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Topic: What's a good book for waywards to deal with foo issues?

cannibal
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Posted: 9:31 PM, August 28th (Thursday), 2014

Just looking for suggestions for a good book for my SO. We've read through a few relationship books, but I would like her to try and work through a few of her issues. At this point I feel it would be the best thing to help me feel more comfortable with our R.

Me: BF 36 Her: FWF 37 dss: 18
D-day: 06/06/04. Ons
D-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ months
Seperation after dday
Moved back in 6/20/13
Broke n/c: 07/24/13
Together since: 02/05/02

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Home of the Derby

Jrazz
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Posted: 12:42 AM, August 29th (Friday), 2014

Toxic Parents by Dr. Susan Forward is uh-Mayzing. Very insightful.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

cannibal
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Posted: 4:17 AM, August 29th (Friday), 2014

Thanks jrazz. I downloaded a sample and plan to pass it along. Any other suggestions welcome. I'm reading through a sample of The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz right now.

[This message edited by cannibal at 4:19 AM, August 29th, 2014 (Friday)]

Me: BF 36 Her: FWF 37 dss: 18
D-day: 06/06/04. Ons
D-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ months
Seperation after dday
Moved back in 6/20/13
Broke n/c: 07/24/13
Together since: 02/05/02

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Home of the Derby

Jrazz
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Posted: 7:52 AM, August 29th (Friday), 2014

Can you tell us a little more about the particular FOO issues? That might help.

For example, if your SO's parents were alcoholics, exploring literature about Adult Child of Alcoholics could be really beneficial as well.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

rachelc
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Posted: 9:05 AM, August 29th (Friday), 2014

well gosh, considering what's going on in my healing thread, I'm kindleing this book.

thanks Jrazz!

[This message edited by rachelc at 9:05 AM, August 29th (Friday)]

Posts: 7613 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest

HardenMyHeart
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Posted: 12:11 AM, August 30th (Saturday), 2014

Healing The Child Within: Discovery and Recovery for Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families by Charles L. Whitfield

Here is the Amazon Link:
http://www.amazon.com/Healing-The-Child-Within-Dysfunctional/dp/0932194400

Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 33 years, Together 40 years - Reconciled

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