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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:58 PM, April 28th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:-)

vj. I think you're onto something there. Definitely. What was it CS Lewis said? Maybe God doesn't want us to be happy. Maybe he wants us to Grow Up and the blows of the hammer that hurt so much, sculpt us into His image. Or something like that. Reminded me of it while i was reading that.

but anyhow. thank you for sharing that. it is a lovely ...perfect.. picture. I hope I can retain it next time I'm screaming and throwing my tantrum


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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stillbelievin
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, April 29th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying through the list this morning. Thanks for posting it Maia.

Thank you father that you never leave us nor fosake us and that you give us the tools to fight the enemy. Give us wisdom and insight in what tools to use and the strength to stand. Greater is He that is In me, than he that is in the world. Jesus has already defeated Satan. Thank you Lord that the enemy IS defeated. Thank you Lord for Your stength in whatever our situations may be. I thank you Lord that I know you are there and that you are guiding me each step of the way.


Me: FWS
Him: BS
Married for 29 years.
Reconciling and looking forward to getting our lives back! Praise God we are getting there a day at a time!

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IEve
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, April 29th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

VJ- Thank you. I got it. Father, thank you for using VJ a yielded vessel to edify your people.

For the weapons of this warfare are not carnal. I am putting on the whole armor of God.

Peace and blessing to you all.


Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all of your heart. Lean not on your own understanding, acknowledge him in all your ways and he will direct your paths.

Posts: 356 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Maryland
IEve
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, April 29th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Adding empty2011 to our prayer list. She is battling sexual addiction and hopeless. Re: I wish I could go to church.


Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all of your heart. Lean not on your own understanding, acknowledge him in all your ways and he will direct your paths.

Posts: 356 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Maryland
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, April 29th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

vj - you touched on something in me. thank you.
praying the list.

prayer request: pray for our family to remain intact. (me, WF, and 2 dogs)

Edited to add: Prayed the list tonight ~

[This message edited by Gingersnap at 10:25 PM, April 29th (Sunday)]


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, April 29th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying through the list tonight.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
tater
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, April 29th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying through the list. God bless you all.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
LuvMyWH
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, April 29th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the prayers. H warmed up. I actually thought the day after I posted ... SI must be praying for me. I tell you everytime I post something ... my prayers I can feel it ... the calm just kinda moves over me.

It's been a really tough week at work. Not comfortable with details. But it is amazing to me how adults can just totally slaughter and misperceive the words that come out of our mouths ... something intended totally for encouragement intepreted as something totally off the wall. Didn't we all do that circle activity in school where the teacher tells the first person something and by the time it gets to the last person it is completely unrelated to what the teacher said. My D has already done it several times. And gossip .. Let's just say I didn't come home a day last week without being totally exhausted. Went to be at 6:30 one night and 8:30 another.

I don't have a problem with conflict. I just don't like petty drauma, antics, and childish games.

Too sum it up .. I know full well what satan is doing and I need some prayer warriors to help me cone the Armor with me bc there litigiousness is in the air for all over not wanting to own one's own doodoo.

I learn that saying about owning one's own doodoo here. And it is so funny how I've come to see it apply to so many things in life.

I didn't mean to rattle on guys. I do so miss everyone. It's just been so busy. So much adjustment ... so much work to do at work and the home front.

Love you guys and gals. Always in my thoughts and my prayers. Sometimes it's when going down the road, other times as I lay my head down. And occassionally when I am peeping in here and there.

On a last not be sure to check out my update in recon and the poem/quote I shared with the newbies in JFO....I have lots of praises.


"If God is with me who could be against me!"
D-Day 12/21/05; R-Day 12/30/05
Me - BS/40; WS/40; 2 DDs

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Anjin
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Default  Posted: 6:45 AM, April 30th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for everyone.

Need prayers too. BW is still on her business trip. We had a nice weekend via cell phone - she shared pics of where she was at, and we chatted a good bit. Through the past week she has initiated calls as well as my calling her. I had hid a little stuffed Eeyore in her suitcase (she likes that character) and a card...she told me earlier she enjoyed them both.
Still, I feel the walls still there...no I love you's, no I miss you's...although she said that she was looking forward to sharing the pics of her trip with me when she gets back.
May is the day her lease is up on her apartment, and I don't have any idea if she is resigning or not. I assume she is, but she hasn't said, and I feel like I'm prying if I ask.
I feel really hopeful when we are interacting...but if we have a serious talk she is still saying she doesn't want to be involved in the marriage. So, I guess I'm scared that my hopes are not grounded in reality. I just simply don't know what to do most of the time. I really, really miss my wife. There's nothing I would not do to help regain her trust, faith, and love in me. I keep hoping for a breakthrough...am I wrong for hoping?


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

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tater
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, April 30th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

luvmywh & anjin-added you guys to my prayers this morning.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, April 30th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think you're wrong for hoping Anjin. Ask her about it.

praying through the list today.

please pray for me to have time and focus to get caught up on my projects today.

please pray for God to heal the wounded little girl in me and to heal the battered and violated and angry teen. Both of those selves of mine need to be healed and ...integrated. They've been dominating me for too long because they were first crushed and then denied ...and then ignored.

and this may sound odd but I have a spiritual insight hovering around my heart and I can't quite reach it, I need it to come clear. I feel it but can't express it.

thank you.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, April 30th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Luv, Ajin, tater & Maia praying now for you friends.

No contact from WF in four days, hope he is busy working, reflecting and feeling all your prayers.

Can't stop anxiety, lord calm me, and hold WF. Help him feel the love he has at home.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, April 30th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.

You are all so important to me.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 5:54 AM, May 1st (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.
I don't know where I would be without prayer....


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
tater
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, May 1st (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God bless you guys today.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Surviving2007
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, May 1st (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying right now for everyone!

Asking for prayers today as I am feeling weak and missing OM. I need strength and resolve to refocus on my H.


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
IEve
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, May 1st (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our Heavenly Father,

Bless your Holy name. You are our comforter and sustainer. Blessed be your name in all the Earth.

Rest rule and abide in the lives of your children here on SI. Let your will for there lives be accomplished on this day.

Give to each one of us the words we need to sustain us. Give us the strength to move forward, the faith to trust and the courage to love.

Forgive us our sins -- known and unknown. Cleanse us by the washing of the Holy Spirit that we might known what is your good, perfect and pleasing will.

We offer forgiveness to all who have wronged us. For with the measure it is given, it will be given back to us.

Stay the hand of temptation. Remind us that in you we have the strength to resist temptation.

Now to him who is able to keep us from falling. We offer thanks, blessings and praise. Amen


Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all of your heart. Lean not on your own understanding, acknowledge him in all your ways and he will direct your paths.

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pebbles
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, May 1st (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A friend of mine passed away last night after a tortuous battle with cancer during the past year. She is the wife of one of our employees. This is a sad day for our business because our employees are considered family.

I have selfishly wanted to take her place because they haven't been married long and it was such a happy marriage.

I ask the Lord to help me understand why these horrible things happen and touch the heart of our employee so he can get through this horrific time.


me: BS
Dday 7/23/05
This former rock has been blasted into a mound of pebbles.

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, May 1st (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pardon my language, but D*** this attack. I am weak. Please pray for WF to remain faithful. We we're doing so well before he left. We we're on the right track. Dad tells me to have faith - "you made it through the last one, this trip should be a piece of cake." Gotta love dad!

Sorry for venting/rambling, but I need an army of pray-ers (as Maia calls us ). He's only contacted me once upon his arrival, and we still have a week apart left, if he gets to come home on the planned date.

Oh friends, SI family, Please pray for us. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
G


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

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Anjin
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, May 1st (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone, especially you right now Ginger.

My wife called last night and we had a nice talk. This morning she called again, panicking. She said she didn't know why she called, she wasn't sure I was the best choice, but she had to reach out to someone. Then when I was trying to get her to talk about it, she suddenly said she was better and had to go, and got distant suddenly. The rollercoaster is never fun, but long distance...well, let's just say I'm not a fan :P

Praise though that she does call, and praise for the way He moves in our lives.

God be with all of this this week.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

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