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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, May 20th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looking for some answers today........

Praying for us all. I feel God's love always. He never leaves me/us. I am so thankful for that knowing.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

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tater
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, May 20th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

gingersnap-saying a prayer.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, May 20th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TY tater - praying for your R.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

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Surviving2007
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, May 20th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here today.


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, May 20th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you too survivng07 - daily. Hope you're doing okay.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

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rainedon
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, May 20th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi guys- I've been gone for too long, I know... Still struggling- can't seem to believe that R is real- no matter how hard he tries. Didn't go to church today for no good reason- I need prayers to stay on track with my faith- I just feel so abandoned and faithless.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

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tater
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, May 21st (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

rainedon-saying a prayer.
Saying a prayer for all. God bless you.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

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14thebooks
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, May 21st (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.
Special intention for those who struggle with withdrawal and emotional attachement to AP while trying to reconcile their M...for those whose hearts and heads are not in agreement with each other.
Unless I'm the only one who feels this way....


48 y/o WW
50 y/o BS
Married 27 ys

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just_s
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, May 21st (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi guys! Been away - computer at home is totally blitzed. My brother is trying to find out what is going on with it.

Praying for you all, even in my absence. Hope your weekends were blessed. Still struggling here. H is not being truthful - although I STILL want to believe him. After all this.

Love and prayers to all. Welcome new ones. Adding you to my prayer list. Will try to check in soon. At work. Not supposed to be on here. Peace. S


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


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Insomuchpain
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, May 21st (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all of you! Please pray for me. I had a tough weekend and losing hope. I keep feeling that God will restore my marriage and that he wants me to wait for my WH, but I still wonder if that is my will or God's. This just isn't getting much easier. Please also pray for my WH and the OW.


Not "insomuchpain" anymore...
Divorced

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, May 21st (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been praying this morn to give my burden over, to trust God. Why won't itgo? I do trust. I think I've conditioned myself in trauma.

Thank goodness I have to go to work. I can't wait to love the short weekends again, since now they seem so long and scarey.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, May 21st (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


THE LIST
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grievingwife - for her and her family to be healed, to receive godly counsel and to walk in it

lied2 -her son, had a medical procedure done "We were very much hoping it would work but this is now the second time for this procedure because the first one failed after a few years," may have to repeat the procedure..pray for his health and healing and for resolution and lied2 and her studies, to be able to handle the workload and that the content will not be too much for her emotionally but be healing.

blueman and his wife - healing

Effedupin05 - father we just ask that you comfort Effed. she is so confused and ashamed lord. Father bring her to a willingness from the heart to obey you and turn from sin. give her release from the idols she has clung to for so long. give her guidance and grace and healing and love. help her to tell the truth and to turn away from the things in her life she needs to turn from.


hearbroken - lost something important, Lord meet her needs. Father, I just ask that you give her wisdom and give her a friend to lean on. That you would give her peace.

weepy - father please heal her and her H and their marriage.

iwasblind- for her H to understand, he cannot be friends with OW. give her strength in body and mind, help to put away those obsessive thoughts that get in the way of her healing. for WH to see that his actions were wrong and hurtful to not only BS, but to the kids and his parents and to everyone else lied to by him and the OW. for WS to find it in his heart to realize that monogamy and happiness are possible.

shelby7851 - to let go of the negativity. to forgive those that have hurt her, to be closer to God, to know how, to let go of fear and have calm and peace. We pray that WH opens up to you and finds out what he wants deep down and pray for his peace of mind and happiness.

Empty2011 - continued strength in NC, strength and wisdom and love for her H, victory over SA, Lord help her to know who you are and show her who she is

itsa(bad)dream - for her WH that God intervenes and turns him back toward HIM... help to overcome all the bad demons. They have taken over him, and he is forgetting all about his wife and children, hurting them in the process. Please help him see he needs help quickly, both from God and by God through therapy. A has not ended, help IABD to do what she needs to do.

insomuchpain - strength, healing, wisdom and guidance. Pray that she lets go and lets God take over control, give her a sure knowledge if R is Your will Lord, confirmation.

Markus ur Alias- for reconciliation with Sydnee. Or a relationship with someone that he can settle down with. Blessing on relationships with his sons

Fallen - and her coworkers to be kept safe and for the unstable person who is making threats in the workplace to be dealt with for good, heal him Father. that she be given guidance on her career and whether or not she should stay in this job.

askinwhy - for her daughter and her eating habits and for her to deal with it and her daughter's father

veryveryxow - help to forgive herself and know Your forgiveness. For xMM's BW who does not know of her H's A's. Lord we ask that you might stop this man from committing more adultery. And that you might cradle the BW in arms of love and comfort and healing when she discovers it all.

firmforever - that her eyes might be opened to see and hear God with her heart, that she not be blinded or hardened to Him, help her to receive grace and love and believe it

JMD16 - keep her from temptation, help her Lord to turn away from evil fully and heal her marriage, help her to get the support she needs.

New_me - to find strength to keep herself from her abusive H and to know You as her H

limboland - that her xH would let her move on without anymore strife or hatred or evil between them. guard her children

pebbles - A friend of hers passed away after a tortuous battle with cancer during the past year. She is the wife of one of their employees. help her understand why these horrible things happen and touch the heart of their employee so he can get through this horrific time.


tater for WH to forgive himself and her and trust, not blamseshift, strength and wisdom and healing for them both

NitWhit- Please pray for her & H to continue to heal and grow closer to God

alwaystheenabler - that addiction treatment for her WS will stick and he will get his life back together. Drugs have destroyed him inside. help A to not enable, to be encouraged and to have hope

survivingorl - Please pray that thoughts of the OW are removed from his mind. Help him to let go of anger toward OW. Help him focus on healing his relationship and on his family and job.

drowninginsorrow -
husband leaving his job and has no other job lined up, pray that he find one

no mor surprises she was raised in an abusive home. Lord heal her wounds. Show her Your will on whether she should stay or not, confirm your will to her. (H had LTA) Give her relief from depression, help her to forgive and let go of anger and rage. Give her H true remorse and shower her with love.

14thebooks - for her son...for a second chance. and heal 14's pain Father, unite her head and her heart and help her father to love her H and let go of xOM

twinnie1 that her WH not have any STDs, that she can forgive and move forward, that causes for the situation be found and resolved

despondent - help growing in his faith, encouragement and help with R, to banish pride

WhiteWolfWinning - wolflet, that she will be healed and helped in her struggles, wisdom and strength for Wolf

thrillisgone - lord, help her and her children. help them make it through this financial crisis, heal emotionally from WHs rejection, neglect, and cold heart. change her WH's heart.

Chance: help her deal with her anger Lord, continuing peaceful existence with her WH and that OW is soon removed totally from their lives.

cielo- extra strength and encouragement, relief from being so tired. the ability to take her weakness to you Lord, help her to do her work and not be distracted, help her to wait on You.

swift30 - that You will reveal to her the power of your forgiveness and redemption, that she be given eyes to see the love you have for her and that she hear your voice lord and come to know you in a deep way and be healed. Give her true hope. Heal her marriage and turn her heart to her H and her H's heart to her and both of them to You Lord.

2BFulfilled and Dead Inside - father, give them wisdom and manifested love. Give them hope and heal their marriage ...heal them both.

Feeling so alone - found out her WH had a LTA for 10 years, has been dealing with this for 13 months. Help her to deal with her anger in healthy ways and bring it to You. Give her strength to look at You Lord.

Ivette- wisdom in how to deal with her H. let him be sincere in changing and let go of the OW and that she be given wisdom in knowing how to proceed. help her to trust if he is sincere and not to trust if he isn't Help her WS not to be crazy. Help him to find real change and peace and a relationship with You Lord.

Imremorseful-help her as she walks through this divorce, get her through those tough days. Hold her through them and heal her. Help her to return cruelty with kindness and to find courage. Give her H peace and help him to forgive. Keep their little girl from the storm, hold her through it. Calm her fears Lord, give her peace.

Maia - balance. strength and relief from pain, hedge against the enemy, help with work, that BHs heart would be healed and he would not be afraid, that DD would be given relief from her pain from her accident and heal

Petrinka - encouragement, and relief from pain, and for her H that he might submit to You and know You. fill her with your spirit.

LostinTx's wife that she will attend RTV with him and that they begin a healing journey.

polar - give him wisdom and heart that hears you lord, turn his wife to you in repentance and faith

LuvMy6 & Lost08 - special support and wisdom, give lost the peace and healing he needs, help him to understand the things he needs to understand and is wrestling with. give luvmy6 patience and forgiveness and peace


Abyss* -Please pray for her for strength and healing. she finally lost the long battle for her marriage and is truly devastated, give her shelter in the pain and hope.

rainedon - help her to know if the R is real or not. give her wisdom to see the truth, help Lord her unbelief, give her renewed strength and faith in You


ruthesther - to stop obsessing about FOW, that her WH let go of his feelings for FOW, give comfort to ruth, guidance on whether or not she can trust, help for WH to be truly trustworthy

IEve - feels spritually bipolar. One day she is strong and faithful and trusting God. The next, she is walking in her flesh... scared, anger, uncertain. "I believe, but help me with my unbelief." LORD, give her what she needs to walk with you more closely in increasing holiness. she has discovered her husband had at least 5 PAs, pray for wisdom and strength and help and comfort for her.

comingundone- her husband to find a new job and strength through the transition, Father help her to trust you.

vidajeanne - give her intimate direction. help her to discover and pursue the Father's will, his mission for her. give her inspiration as to how to provide for her son and herself financially without neglecting the supervision and support that he needs and while fulfilling her personal mission (whatever that might be). she needs her brain to be healed so that her thinking is organised in light of HIS priorities and so that she can continue in her newly learned patience with herself. Help her not to overwhelm herself when she begins to multi-task. Give her the courage and faith to follow what she discerns to be promptings from the Lord's spirit without the anxiety that hits her when she second guesses those promptings. Help her not to trouble herself with insecurity.

BlueGirl's dad - bedridden with COPD, heal him lord. give him help help BG's mother and brother, who take care of him day in and day out. Bless them father.

whiteflower99 - to find the proof of her wh ea (he continues to deny it) or find the strength to start trusting him again. Strength to release anger and resolve the situations causing it. Not to lash out at her kids. Lifting of depression. Their house is about to be foreclosed on, ability for her to work and the financial needs met. Manifested relief and for her feet to be put in a wide place.

Anjin - Lord, please give Anjin a manifested answer, a breakthrough in reconciliation with his W, help her to open her heart to him and trust him again.

forgivingone - help her and her H to reconcile, draw her near to You Lord, give them peace and help them to communicate and hear each other. give them grace for each other.

akaKatie - Father lift her heart to you and give her strength and boldness. help her to see your love for her, your passion and compassion. And help her to choose you, every day and not give in to fear. Lord give her power...and give her joy.

work in her WH and draw him to you.

stillbelievin and her H - pray that sb and her H know the love of God for them... the personal individual love. wisdom and insight in what tools to use in their battles and the strength to stand


ukblue -that she find peace and comfort and healing, that her H will turn back toward her and love her again, that you strengthen her as she starts working on her own healing and focusing on taking care of herself and lets go of H.

hope4now - to trust God

achingheart - Please pray for strength to endure and continued faith

Surviving2007 - to keep NC and to heal, help with the battle she is in, to follow Your will, strength to let go of blame, to release selfishness, to be able to trust and love, help to let go of and turn away from xOM in her heart and to turn to you instead, help to see her H's love for her and to return it

just_s - Going totally no contact with her H (except finances and children), give her wisdom and strength and grant her H repentance.

tricia01 - lead her out of the hell she is in

spitintheriver - comfort him and guide him

Violette & MrViolette - healing and peace and forgiveness, heal their marriage Father

Gingersnap: give her ears to hear You and Your answers Lord and a heart to obey you, give her strength and wrap her in your love. that WF can resist temptation and come to You Lord for his strength in repentance.

Kittenfeet - Father restore KF, give her strength to heal and hope that she will one day be happy again

mnhttn99

LuvMyWH - shield her from the schemes of the enemies, from lies and misconceptions and false speculations both within her and those raised up against her. cover her, her staff, and colleagues. Reveal to her and her boss the priorities they need to focus on, how he would have them lead those who have been placed in their care, and how to deal with a rather difficult situation. that all of them would take ownership for their own baggage.


crushed1's fellow BS friend she is very ill, with an "incurable malignancy". She has five children. She is struggling with chemo treatments on top of the adultery hell she has suffered. Lord heal her ..give her good days and give her peace and strength and hope...meet all her needs.

unicornsearcher
for her WS to be kept from temptation and help him to overcome temptation as he works long distance and for him to get a new job close to home quickly. for uni to have peace. for uni's chest pains, that she be healthy and find out quickly if anything is seriously wrong. for uni to see some beauty in her life. pray that WS stays on the right path. it will be a few months till they see each other again, let the separation not hinder their R but let it be a time of growth. that uni have wisdom, compassion & tons of energy to get done the things she needs to do around the house & to get their lives back on a good track

for the children affected by the A in each situation on this board...whether they specifically know about it or just know something is wrong. that we can continue to be good parents and role models for our children. show us specifically what to do, how to love each child.

comfort and peace manifested quickly to all who need it here at SI. peace to those struggling to get through the betrayal chaos

wisdom and clarity and encouragement for all mods

comfort and peace and support for all of the families and loved ones affected by the VA Tech massacre

clarity in marital decisions and job decisions for all who need them on this board, there are many

and for all those being harrassed with obsessive thoughts Lord, we ask for your intervention and their relief. there are many posting with this problem. We ask that you might grant them extra help to overcome these thoughts. thank you!! praise you!!

<Maia's prayer of intercession, feel free to join>
Lord God, the God who is Enough, please hear the heart cries of your people, these whom you have redeemed with the blood of Christ. I dedicate each one here to You Lord, I bring them and present them each in the name of Jesus. They are yours, under your authority. I bring the full work of the cross, the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus of Nazareth over each person named here and over each situation. I ask that your kingdom come into each situation, that your will be done in each family. That wherever the enemy has a foothold that he would be cast out, those footholds thrown down, that the imaginations and speculations and lies be brought into the light of truth. Bind up the wounds and heal the brokenhearted Lord and set the captives free. Thank you Lord, for hearing us.
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We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, May 22nd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying through the list today.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 11:27 AM, May 22nd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for H's D, she has gone into labor with signs of preclampsia.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, May 22nd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying uni


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 5:45 PM, May 22nd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No more info yet, still waiting it out but thanks for your prayers, guys!


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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UnicornChaserWS
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, May 22nd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Update from the husband:

Daughter is in hospital and the doctors are trying to induce labor. There's still a long way to go. She is being closely observed and is still pre-eclampsic. If it should happen that she goes into eclampsia, an emergency c-section will be immediately performed. Mother and daughter are, currently, doing well.
Thanks for the prayers and good thoughts. I'll keep you all up to date as I get more info.


"...hatred and anger are only scars upon a beach, while love is the rolling surf that ceaselessly smooths the sand."
Dean Koontz, "From the Corner of His Eye", 2000, Bantam Books, New York, NY, p348

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just_s
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, May 22nd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying Uni!

Thank you for the list Maia!

Praises - my brother fixed our computer! It was an evil thing whatever it was.

Struggling here this week. Have missed you guys. Will try to get caught up, but praying for you all.

Peace. S


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


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tater
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, May 22nd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying through the list.
Uni-Praying for H'sD.
Praying for all here on SI.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

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comingundone
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Default  Posted: 5:10 AM, May 23rd (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Update:
My H. has a second interview with this company on Friday. They asked him to bring me.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

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