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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
Surviving2007
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Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((comingundone))))
Thank you for the prayer request. You don't know how NOT ALONE that made me feel. Thank you from the bottom of my broken heart.


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
Maia
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need prayer guys.

I can't even explain for what, too much swirled together

thank you.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He knows what we need when we can't utter the words. I believe the best prayers in the world are silent.
((maia))


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
14thebooks
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please...I need prayers..I very humbly ask you all to pray for my son, for a second chance..
Thank you.


48 y/o WW
50 y/o BS
Married 27 ys

Posts: 553 | Registered: Nov 2006
Surviving2007
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maia~~
praying right now for you and your hard moments

14~~
praying also for your son and his unique situation

It's so easy for me to pray for others and yet I feel unworthy to pray for myself..


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((14)))
praying...........


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
firmforever
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying also

Posts: 303 | Registered: Dec 2006
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.

In each of our stories, it seems that there is just too much stuff, so complicated and intertwined, like being in a tornado.

Dear God, please still the pounding of our hearts and calm our minds and lift up our broken spirits so we can come to you with focus and without fear. Lord, we come to you for strength and comfort and clarity.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
rainedon
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying now- (((14))) and (((maia)))- He knows our hearts even when we don't.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
Maia
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you guys right now.

I feel your prayers, thank you.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
just_s
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you now.

Maia, Surviving, 14, firm, fallen and all the rest.

It is amazing. It is easier to pray for others than ourselves sometimes. But God knows our hearts. There were(and are) so many days I couldn't pray. I was so overwhelmed. The prayers of others on my behalf lifted me and sustained me. I ask that now for all here on SI and specifically this thread, that are in that position. Lift them up Lord. You know their hearts, their needs, their desires. Help them feel your loving arms around them, sustaining them.

Thank you for your prayers guys. I have felt them too.

Blessings for a peaceful weekend. S


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: North Carolina
tater
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying now for Maia, 14 and itsabaddream. May God's peace bless you.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
rainedon
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

-taken from Pastor Steve's weekly email: thought we all could use this

One of the greatest artists that ever lived on the face of the earth was a man by the name of Rembrandt who lived in the Netherlands from 1606 until 1669. The 6000 paintings of Rembrandt's have appeared in art museums all over the world. The range of his works includes landscapes, portraits, animals, historical subjects, and paintings inspired by stories from the Old and New Testaments. I have always found it interesting that Rembrandt produced only one painting of the sea, and it was entitled, "Christ in the Storm on the Sea of Galilee."
However, there is something very unique about the painting. When you gaze upon the painting and begin to count the twelve disciples, you then discover that there are thirteen disciples, not twelve. All of a sudden, you realize that one of the disciples is different from all of the rest. He is wearing the typical Dutch dress of the seventeenth century. You finally realize that Rembrandt had painted a picture of himself in the fishing boat with Jesus and His twelve disciples.
Over the past 350 years, people who have gazed upon this masterpiece of Rembrandt's entitled, "Christ in the Storm of the Sea of Galilee," have asked the question, "Why did Rembrandt picture himself in the fishing boat with Jesus and the twelve disciples?" The most frequent answer suggests that Rembrandt wanted to remind himself, amid all of the storms of his personal life, of the eternal presence of Jesus Christ to bring peace.
We live in a world where bad things happen. Perhaps we need to remember Rembrandt and how he painted himself in the painting "Christ in the Storm of the Sea of Galilee." How he wanted to remind himself, amid all of the storms of life, of the eternal presence of Jesus Christ to bring peace. May we seek the peace of Christ in the very depths of our souls. No matter what we face.in our day to day lives.may we have the peace of Christ.
Jesus said, "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you; not as the world gives peace, but as I give peace."
May we seek, not the peace the world gives, but the peace Jesus gives.

My prayers for each of you my SI friends....


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Surviving2007
Maia
14thebooks
Fallen
*Abyss

And everyone...

Praying for you. God's strength, and peace, be with all of you. May he comfort you in your times of need.

I hope everyone has a great weekend. My wife and I are going to spend some time together before she goes away on business Sunday; please pray that it will plant a seed of forgiveness and renewal in her heart - the walls are still pretty firmly up. Thanks to God for all the good times we are still able to share.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen to just_s' post. it is amazing, and rained thanx for the reminder ~ amid the storm, peace.

Prayer request: WF has been called back to Taiwan as soon as next week. We cannot avoid this trip, so I think I will be joining him. Bad timing with school just started - but evidently -it is the right time, cuz it's here. Pray for understanding from my instructors and my WF. Since I have a choice I cannot sit here waiting again. He wants me to trust him, and I do want to too. Please keep us in your prayers.

Praying for all, G

[This message edited by Gingersnap at 10:06 PM, April 20th (Friday)]


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
askinwhy
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, April 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got this in an email today so I figured i would share it.


WOW, WHAT A WAKEUP!

Dear God:

Why didn't you save the school children at ?. ..

Moses Lake, Washington 2/2/96
Bethel, Alaska 2/19/97
Pearl, Mississippi 10/1/97
West Paducah, Kentucky 12/1/97
Stamp, Arkansas 12/15/97
Jonesboro, Arkansas 3/24/98
Edinboro, Pennsylvania 4/24/98
Fayetteville, Tennessee 5/19/98
Springfield, Oregon 5/21/98
Richmond, Virginia 6/15/98

Littleton, Colorado 4/20/99
Taber, Alberta, Canada 5/28/99
Conyers, Georgia 5/20/99
Deming, New Mexico 11/19/99
Fort Gibson, Oklahoma 12/6/99
Santee, California 3/ 5/01
El Cajon, California 3/22/01 and
Blacksburg, VA 4/16/07 ?

Sincerely,

Concerned Student

-----------------------------------------------------

Reply:

Dear Concerned Student:
Sorry,

I am not allowed in schools.

Sincerely,

God

----------------------------------------------------------

How did this get started?...

-----------------

Let's see,
I think it started when Madeline Murray O'Hare complained
She didn't want any prayer in our schools.

And we said, OK.

------------------

Then, someone said you better not:

Read the Bible in school;
the Bible that says
"thou shalt not kill,
Thou shalt not steal,
And love your neighbors as yourself,"

And we said, OK...

-----------------

Dr. Benjamin Spock said
We shouldn't spank our children
When they misbehaved
Because their little personalities
Would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem.

And we said,
An expert should know what he's talking about
So we won't spank them anymore..

------------------

Then someone said
Teachers and principals better not
Discipline our children when they misbehave.
And the school administrators said
No faculty member in this school
Better touch a student when they misbehave
Because we don't want any bad publicity,
And we surely don't want to be sued.

And we accepted their reasoning...

------------------

Then someone said,
let's let our daughters have abortions if they want,
And they won't even have to tell their parents.

And we said, that's a grand idea.

------------------

Then some wise school board member said,
Since boys will be boys
And they're going to do it anyway,
let's give our sons all the condoms they want,
So they can have all the fun they desire,
And we won't have to tell their parents they got them at school.

And we said, that's another great idea...

------------------

Then some of our top elected officials said
It doesn't matter what we do in private as long as we do our jobs.

And we said,
It doesn't matter what anybody, including the President,
Does in private as long as we have jobs and the economy is good....

------------------

And someone else took that appreciation a step further
And published pictures of nude children
And then stepped further still by
Making them available on the Internet.

And we said, everyone's entitled to free speech....

------------------

And the entertainment industry said,
let's make TV shows and movies that promote
Profanity, violence and illicit sex...
And let's record music that encourages
Rape, drugs, murder, suicide, and satanic themes...

And we said,
it's just entertainment
And it has no adverse effect
And nobody takes it seriously anyway,
So go right ahead.

------------------

Now we're asking ourselves
Why our children have no conscience,
Why they don't know right from wrong,
And why it doesn't bother them to
Kill strangers, classmates or even themselves.

------------------

Undoubtedly,
If we thought about it long and hard enough,
We could figure it out.
I'm sure it has a great deal to do with...

"WE REAP WHAT WE SOW"

------------------

Pass it on
If you think it has merit!
If not then just discard it...
But if you discard this thought process,
Then don't you dare sit back and complain about
What bad shape this country is in!!


Why is it our children can not read a Bible in school, but can in Prison.


me: bs/ ws 27
him: ws/bs 37 (his still cheating but I stoped!)
1 child together she is 19 months old

Posts: 211 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Calif.
vidajeanne
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thankfully, It is OK for kids to read the Bible in school and to pray silently and to initiate a religious club on campus.

I went to a special program called challenge day at a Junior High school and was a small group facilitator there. The day was dedicated to helping kids open up about their feelings and about what is going on in their lives at home and at school. It was dedicated to breaking the students out of isolation and bridging gaps and ending oppression among the groups at the school. Thei motto is 'Be the Change". On this particular day one student felt courage enough to share the difference that developing a relationship with Jesus Christ has made in his life. He was received well by all 120 people or so irregardless of the varying religions represented. I felt encouraged.

I am praying for you all the best I can.


on the other hand - I have other fingers
**********
Practice makes progress

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itsa(bad)dream
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Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying a prayer for all of you. No need to mention names, my prayers are for everyone.

Keep me in your thoughts this weekend. It's been a terrible week. Things are coming to an end and I know it and feel lost.

Thank you.


M=13 yrs.(both 2nd M) ME:BS HIM:WH
1st A:summer 01. EA & PA
2nd A (3/03): same person,EA,never cut contact.
3rd A: 12/23/06 NEW OW. EA & PA(in contact with her for the past 2 yrs)
*4/15/07-we are NOT trying to R. Only I was.He's just being a

Posts: 249 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Limbo
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 3:08 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

V, thank you for sharing that, it brought a smile to my tear stained face since I am getting battered by the reality of my ugly life particularly now.

It's A Bad Dream, I read your profile & see the same sort of battle I have had with my WS which I have related in my profile. My saddened heart goes out to your equally shattered one as do my prayers.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

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