My only regret is staying with him for so long.
There is not only happiness, but blissful peace of mind. I no longer spend hours wondering what he is doing. Instead, I spend hours doing things I want, even if it's sitting at home.
The beginning is daunting. Everything seems so hard and like a major mountain to climb. Then slowly, it becomes easier.
My Ex would not admit to anything. In fact, if I saw him today, I'm sure he would still deny anything was happening, even though he and the OW are married.
However, happiness without him - without a doubt.
[This message edited by travels at 7:12 AM, August 24th (Sunday)]