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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, April 7th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all of us. Praying all the time.

H has detoxed from his pain meds successfully, but is in a lot of pain. He will see doctor next month. I'm giving him supplements and herbs and hope they kick in soon to help him.

Love to all.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, April 7th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I've heard a tale that a man would climb a mountain
Just to be with the one he loves.
How many times has he broken that promise?
It has never been done
Well I never climbed the highest mountain,
but I walked the hill of calvary

And just to be with you I'll do anything,
there's no price I would not pay, no
Just to be with you I will give everything.
I would give my life away.
Yeaaaa

I've heard it said that a man would swim an ocean
Just to be with the one he loves.
But all of those dreams are an empty emotion
It can never be done.
Well I never swam the deepest ocean
But I walked upon the raging sea

And just to be with you I'll do anything,
there's no price I would not pay, no
and just to be with you I would give everything.
I would give my life away.
Yeaaaa

And I know that you don't understand the fullness of my love
How I died upon the Cross for your sin
And I know that you don't realize how much that I give you
And I promise I would do it all again

Just to be with you I've done everything
There's no price I did not pay, no
Just to be with you I gave everything
Yes I gave my life away.
Yeaaaaa

Just to be with you
Oh, just to be with you"

- Just to Be With You, Third Day

Happy Easter to you all.

[This message edited by Maia at 11:17 PM, April 7th (Saturday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
Maia
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Member # 8268
Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you all today, through the list. Praises Katie!!! thank you for the update. just_s.. I hope things are better for you, lifting you up.

I am quitting smoking. I haven't had a cigarette since yesterday afternoon (and only had 2 yesterday) This is a big step for me so pray I can keep to it. I'm actually doing pretty well and am happy about it...no battle other than physical withdrawal....which right now is bad.

thanks guys.

[This message edited by Maia at 10:04 AM, April 9th (Monday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 11:22 AM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had to go to the ER yesterday with excruciating chest pains (& vomiting). Didn't know a heart broken that many times still had that much hurt left in it, but it wasn't a heart attack.

Haven't heard from the mtg co yet (sale scheduled this AM & WS is not behaving as he should, don't know what that means yet.

I'm on hold with the repair people now cuz my laptop won't even turn on now.

[This message edited by unicornsearcher at 11:42 AM, April 9th (Monday)]


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UNI!!!! lifting you up right now lady!!!!


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 12:19 PM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Update: Mtg co just called, they have a problem with their fax so are mailing us the extension agrmt (90 days) to hold off the foreclosure. Would have been nice if they had told me that when it happened, but at least I know now & it's good news, thank God!


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone, especially Uni right now. God be with you all this week.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lifting you up Uni!!!!!!
Prayers for Maia to be nicotine free.
Praying for everyone.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
broken0409
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need your prayers. I have such anger for the OW. I know I should pray for her to find a closeness to our Lord, but it's hard for me.


1st D Day - April 9, 2006
2nd D Day - May 5, 2006



Posts: 72 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Virginia
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 10:46 PM, April 9th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys, we really do appreciate all your prayers. Please urgently pray for us because I just had my debit card declined at the grocery store & WS is about to be sleeping in his car, he started working but according to them won't be getting his first paycheck until May 2. They say it takes that long to get the payroll set up.

He is in a cheap hotel but we don't have the money for anything right now, he was planning to find a cheap room ASAP. He's trying to get his travel expenses reimbursed to do that, but the govt isn't known for doing anything quickly & I do have food & a roof over my head with running water here. He won't by the day after tomorrow without some divine intervention, we don't have any credit cards or anyplace to borrow $$ from.

How in the heck do they expect people to survive without their paychecks for that long????


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for uni -- that God will give you strength to deal with all your stress and its physical toll.

Praying for Maia -- that you will give up the false comfort of cigarettes and cleanse your body of the nicotine.

Praying from broken -- that anger can be dissolved.

Oh how our stories and prayer requests speak to me. The stress and its physical toll, the addiction to cigarettes, and the anger.

Maybe when we pray for others, we're praying for ourselves as well.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
unicornsearcher
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Member # 912
Cool  Posted: 4:33 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Update: The mgr refused to wait to get paid, as we were hoping. But a kind SI'er is calling in to get a couple of nites paid for WS, another has also volunteered to do help & we're hoping to get some money owed us in the next few days which will also help. WS is still working on getting a check approved for his travel expenses, which he might be able to get next week he's being told, so please pray that goes thru for us.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Angels among us!


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
unicornsearcher
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Member # 912
Cool  Posted: 5:02 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely! And wonderful prayer warriors to boot!


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
comingundone
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Member # 12452
Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our dear Maia needs our prayers. She is not feeling well. Strict orders to rest. Will be facing a bunch of tests.
She's just drained from it all.
Cowboy up there prayer warriors and let's send em' up for her. Where would we be without our fearless prayer leader???


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

prayers for all..........


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
just_s
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying tonight. Going home tomorrow and will have better access there.

Praying right now Maia! For wisdom for your drs. and strength and endurance.

Uni, Kata, Coming, Ginger, Anjiin, Broken, All... Thank you for your faithfulness and prayers. Blessings, S


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: North Carolina
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 11:33 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maia, sorry to hear you're not feeling well...


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
Maia
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Default  Posted: 3:58 AM, April 11th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you guys, lifting you all up.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Markus ur Alias
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, April 11th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Lord,

I know I've said this to You and others several times but here it is again. I'm very sorry for having not shown Rhonda enough love and affection over the 10 years of our marriage. I know that she was a blessing and I largely took her for granted. That was very wrong of me and I am very, very sorry for it. I know, or at least think I know that this had a lot to do with her affair and the end of our marriage. I am also sorry for throwing away the relationship you gave me with Sydnee. It's been a long time since I felt that way about someone and it felt incredible. It's nice to know that it's even still possible for me to have those feelings about someone. Lord, I hate dating and being alone. Please help me find someone I feel as strongly about as I felt about Sydnee that I can settle down with. If, in fact, you could help us reconnect that would be even better. I believe I have learned my lesson and will never take someone for granted again. Also, please don't make me ever have to deal with adultery or depression again.

Lord, thank You for my 2 beautiful sons. Please help them to know how much I love them. Please keep them safe, happy and healthy throughout their lives. Also, please help us to always have good relations.

Thank you,

Mark

Our Father who art in Heaven
Hallowed be Thy name.
Thy kingdom come.
Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses and we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit. As it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be. World without end. Amen.


"I know the pieces fit cuz I watched them fall away
mildewed and smoldering, fundamental differing,
pure intention juxtaposed will set two lovers souls in motion
disintegrating as it goes testing our communication"
Tool - Schism

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