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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying this CA. morning

Thank you all for your faithfulness. You are my rock.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Maia
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

car broke down and we had to be towed -again- last night. the other car was in the shop parking lot, they had locked the keys in it and I didnt have the other set, they're lost. so I'd prayed all day about those keys. anyhow, the tow guy ended up telling us he used to steal cars and I was all, "really? can you break into an avenger?" and I had him tow us to the shop, open up the other car (which had been repaired) and we drove off, no more fees to open it... lol...praise for that answer... I just thought it was really really funny. but anyhow, lifting all of you up and I will try to repost the list asap. I'm just really behind. I am praying though.

another praise, the Lord has told me where to find the resources on healing our hearts that I've been waiting on ... Nehemiah. I can't wait to plow into it. pray that I understand it.

and I need prayer for DD's arm to heal
form my anniversary weekend, that it go okay
that I can get into see another doctor for a second opinion, not sure who to go to
for my work to get caught up and me to have BALANCE

and I talked to polar yesterday for quite a while, he is a new BS, two weeks out from D-day, please lift up he and his wife (she is foggy)

thank you guys, sorry there's so much.

ETA: just found this resource... holy cow, this is awesome. hope others read too.

http://www.jesusplusnothing.com/studies/index.htm

http://www.pbc.org/library/files/html/4157.html

http://www.pbc.org/library/files/html/0215.html

[This message edited by Maia at 12:38 PM, May 15th (Tuesday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 12:32 PM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H had a rough nite, so he's not being released today as planned. He still sounds a lot better than he did Sun though. Hopefully, he'll get released tomorrow.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
grievingwife
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good morning,
I hope everyone is on an upswing and the prayers of the faithful are availing much! I feel a bit renewed myself! My husband is showing his grief and remorse daily now. We've started to listen to a CD series of sermons on marriage from a local Calvary Chapel pastor I heard on the radio. It was God's perfect timing. We're listening to one each night and my husband is so full of remorse and being transparent. Whew! The long awaited for response. I feel as though NOW we can move forward.

I pray that you all are resting in the strong arms of Jesus. I know that's what gets me through each day's struggles...it's just the GRACE OF GOD.
Blessings to all of you,
Grievingwife


Posts: 20 | Registered: May 2007
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for my H. He is being laid off on Friday. Unexpected. He's devastated.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
14thebooks
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

comingundone
I am following you around on SI! Want you to know I am praying for you and H!
Keep the faith!!


48 y/o WW
50 y/o BS
Married 27 ys

Posts: 553 | Registered: Nov 2006
Surviving2007
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praise: thismorning I was hurting, about to call OM...I prayed first...asked God to help me and asked Him to put something in my way to stop me....Then I logged into SI and had a PM....this person asked how I was, and when I responded ...she gave me her number so I could call HER instead of OM. I did. And it helped.

Thank you God for being with me and my friend this morning. Thank you for helping me to see that you are with me.

[This message edited by Surviving2007 at 7:31 PM, May 15th (Tuesday)]


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is SO GREAT surviving! I'm so happy for you, every day is a battle won - You can win the war. Huge praise.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, May 15th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for my wolflet - she is struggling with so many things.

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
tater
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

www-praying for your wolflet
surviving-praise for you.
maia-praying for your requests and understading of Nehemiah.
unicorn-praying for H healing
comingundone-praying for your family.

God bless all of you.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Maia
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for all of you today through the list and the other requests.

I'm sort of withdrawing into some intense study and prayer time.

in Nehemiah:
Jerusalem is a "type" of our hearts. We must repair both the temple and the walls. The gates are the areas where we are open to both good and bad things. Each gate represents a different area of life, posted my thoughts in inspirations, please comment if you're led.

and a big thing spoken to me as I awoke this morning...about being taken captive. that is still coming clear. I've been praying about women, about the woman's journey of life, her stages, her role. Asking for insight. And part of the answer the morning was to look at the things women become captive to. My study is on Israel as a nation and on the women of the old testament in particular. but what I am seeing is not going to be a really popular idea. (sigh)

anyhow... praise for the light I have.

I'm just going to dwell on it as i work today.

comingundone - the door is being opened for you to move?

[This message edited by Maia at 9:54 AM, May 16th (Wednesday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 8:59 AM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H finally getting released, YIPPEE!!!

Thanks for all the prayers...


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yay uni!!


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Insomuchpain
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Morning!
I posted this in Inspirations, but I think it will be helpful here too. These are some Bible verses, etc. that have been helpful for me the last two months. I hope they are helpful to all of you. I was doing so much better letting go and letting God take over last week. This week it hasn't been as easy. It helped me to type these out and to focus on God's word. Please pray for strength, patience, and guidance for me. Pray that God restore my WH heart and bring him home. I pray for all of you each night. God bless!!

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
- Phillipians 4:13

"You are my refuge and my shield; I have put my hope in your word."
- Psalms 119:114

"Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God." - saw on SI one day

"Come to Me all you who are weary and find life burdensome and I will give you rest..."
- Matthew 11:28

Read this somewhere...
"If we focus on pain too much we will begin suffering often. But if we transfer pain to Jesus, the Cross or to help others, there will be less suffering, anguish, self-fixation."

"Have I not commanded thee? Be strong and of good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed, for the Lord thy God is with thee wherever thou goes."
- Joshua 1:9

"I sought the Lord, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears."
- Psalms 34:4

"For with God, nothing shall be impossible."
- Luke 1:37

"For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee."
- Isaiah 41:13

"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you; not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."
- John 14:27

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
- Phillipians 4:6-7

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

"And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart."
- Galatians 6:9

"...Jesus prayed, "My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taked away from me. Yet I want your will, not mine."
- Matthew 26:39

"Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy."
- John 16:21-22


Not "insomuchpain" anymore...
Divorced

Posts: 362 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: A better place now...
Feeling so alone
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Need all the prayers I can get. Had a bad breakdown last night. Breakdown was so bad I can't even say the things that I went through. I want it all to stop. Please God help it to stop.


Together we're working through an LTA

If a man says something in the woods and there's not a woman there to hear it, is he still wrong?


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Maia
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you feeling


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so weak I can barely think. Please pray for my anger to go away.

Like others here - last week was good, strong, semi-focued. But this week I cannot do anything right. My anger, frustration and emptiness has consumed me.

"God make it stop."
amen


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

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Anjin
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for all, daily. Hard right now.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

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just_s
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read the posts here and find we are all struggling. I know the evil one is attacking. We are strong, united in prayer. That is a threat to him.

Don't want to leave anyone out. Praying for you all. Need prayers too. I am so confused. Need discernment.

Peace to us. S


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: North Carolina
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, May 16th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying.
Peace to all in the midst of the storm.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

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