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Topic: thinking about my foo

DrJekyll
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Posted: 7:41 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

Father - MH
Mother - NPD MH
Maternal Grandmother - NPD
Moms brother - NPD
Moms sister - CoD
Oldest brother - MH
Next oldest brother - BS suicide
Next older brother - NPD MH
Friend - BS suicide
Friend - SA
Cousin - MH

My God, these are the people that I grew up with. This is part of the nightmare of my life. The more I think about my FOO. The more pissed I get. just needed to get my thoughts out. There are many times I feel like I never stood a chance. But I am better than that now. I will put an and to that cycle. I will raise my kids with love and honor.

A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest

yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012

Posted: 8:08 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

Hey DocJ. Right there with ya. Infuriating. Not that I'm trying to compare, but i think we have more in common than I thought. If you don't mind, here's my FOO:

Mother - MH, NPD, 2 suicide attempts
Father - MH
Brother - suicide at 17yo

All on mother's side:
Aunt - CoD
Cousin - WH
Uncle - suspected WSO, suicide in early 20s
Grandmother - WW (multiple As) NPD?, Huntington's
Grandmother's Brother - suspected WH, Huntington's
Great grandfather - WH (multiple As), NPD?, suicide 40s

eta - added my mother's suicide attempts

[This message edited by yearsofpain25 at 9:17 PM, August 21st (Thursday)]

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 4476 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US

trip3
♂ 44441
Member # 44441

Posted: 8:13 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

I'm confused by all the acronyms.

Me: WH 34
Her: BW 30 (Margypan)
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” -Ernest Hemingway

Posts: 55 | Registered: Aug 2014

DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618

Posted: 8:18 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

My BS just reminded me.

Maternal grandfather teen boy predator pedophile
Maternal greatgrandfather teen girl predator pedophile
Paternal grandmother we multiple A. Dc from many donors

What a freaking mess

A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest

DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618

Posted: 8:21 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

Trip
MH mad hatter both BS and WS
NPD Narcissistic personality disorder
CoD Co Dependant

A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest

yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012

Posted: 8:25 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

Going forward, we break the chain.

Posts: 4476 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US

DrJekyll
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Member # 43618

Posted: 8:30 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

Absolutely.

An irony in it all. I have the lineage of 2 kings. I surely do not feel very royal right now. Except maybe a royal pain in the ass.

Thanks so much for sharing. It is always great to know you are not alone in this battle.

A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest

ThoughtIKnewYa
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Posted: 8:57 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014

Father - Closeted until his 60s
Mother - NPD BS homicide/suicide attempt upon learning about dad
Maternal Grandmother - NPD
Moms sister - MH Bi-Polar one suicide attempt
Maternal Grandfather- suicide when I was one
Dad's sister- WS Histrionic NPD Borderline
Sister- Borderline PD Bi-polar multiple suicide attempts WS

Ick.

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