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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, May 2nd (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God,

I am praying that you will provide comfort to all of those in need. Including me, as I continue on the roller coaster of R.

Amen.

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
Maia
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for all of you today.

please lift up weepy and jmd16


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
Insomuchpain
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord, on this National Day of Prayer I lift up those hurting and in pain to you. Please be with all of us BSs and WSs. Help guide us and lead us. Give us strength, patience and wisdom. Show us the way Lord. Show us the way. God, you hear the prayers in our hearts. Please give us comfort in knowing that you are there and carrying us through these difficult times.

Lord, please help deliver me from this anxiety. Help me focus on you Lord. Let me be a vessel of your love in dealing with my WH through my words and actions. Please be with WH. He is so confused and unable to make a decision in his life. Lord, please lead him away from the OW. Lead him home to you. And to me and our DD. Be with the OW and take her out of our lives. Be with those who are giving WH counsel. Let them also be a vessel for you Lord.

I'm continuing to pray for all of you! God bless.

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."


Not "insomuchpain" anymore...
Divorced

Posts: 362 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: A better place now...
vidajeanne
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My report:

Those of you who have beeen praying the list....thank you. With all my heart I thank you. He has amswered every portion of this prayer in intimate detail.

relief from spiritual oppression, strength in her battle and for her finances to be blessed (single mom), help in overcoming depression and pain and fear, help her to post soon, give her hope

No small thing done here. In fact it took miracles. But with God NOTHING is impossible.

I am healing. My needs now are for intimate direction. I need to discover and pursue Father's will, his mission for me. I need inspiration as to how to provide for my son and myself financially without neglecting the supervision and support that he needs and while fulfilling my personal mission (whatever that might be). I need my brain to be healed so that my thinking is organised in light of HIS priorities and so that I can continue in my newly learned patience with myself. So i do not overwhelm myself when I begin to multi-task and so I have the courage and faith to follow what I descern to be promptings from the Lord's spirit without the anxiety that hits me when I second guess those promptings or trouble myself with insecurity.

Intimate requests I know. Still, it helps somehow to acknowlege what those are.

Thank you again for your faith and prayers.


on the other hand - I have other fingers
**********
Practice makes progress

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying, please help me.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
just_s
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Big happenings here. Please pray for me.

Ginger, Vida, Maia, coming, luv, Abyss Anjiin, heartbroken, Insomuch, don't want to leave anyone out. Praying for you all. Will try to pray the list. Don't know if I can think straight.


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: North Carolina
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.
Just-s.....hang in there.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
LuvMyWH
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You know I've been reading through your prayers. And the though crossed my mind I so wish I could kneel and pray with each of you. Then I though how overwhelming it must be for God to hear all of us crying out to him, then yet of course nothing is overwhelming for him. He hears our every prayer, he knows what we need before we say a word, before we even know it. Not to worry he hears us all. As soon as we let go of it, let him handle it, he will work it out for our best, as he knows far better then we ever could. How many times have we known better for our children? When they listen to us they are saved much heartache. When they ignore us, the reep that which we tried to save them from.

Shew! Where did that come from. Ah! I know.

Update: The work sitch, temporarily worked itself out. But then yet I have this nagging gut feeling that something is array with it. Let's just say I feel like I have been walking on eggshells careful to what I say for even the kindest of words get twisted and it makes me nauseas. So keep me in your prayers.

A huge praise! Hubby brought me flowers home for absolutely no special reason.


"If God is with me who could be against me!"
D-Day 12/21/05; R-Day 12/30/05
Me - BS/40; WS/40; 2 DDs

Posts: 1305 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: In God's Hands
tater
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, May 3rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guys I really need prayers. WH is such a difficult person and has been even before his A. He hasn't forgiven me for wrongs that has made him justify his A. I just don't know if we need to stay married or just go ahead and end it. I just feel so sad for my children. I don't want them to be hurt.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

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tater
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, May 4th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know if someone read my post last night and prayed, but about 1/2 hour after I posted last night, WH called and we had a decent talk. So if someone did, thank you.

This is a praise because when WH is mad he stays mad for awhile, so for him to call and be pleasant so quickly is a miracle.

God bless you all today and I will be saying a prayer in a few minutes for all.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Maia
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, May 4th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm praying for you guys right now. all of you.

just s? hang in there.

tater last night it was like your name was highlighted for me for a while, till about 7 pm est.



We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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tater
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, May 4th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maia- thank you for praying I really felt that someone must have been because I saw a radical change in his attitude.

Someone on the Chrisitan radio station mentioned that Satan isn't really worried when we get involved in church or even read our Bible. But that he is really worried when we start to pray. That made me realize that prayer really is effective. So, let's really make him nervous.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Imremorseful
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, May 4th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Everyone!

It's been a while since I've been on SI for a while. I've had some really tough days lately and getting through this divorce has been emotionally wrenching.

I ask that you please keep me in your prayers. God Bless!

IAM


Me: WS
Him: BH
Married 13 years
Divorcing
Praying for healing in 2007

Posts: 99 | Registered: Apr 2006
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, May 4th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your prayers are giving me strength too. I CAN feel you. Please keep us in your prayers WF due home tuesday - and all will be revealed.

Edited to add: Staying focused on the positve.

[This message edited by Gingersnap at 11:46 PM, May 4th (Friday)]


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Feeling so alone
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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, May 5th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm new to SI. I would greatly appreciate being on the prayer list. I found out my WH had a LTA for 10 years. I have been dealing with this for 13 months. I would never have made it this far except that I rely on God's strength everyday. I am trying to hold my family together. Please remember me in your prayers.


Together we're working through an LTA

If a man says something in the woods and there's not a woman there to hear it, is he still wrong?


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LuvMyWH
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, May 5th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tater I am sorry you are going through this. Your sitch sounds so familiar.

I love how I can share here and somehow know that someone is praying for me and then all of the sudden the sitch turns around. God is truly great and I love to see how he works through all of us.

Maia it is funny how we can be in the midst of our day and someone here pop in our minds. I often have that happen even if I haven't popped in in awhile.

On the work sitch. We'll if satan can't get through the door at home guess he's going to try to get through at work. There is alot of drama, both myself and my supervisors are getting some mixed messages about how to deal with it. So I need to ask for some specific prayer. Please pray ...

That God would cover me, my staff, and collegues. That he would reveal to me and my boss the priorities we need to focus on, how he would have us lead those who have been placed in our care, and how to deal with a rather difficult situation. And that all of us would take ownership for our own baggage.

Bless You,

[This message edited by LuvMyWH at 9:27 AM, May 5th (Saturday)]


"If God is with me who could be against me!"
D-Day 12/21/05; R-Day 12/30/05
Me - BS/40; WS/40; 2 DDs

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stillbelievin
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, May 5th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got caught up on the praises and prayer request.

Praying through the list today.


Me: FWS
Him: BS
Married for 29 years.
Reconciling and looking forward to getting our lives back! Praise God we are getting there a day at a time!

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Feeling so alone
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Helpless  Posted: 4:18 PM, May 5th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wondering if any of ya'll have tried praying for the OP. I have been trying to practice this. I can't bring myself to really pray for anything specific other than to tell my Lord that I am trying to practice praying for my enemies. I also must admit that it is probably for selfish reasons. If that will bring me some comfort than I am willing to do it.

I recognise that the only way that I have made it through the last 13 months is with prayer. God has been so GOOD to me. Without him I know that I would be nothing more than a crying heap in the middle of the floor.

Hope that I'm not too wrong to pray for the OP for my own selfish reasons. That is just the best I can do at this time.


Together we're working through an LTA

If a man says something in the woods and there's not a woman there to hear it, is he still wrong?


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comingundone
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, May 5th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Feelingsoalone.
I do pray for the XOM. Not regularly...but occasionally I do.
He obviously needs healing in his life as well.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
just_s
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, May 5th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Feeling.

I know I should pray for OW - that God wants me to. But I am not there yet. I do pray for her family, that they will heal and remain intact.

Praying for you all tonight. These difficult days are wearing me down. Peace to us all. S


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


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