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User Topic: thinking about my foo
DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Father - MH
Mother - NPD MH
Maternal Grandmother - NPD
Moms brother - NPD
Moms sister - CoD
Oldest brother - MH
Next oldest brother - BS suicide
Next older brother - NPD MH
Friend - BS suicide
Friend - SA
Cousin - MH

My God, these are the people that I grew up with. This is part of the nightmare of my life. The more I think about my FOO. The more pissed I get. just needed to get my thoughts out. There are many times I feel like I never stood a chance. But I am better than that now. I will put an and to that cycle. I will raise my kids with love and honor.


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


Posts: 893 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey DocJ. Right there with ya. Infuriating. Not that I'm trying to compare, but i think we have more in common than I thought. If you don't mind, here's my FOO:

Mother - MH, NPD, 2 suicide attempts
Father - MH
Brother - suicide at 17yo

All on mother's side:
Aunt - CoD
Cousin - WH
Uncle - suspected WSO, suicide in early 20s
Grandmother - WW (multiple As) NPD?, Huntington's
Grandmother's Brother - suspected WH, Huntington's
Great grandfather - WH (multiple As), NPD?, suicide 40s

eta - added my mother's suicide attempts

[This message edited by yearsofpain25 at 9:17 PM, August 21st (Thursday)]


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2480 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
trip3
♂ 44441
Member # 44441
Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm confused by all the acronyms.


Me: WH 34
Her: BW 30 (Margypan)
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” -Ernest Hemingway

Posts: 53 | Registered: Aug 2014
DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My BS just reminded me.

Maternal grandfather teen boy predator pedophile
Maternal greatgrandfather teen girl predator pedophile
Paternal grandmother we multiple A. Dc from many donors

What a freaking mess


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


Posts: 893 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trip
MH mad hatter both BS and WS
NPD Narcissistic personality disorder
CoD Co Dependant


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


Posts: 893 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Going forward, we break the chain.


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2480 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely.

An irony in it all. I have the lineage of 2 kings. I surely do not feel very royal right now. Except maybe a royal pain in the ass.

Thanks so much for sharing. It is always great to know you are not alone in this battle.


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


Posts: 893 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Father - Closeted until his 60s
Mother - NPD BS homicide/suicide attempt upon learning about dad
Maternal Grandmother - NPD
Moms sister - MH Bi-Polar one suicide attempt
Maternal Grandfather- suicide when I was one
Dad's sister- WS Histrionic NPD Borderline
Sister- Borderline PD Bi-polar multiple suicide attempts WS

Ick.


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