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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
Petrinka
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Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, June 7th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here. (((hugs)))

My divorce after 40 years together was final last Thursday. I'm just numb right now, but know that God has a plan for all of us and am so thankful for His love and guidance and the support and prayers of everyone here.

Thank you Maia, for starting this thread, and for your prayers ((dear friends))


Divorced May 31, 2007

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Nevada Desert
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, June 7th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This sounds silly I guess...but our two dogs got out last night. This morning we finally found one of them, but the older dog is still missing. She's a husky mix so I know she's smart and has good instincts, but I'm really worried. If you guys don't mind, I could use prayers for her safe return as she is special to us.

Praying for everyone daily. Thankful for this site.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
Insomuchpain
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Member # 14082
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, June 7th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anjin - not silly at all. Our pets are part of the family.

Praying for everyone here!

Please lift me up in your prayers today. I thought I saw some progress with WH, but now I'm not sure. Need guidance and strength! God please show me the way...


Not "insomuchpain" anymore...
Divorced

Posts: 362 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: A better place now...
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, June 7th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

petrink, anjin, insomucpain - praying for your requests. Ginger -wherever you are praying for you too girl.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
HowToForget
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Member # 14507
Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, June 7th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No prayer request is silly, I would feel the same way if my Pom was lost. I am posting here because I need all the prayers I can get right now.

This whole ordeal has shaken me to the core, in every way. I think I am finally at the point of true forgiveness for my WH. I need prayer for the strength to really let this go before it destroys us. I know when God forgives us the sin disappears. We will go to MC and deal with this, but I can't let this rule my mind and my family.

Please pray for my strength to fight this and my peace of mind. Thank you all so much.

I will pray for all.

M


Me:38
Him:38
Married:16 yrs
2 beautiful kids:
15 y/o boy & 13 y/o girl
D-Day:4/10/07
**Trying really hard to R**

~~I Luv Pie~~


Posts: 112 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Texas
ruthesther
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, June 7th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

please pray that I can get the OW out of my head and I can move on with WH as he says that it's really over. Most of all pray that I can let go and accept God's will wherever that may be.


FBS 53 FWH 55
Married 25 years; 2 Grown Children
Reconciled

Posts: 1116 | Registered: Feb 2007
Surviving2007
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Member # 14271
Default  Posted: 4:06 AM, June 8th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying right now for all


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
14thebooks
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Member # 12661
Default  Posted: 5:27 AM, June 8th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all who post on this thread.


48 y/o WW
50 y/o BS
Married 27 ys

Posts: 553 | Registered: Nov 2006
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, June 8th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
rainedon
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, June 8th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all- for Maia as she moves forward, for all of you who have lifted me up during this difficult time. Praying the list.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
LuvMyWH
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, June 9th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just stopped by to check to see how everyone is doing!
I came across this saying and I wanted to share it with my friends:

"Everything happens for a reason. Keep that in mind and live for the moment, remember the past, learn from it, and let the future unfold as it comes."

I pray that God would continue to cover each of you in his grace. To give you the strength, the knowledge, and the wisdom you need to heal and to move forward according to his will.

Although, I cannot say that I am healed from all that has happened. For me the A was just another of many traumtic events. But it doesn't sit with me everyday and for that I am greatful to God and those who have both supported me and prayed with me.

I would ask that you keep us in your prayers. It is bothering me that all the stress and demands have interferred all to often with our time for fellowship. And for me I pray that you would ask God to guide me and help me overcome my tendency to be passive about things. I am not so much a pushover, but I tend to be one who needs to think things through and sometimes the moment to confront gets lost, as well at other times I am just to easy going about things I probably shouldn't be -- so I need a little more wisdom on how to discern that. It more of an issue at work than at home, but I do struggle with in in both areas.

Things are going fairly well with my husband, struggling and fighting for time together. He says he wants me to stop being so passive but on the other hand when he gets his mind set on how we are going to do something I am being difficult or nagging if I express my thoughts in disagreement with his.

God Bless each of you.


"If God is with me who could be against me!"
D-Day 12/21/05; R-Day 12/30/05
Me - BS/40; WS/40; 2 DDs

Posts: 1305 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: In God's Hands
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 12:03 PM, June 9th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanking you all again for the great support & prayers I've gotten.

Please pray:

A dear friend who already has one crippling chronic disease is now facing getting test results this week to see if she has cancer.

For my WS.

A SI couple who will suffer thru a particularly tough time this month, neither of whom are practicing believers.

A friend's son who recently discovered the betrayal of his wife that he may find the best ways to deal with this.

And please keep me in your prayers as my bleeding heart & fingers pull me a bit higher out of this horrendous & exhausting betrayal pit I have lived in for far too long. Plus I got a call show up on my caller ID (no message) a few days ago from someone that wants to cause me great harm (& has successfully done so) & it's NEVER good when they contact me.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
idiotville
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, June 9th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uni.... just seeing your req. has made my day just a little bit easier. I think it took a small weight off of my...if only for today. :)


If the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off

Posts: 429 | Registered: Aug 2005
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, June 10th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you all. Thanks tater and all for your prayers. Praying for you too.

A bit lost..., but hanging in....


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
tater
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Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, June 11th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uni-praying for you requests.
ruthesther-praying for you to get OW out of your head and to trust WH.
love my WH- praying for you too.

God bless you all.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
soverysad
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, June 11th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

please pray for the BS who are trying to leave their abusive WS.

please pray that I find guidance to help us out of our financial difficulties.

I don't know why but Psalm 23 keeps running through my head. Thank you all for your prayers. This Psalm is helping me.

The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want....

Many hugs to all who are out there dealing with the this pain. Thank you for helping me remember to lean on my faith.



Posts: 518 | Registered: May 2007
unicornsearcher
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Member # 912
Cool  Posted: 9:28 PM, June 12th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's something you guys might be interested in checking out.

I watch this show on Tues & like it very much:

http://www.forbetterforworseforkeeps.com

For Better, For Worse, For Keeps Conference
with Bob Moeller

All are invited
Free Conference
Free Lunch
Saturday, June 16, 9:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Northside Gospel Center
3859 N. Central Ave.
Chicago
(around the corner of Irving and Central)

Call for more information call the Northside Gospel Center - 773-736-1700

No Childcare

The other show is one that can be seen online with a ton of great stuff & a variety of awesome guests:

http://www.marriageuncensored.com/index.php?page_id=12


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, June 13th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, June 14th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying a prayer for you all.
soverysad - praying for your financial situation.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
NoControl
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Member # 14961
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, June 14th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just noticed this thread. I will pray for everyone here also- that we might all find a way to be the version of "us" that God wants us to be and have the strength to live through where we are now. That these challenges won't leave us lesser individuals, but stronger, healthier, and able to lift up others.


"I Became Insane With Long Intervals of Horrible Sanity" -E.A. Poe

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