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User Topic: Ideas Thread: Getting the word out!
Lucky
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, August 1st (Tuesday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Porc, I actually JUST read this

I would be GLAD to help out anyway I can.


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Revkwd
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Default  Posted: 3:19 AM, August 2nd (Wednesday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Porc, I am interested also. 3 years down the road and I am online because I can't sleep!! I want a chapter about the difficulty of healing without knowing the timing, etc. I found out almost 25 years after the fact; and because my husband can't remember; I don't know when, exactly. I am unable to put my life back together as it actually was. My daugter told. She was informed at 13 by one of the OP. This is a whole other ball of wax. Also, I believe secrecy is what promotes infidelity and I am all for bring light and knowledge to the subject. Even smart people assume the marriage sex is bad, right off. In all honestly, that is probably what I believed.

kwd


kwd

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Revkwd
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Default  Posted: 3:20 AM, August 2nd (Wednesday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Porc, I am interested also. 3 years down the road and I am online because I can't sleep!! I want a chapter about the difficulty of healing without knowing the timing, etc. I found out almost 25 years after the fact; and because my husband can't remember; I don't know when, exactly. I am unable to put my life back together as it actually was. My daugter told. She was informed at 13 by one of the OP. This is a whole other ball of wax. Also, I believe secrecy is what promotes infidelity and I am all for bring light and knowledge to the subject. Even smart people assume the marriage sex is bad, right off. In all honestly, that is probably what I believed.

kwd


kwd

Posts: 218 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: DC area
dmanette
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Wink  Posted: 5:38 PM, October 19th (Thursday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay Porcupine, I've resurfaced. Sorry it took me so long but I've got SOOO much going on these days. Now, where are we with this book project and when will it be ready to pitch to publishers?

Let me know,
Danine


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That which does not kill us makes us stronger!


Posts: 208 | Registered: Jul 2003 | From: California
seashells
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Default  Posted: 5:57 AM, October 20th (Friday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Danine !!!

Please notice my tag line ...

Geez, I've been meaning to "write you" for a while, now ...

I hope, that you are doing amazingly well, these days ? ? ?

shells


First - D day - 9-15-05 ...

Second - D day - End of - October of 2005 ...

Not a good time of the year for me :(

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Posts: 2458 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: The Carolinas .....
stupidme
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Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, October 21st (Saturday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Porc, I just saw this and realised that everything I have written for you is still sitting in Word.

I will get it out for you tommorrow and finish it off for you.

Just some minor amendments to do and it is then all yours.

Sorry, mate, I forgot all about it.

My sincere apologies.

SM


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I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars.~Og Mandino~


Posts: 5231 | Registered: Aug 2005 | From: The Great Southern Land
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, December 24th (Sunday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all, it has been several months and I haven't heard anything at all about this. I was just wondering if anyone could provide an update on the status of this project and/or tell what was still needed to do.

I should hate for something this important to be forgotten...!


We must learn to regard people less in the light of what they do or omit to do, and more in the light of what they suffer. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer, writer

A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers. - Robert Quillen, journalist


Posts: 1433 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Southern California
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Content  Posted: 11:02 AM, December 25th (Monday), 2006View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It sounds like an amazing book already...Between work, school, and STBXH's crap I don't have much time left but anything I can do to help


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Posts: 3352 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
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Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, September 16th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would also love to help out in any way that I can! Reading has been one way that I, as the WS, have been able to make sense of some things.

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moveon?
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, September 16th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Obviously I am getting in on this very late, but wanted to know the status now. I can definitely edit/proof read and could contribute to a chapter...maybe a bit on infidelity in NONmarried relationships and the challenges of that...and the stigma that comes along with being THAT person that stayed with someone you "weren't eve married to!" after they cheated...I know there are several of us like that on this site. Just let me know.


Age 43, trying my best not to become jaded...

Posts: 347 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: TX
capri
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, October 15th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you are still looking for writers, please pm me. I do a lot of writing, and have debated whether I have the time for this, but I think I'll make time. Please let me know what you need.

I'm probably too late, but I'd also be willing to do proof-reading.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

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HurtingInDenver
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, October 19th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am a graphic designer and would be happy to do the cover design if needed. PM me if I can hlep.


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This woman so crazy, I swear I ain't going to touch another one for years -B.Dylan


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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, November 17th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i would love to be a part of this project from the view point of online affairs and second life affairs and the dark dangers of internet and cyber affairs please let me know if i can help would love to do something constructive with the mess ive been handed


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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, January 2nd (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just checkign to see hwo this is going...


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TearInYourHand
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Default  Posted: 12:35 AM, January 3rd (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm curious, too. For some reason, I have never noticed this thread in all this time. Would be interested in helping in a small capacity. I have writing / editorial / graphic design skills that are very donatable to this wonderful place.

[This message edited by TearInYourHand at 12:36 AM, January 3rd (Thursday)]


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Posts: 957 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Maryland.
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, January 3rd (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Procupine has stepped back from this project.

It is currently on hold.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with adding infidelity in the military. Been there and done that (not the cheater but on the other side.)



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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, November 16th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Deeply Scared

Hi I know porc has stepped back but can we kick start it again? The structure is there done by those wonderful pair.. what is needed to get it going?


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Posts: 804 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Orange NSW
onestepforward
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, December 9th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's a fabulous idea. Count me in.


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STBXWH: 53
(PA's: 1 proven, 1 unproven and probably more; EA's: multiple over 10+ years ... ongoing)
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Posts: 110 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: France
hardtimes09
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, December 21st (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i was reading these and didnt it occurr to anyone the ideas came out in 2006??? Just a thought not to get ur hopes up for this is all im saying lol!!!

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