i don't think i'm going to bother finding out the hospital policy. if they won't let him in, they won't let him in. if they will, he'll go. maybe there's not much point in him being there, but he's adamant about seeing the kid born.
My husband has decided to have NC with OC or OW. He has made this perfectly clear to his entire family and he has asked if they would respect his choice and not see OC and if they did to not dicuss him or his private life with her. As I have posted in other threads I am not at war with my in laws,but I am not thier favorite person either cause I am not the same religion they are(they are mormon,I am episcopalian,OW is mormon). Because of this my husbands family has not been as "welcoming" to my children as they are to thier other grandchildren and my SIL's have never made a great effort to get to know my children. Well all seemed fine with NC with OC by my husbands family,until we moved across the country. Come to find that no sooner did we move that they contact the OW about seeing the OC,of course she tells me this right away to throw it in my face.My husband called them and asked WTF was going on! Thier response was that they couldn't have a child that belonged in thier family living just across town and not get to know her . My husband reminded them that they had a niece and 2 nephews that used to live 2 houses down that they never gave a damn about getting to know and that didn't seem to bother them . Thier answer for that was they had nothing in common with me . So what!!! Does that mean that just cause she is the same religion as them they have soooo much in common with OW?! My husband has since cut off contact with his sisters and mother,he still speaks to his father cause he tried to stay away from OC but it is hard when my MIL brings her right to thier house. Since my husband has made it clear to them that if that is thier choice he will no longer speak to them for fear they will feed information about him to OW they have tried contacting ME to ask me to talk some sense into him . Are they serious!!! Has this happened to anyone else? Has your FWS family chosen the OP and OC over your spouse and you? Or am I the only lucky one to marry into such an disloyal family?