We recognize infidelity affects everyone, and that both men and women can be the betrayers or the betrayed. Where words such as "he" are used in a general sense, they are meant in the universal sense, and are not necessarily male-specific.

Discovery/Confrontation

• About Emotional Affairs - Tinkerdandy

• Getting the Truth - Erica

• Shattered Vows: Getting Beyond Betrayal - Dr. Shirley Glass

• Infidelity Through the Tear Stained Eyes of The Betrayed - Erica
  Traducción al español - por BrokenGlass

• Symptoms of the Wayward Spouse and Recognizing Withdrawal - Deeply Scared

• The No Contact Agreement - Deeply Scared

• Understanding Boundaries - Tough Love - Deeply Scared

• Signs of Cheating - MsLonely and members of SI.com

• The Care and Feeding of an infidelity - werelemming

• Stages of Infidelity - Deeply Scared

• Checklist For Hidden Anger - cd103

• Feels like 9/11 - Looking4Light

• Marital Tsunami - Maritalwhiplash

• Quick Start Guidelines - Poodlepapa

• Plummeting Down the Rabbit Hole - KhristinaC

• Research on Internet Infidelity - Erzulie

• Details of An Affair - Start to End - KhristinaC & H

• The Fog - Ivey

• Suicidal Thoughts - Ivey

• Open Letter To All The New WS's - Vnusmars

• Joseph's Letter - Originally shared with the BAN Group on DearPeggy.com - People can currently find information about Local BAN Support Groups at BeyondAffairs.com

• Dealing With Depression - Markus ur Alias

Recovery/Reconciliation

• On Risks - Leo Buscaglia

• Reconciliation the Wrong Way and Reconciliation the Right Way - Erica

• Choosing a Therapist - Erica

• Overcoming My Biggest Trigger - Erica

• Forgiveness - Dr. Shirley Glass/Erica

• Sex With Your Spouse After Infidelity - Erica

• What the WS/BS Must Do to Reconcile - Erica

• Journal Writings the First Year and Healing Timeline - Erica

• Rebuilding Trust - Erica

• Labeled the "Cheat" - Errin

• Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - Erica

• Midlife Crisis - Errin

• The WS’s consequences in Reconciliation - Maureen2002

• In Spite of it All - TheWriteGirl

• Are promises enough? Six Signs of True Repentance - a Christian Perspective - BB

• Acknowledging Set Backs and Triggers - Devoted 4ever

• The Role of the WS and Achieving Healing - Synergy

• Plain of Lethal Flatness - BlindJustice

• A Wayward Spouse's perspective on the loss of innocence in a marriage and hope for a new form of happiness with time - InnocenceLost

• 'Guilt' vs 'Remorse' - FinallyHappy

• Looking Back - Conflicted04

• Compartmentalizing the Affair by the Wayward Spouse - Vnusmars

• Sexual Abuse and Infidelity - Totaldisater

• The Important Truths About Reconciliation - Ladybug_Love

• Fear - HotnSpicy_Chikin & StupidMe

• Courage - HotnSpicy_Chikin & StupidMe

• Comfort Zone - HotnSpicy_Chikin & StupidMe

• What It Means To Keep NC from a WS’s Perspective - Empty2001, Citigirl and ShamefulMale

Divorce/Separation

• The Divorce Grieving Process ­ An Overview - MsLonely

• Legal and Financial Divorce Considerations - BrokenLife

• No Contact with your Wayward Spouse - Catwoman