
3 year LTA
DDay: June 4, 2013
Married 16 years
2 kids aged 9 & 7
Trying to decide if R is best for me

Posts: 213 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Florida
99lawdog99
♂ 42615
Member # 42615
Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

two movies, 7 Days and Law abiding Citizen. What Gerard Butler did to a character named Daly was perfect for me.


Me 54
WW 45
Married 25 years, together 27 WW's first and only til A
In R
"Sometimes we have to be knocked down to our lowest point so that we can reach our highest Level"

Posts: 163 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: pa
Junebug0525
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Member # 29142
Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW is getting married (not to XH). I've fantasized about sending her a wedding gift that's completely inappropriate and makes her look exactly like an OW.

No idea what that would be though.


Me: BS
Him: WXH DDay-11/22/2009~ D~ 10/25/10
OWhore: Co-worker (7 years younger)
"Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." AND THEY DID!!!

Posts: 1146 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Maryland
JellyGirl84
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Member # 41717
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Junebug,

You should send OW a "kit" of items that a person might need to sneak around on their spouse: like a script for what to tell
her BH, a wig to be incognito, condoms to keep BH safe from her diseases, a list of justifications for when she's caught, a list of divorce lawyer numbers for her BH, a cheap burner phone to talk with her AP, etc.

But on second thought, it's just way too much effort for a whore.


Me: BS 30
WH: 30
No kids
Divorced in June 2014
Together 10 yrs, Married for 3 of those yrs
OP: Ho worker
Divorced June 2014

Posts: 162 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Nj
Junebug0525
♀ 29142
Member # 29142
Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haha, something along those lines. He's not a BH (that I know of), she was single when my XH was with her.


Me: BS
Him: WXH DDay-11/22/2009~ D~ 10/25/10
OWhore: Co-worker (7 years younger)
"Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." AND THEY DID!!!

Posts: 1146 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Maryland
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I dont' wish ill of them at all. I just want them to disappear. My husband asked me if I wanted to kill them. um no, they're mothers.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5775 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really had to go back a little in my mind because I really am past the revenge stage. Don't get me wrong, I would be happy as hell if some karma came its way as it is an unremorseful slunt, I am just past the stage of wanting to be the one to dish it out.

#1. I wanted to make up a bumper sticker to stick on its car that said something like "I have sex with married men, HONK if you think I am a slut." Hopefully it wouldn't notice the bumper sticker right away and would be being honked at all. the. time.

#2. Along the same lines as #1, I wanted to put a sign in its yard (at night) that said the same thing as #1, so in the morning all the neighbors would see it and HONK.

#3. Wanted to send a used "sex toy" to OW and include a note saying "Thought you might enjoy this as you seem to like other women's sex toys."

#4. Was going to send a big box of elephant shit to it from shitsenders that sends elephant, cow, or gorilla shit for you.

#5. Wanted to send umpteen different someecards to OW. Great sarcastic and bitchy humor.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 1:13 PM, August 19th (Tuesday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10087 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
MailServer
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I considered doing a revenge. I still have the setup, but, filed away on an external hard drive for a rainy day.

All electronic correspondance - chats, emails, facebook messages, and phone messages.

All pictures of the two of them together, at events pretending to be a couple.

I bought both their names as website domains.

Texts journaling their affair, the events and get together dates while I was home with not a care in the world - or suspicions.

All neatly itemized and typed into "chapters".

All I have to do is upload to a hosting service and click on PUBLISH.


BS/Me (58)
WH (58) 3 years behind my back. EA & PA
OW (57) Old high school friend
1 Adult Child
DDay: August 26 2012
5 Ddays since then.
The 5th was a total Nuclear Meltdown
Reconciling. Sort of. It's not him. It's me.

Posts: 118 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: East of the Grape Vine
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shitsenders......duly noted. Thanks. You never know when that might come in handy.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 2607 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
annb
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW husband had an A. Maybe more than one.

Wouldn't wish this sh*t on anyone else, but she got what she deserved.

That karma bus made a stop at her house and plunged into it repeatedly.

ETA:

Shitsenders......duly noted. Thanks. You never know when that might come in handy.

^^^^Yup!

[This message edited by annb at 1:00 PM, August 19th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 7666 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
Not.the.Big.Easy
♂ 2569
Member # 2569
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My outlandish revenge scenario was way back my first time here. The OM was a doctor and from the information I was able to dig up about him, other than his daughter and sleeping around with women in relationships, his job was his life.

Please keep in mind, this is a thought game. This is not EVER to be done to someone.

OK, so the strongest part of poison ivy is the sap, so here's what you do. Collect a bit of sap, and place it unobtrusively on their outer car door handle while they are at work. Nobody would go BACK to work to wipe a little gunk off their hands. So they get in their car, contaminating the steering wheel, radio, and other things. A person is 7 times more likely to touch their face while driving than any other time. They go home, touching things all the way. Maybe they try to wash off the "gunk" after they get home. Too late. They get the rash all over the place, and nothing they can do will get rid of it because everywhere has been contaminated. Ergo, no more patients for dr. loser.

Again, do not try this on anyone. It is cruel, and possibly life threatening. Play these revenge games ONLY IN YOUR HEAD!!!! The best part of keeping it in your head is that you know that truly, you have great power AND great responsibility. YOU are a true SUPERHERO for not abusing your power.


Me: BH (44)
Her: WW (37)(EAish)
Dday 7/23/14
Dday #2 9/9/14
TT #1 10/4/14
TT #2 10/14/14
Remorse? Safety?
D/R? who knows...

Posts: 145 | Registered: Oct 2003 | From: Vermont
JLyn1128
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First, let me start with.... I don't hate the OW because she had sex with my WSO. I could almost feel sorry for her because she was used so badly. However, she has been enormously bad to me with hurtful texts calling me names I can't even print, much less say out loud. So....game on with her.

And, yes, yes, I know we should never entertain thoughts of hurting someone else, illegalities, and just negative thinking (yada yada)...but, I still have a file with the pictures she sent him of her naked breasts. She lives in a fairly small town... I constantly think of making a 100 copies and putting them on the windshield of every car in every bar in town with her name and phone number. "Like what you see? Call me" Believe me, if I thought I could get away with it, I'd do it.

Now, back to positive energy....


Me BSO 62
Him WSO 62
Together 29 years, living together 17. He's been with her off and on for half of that.
OW - Available. Thinks 'love' is in the way he looks at her.
Status - R and hopeful

Posts: 107 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: CA
JLyn1128
♀ 41915
Member # 41915
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@Junebug........ you send send a copy of the book "How to Help Your Spouse Heal..." as a wedding present. Lets see her open that up at the wedding.


Me BSO 62
Him WSO 62
Together 29 years, living together 17. He's been with her off and on for half of that.
OW - Available. Thinks 'love' is in the way he looks at her.
Status - R and hopeful

Posts: 107 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: CA
Ambergray
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After dday, I was out of my mind, and for a few days I was planning to show up at her church on Sunday morning, walk straight up to the pulpit, and out her in front of everyone. She was a youth/children leader. I felt like they should all know what a slut was leading their children. I didn't go through with it because I worried about her retaliating and ruining my life by embarrassing me like that.

The injustice is what still haunts me.


Me-38
WH-38
Dday June 2013

"What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson


Posts: 113 | Registered: Sep 2013
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I, too, had the idea of sending a box of used vibrators, etc. With a note that said, "Since you seem to like my used sex toys, here's an assortment for you."

I also considered taking out a full page ad in the local newspaper that said, "Correction/retraction: P***** C****** is not a nasty whore and I apologize for saying that. Just because she slept with my husband and took money from him does NOT make her a bad person."


With my X-wh, who was too chickenshit to ever come back to SC and face me, I had an elaborate fantasy of hiring someone to subdue him and forcibly tattoo his genitals with something that looked like a horrible disease. He'd either have to endure having it removed or look like a massive STD for the rest of his life.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2937 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Jospehine85
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And, yes, yes, I know we should never entertain thoughts of hurting someone else, illegalities, and just negative thinking (yada yada)...but, I still have a file with the pictures she sent him of her naked breasts. She lives in a fairly small town... I constantly think of making a 100 copies and putting them on the windshield of every car in every bar in town with her name and phone number. "Like what you see? Call me" Believe me, if I thought I could get away with it, I'd do it.

Great minds think a like. I have the same kind of photos. I even mocked up the flyer. I would love to hire a company to distribute them all over the hotel and cars at the next conference she attends, while simultaneously having them distributed all over her neighborhood while she is gone. Yes I have her home address.


Me - BS 40s
WH - 50s
4 Kids
Dday May 2012

Posts: 1056 | Registered: Jun 2012
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I, too, had the idea of sending a box of used vibrators, etc. With a note that said, "Since you seem to like my used sex toys, here's an assortment for you."
HFSSC, I probably got the idea from you! I liked it very much. It went into my inventory of "revenge fantasies".


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10087 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just want emotional and mental pain bestowed upon her. She's always so calm, cool, and collected. I want a snot pouring tear stained face in the fetal position on the bathroom floor. I want her to feel stupid, used, unloved, insecure, everything ive
felt. I want her to fall hard, undeniably in love, then get her heart smashed to smithereens. Not asking for much

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 6:16 PM, August 19th (Tuesday)]


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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