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User Topic: Hey! What's going on with your weekend?
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm on Long Island in my hometown again visiting friends. Last night a high school friend (40+ years ago ) put on a Short Film show. One was so funny, I was crying. Afterward, we went a new bar that wasn't even open yet; she had a private party just for the film-goers.

Today I went shopping with one of my friends and then we had lunch. We talk every week or so on the phone, but it was good to catch up over a meal.

Tonight was another BBQ with the friends who always put me up when I'm here. Other friends came by and we had lots of laughs (and sangria and lemoncello )

Tomorrow I'm going to the Lush store in the mall to pick up my sorely missed bath and beauty supplies, then the craft store. Tomorrow night I'm taking my hosts out for a seafood dinner.

I love my friends

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25300 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
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Default  Posted: 11:29 PM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

huh. I started the weekend throwing up with a rather nasty 12 hour bug. Followed that with a appointment with a doc about my ankle which was a good news/bad news kind of thing.

Today there were household chores and then we (me and the boys) had dinner with local friends we don't see often enough. Followed by the ever exciting back to school supply shopping. (I wish I had a nickel for every time three boys said "Oooooh! sharpies!!!!")

The boys and I watched the new Doctor Who.

Tomorrow? Hopefully neither of the boys will pick up the virus, since DS13 says his tummy hurts. Backpack packing and sorting said school supplies and school clothes.

I want to be you Sazzy when I grow up.

Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 7052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was having a pretty good day until I saw my ex and OW drive past me in his car. It has thrown me off my game. My weekend is a downer. I'll try to keep busy tomorrow and go visit some friends - always the cure for what ails me!

D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 796 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, August 23rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have my beautiful kids with me this weekend. Last night I introduced dd8 to Dr Who (I'm on season 2).

Today I took them to a water park, the library, and they had a play date over. DD8 said it's the best day of her life (prone to hyperbole at that age)

While they hung out together I reorganized my kitchen, now that I've been living in the new place for a little while and have some data on how we all move across the kitchen. All tupperwares are stowed in the right places and the sandwich baggies are right under the place we make sandwiches in the morning. I'm a busy single dad, every little second helps.

Tomorrow I have church, an activity with the kids and some shopping for socks for them.

Kids are now asleep and satisfied and I was able to keep the house mostly clean throughout the play date.. It's so peaceful without the WW-nagtress. I think I want to stay single for quite a while. Or find someone who likes peace and quiet someday.

Because - as Louis CK says, this s*** is thoroughly good...

Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome

Posts: 1012 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, August 24th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am without my little ones this weeken, but DD16 and I went to the Miranda Lambert concert last night with my sister and some friends. A lot of fun. Today was a very lazy day and tomorrow is cleaning!!! WooHoo!!!!!!!!

Me: BW
2 DD: 18 & 5; 1 DS: 10
Divorced May 2015
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 539 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
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Default  Posted: 12:58 AM, August 24th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yesterday my AC was being replaced, and it was looking to be more of a job than maintenance expected. So I spent the night at DD2's house. I shared my birthday breakfast with DGD.
I came home to a cool apt. YAY
Then went dancing and met another lady with the same birthday! It was fun.

Tomorrow chores, cleaning and watching DGD while DD works.

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6708 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, August 24th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Friday, I met a good friend in the afternoon, and some former co workers in the evening- this is where I worked when I was going throughout the D. Those people got me through.

Yesterday, I went to an outdoor antique show with a girl friend. After she left, I toured an old fort (history nerd here).

Last night, we got together for sister/nephew/nephew birthdays. Today is grass cutting, groceries, and more nephew celebration- because he doesn't like shared celebrations- it's all about him.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9154 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, August 24th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I run the nocturnal lands 5k yesterday I haven't quite decided what to do with myself today yet

Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3666 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, August 24th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

traici - whatever it is you decide, it should include at least some ice!

Posts: 7268 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, August 25th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so peaceful without the WW-nagtress.

GPlayed, after you've collected enough kitchen data, we would like to see the cost-benefit analysis.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 10:38 AM, August 25th (Monday)]

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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