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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
tater
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, June 27th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((insomuchpain))) saying a prayer.

(((gingersnap)) saying a prayer for you.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
soverysad
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, June 27th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((insomuchpain)))))))))

God, I ask you to uplift us all, reconcile those in sin and heal those in pain. Help us to follow Your path. Amen.



Posts: 518 | Registered: May 2007
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, June 27th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Whatever you ask for in prayer with faith, you will receive." Matthew 21:22

whatever we ask, our own will? Why is it so confusing?

praying
for tater- ever faithful
for insomuchpain - strength
soverysad
feellikedying
rainedon
unicornsearcher - where ever you are
anjin
maia
metamorphosis
and all the others who have helped me so greatly.
amen.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
soverysad
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, June 27th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((gingersnap)))))))))))

It is sometimes hard to see, but I know that God is there. Keep your faith, keep praying. You are in my prayers.



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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 11:51 PM, June 27th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks soverysad. My faith waivered a bit, but no smaller than that mustard seed.

Just wish..........upon a star. Praying on my knees lately, for me and all of us who are asking on SI


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, June 28th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dera Lord,

Do you read SI? I'll bet you do. Then you know well that I post prayer here when I need extra strength. I give thanks daily - Have most of my life. I pray for people I have not met - for you to help them in their pain, grief and suffering, as I have been there and know that my strength must have came froma stranger sending it out in prayer.

Now, Lord, I need you more than ever. The man is leaving me, and I don't know what to do. 180 tell me not to beg, plead, cry and reason with him. My heart wants to cry out in shear pain. DON'T LEAVE ME BABY! PLEASE DONT LEAVE ME.

God please grant me a miracle. I know it's possible. Please, somehow, anyhow, please keep him here inthis home with me. please dear lord, I 'm begging you.
In Jesus name I pray.
Amen


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
answersplease
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, June 28th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ginger)))

I pray that you will find strength.


me BS/50
her WW/50
liver cancer survivor, transplant successful - 2007
kidney transplant successful - 2009
d-day 9/17/2006
1-son, 19

Posts: 527 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Upper Midwest
tater
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, June 28th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ginger)))
Dear God- Please give ginger the answers she is needing. Guide her in what she is to do. Give her peace.
Please bless all these hurting people on SI. Please bless the children both born and Unborn (((Momof3))).
Amen


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
just_s
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, June 28th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((ginger)))))))


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: North Carolina
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, June 28th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all...especially insomuchpain and ginger...


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, June 28th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for all. God please give each and every person the strength and wisdom to get through their situation.

Especially for all those here who are ending a M and starting a new chapter. Lift them up in your palm and nurture them.

Thank you for helping my family get through the first of the many court battles and that it will end the next time in July. Give us the strength and let the truth prevail.

Amen
Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

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momofthree2007
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, June 28th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i'm feeling suicidal right now but it's my faith and my children that are keeping me alive. please pray that I can get through this as my babies will be born in 2 weeks.


H - XWH (32) RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, June 29th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you, momof3. Your children need you. We love you.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, June 29th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Momof3 Please lord comfort her, give her the strength of us all to tackle the enemy that is attacking her. Amen

God, this is it for now. My heart is breaking, how long can it physically breaK? Bless my bf with strength. Give him clarity and healing. help him forgive himself and come to terms with the devastation he created. Please let him know that I love him, and I forgive him. Lord, help me as I wake in our home alone. Give me ambition to strive forward.
Bless my family and friends and esp all of us affected by infidelity.
Amen


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
tater
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, June 29th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Momofthree-hang in there. This is such a rough ride. It will get better. Cling to God no matter what your WS does. I'm saying a prayer for you.

heartbroken-saying a prayer.

Gingersnap- praying that you will find peace today. I know this is going to be a hard day for you.

I'm trying to decide whether to stay married. I want to do the right things for my kids, but WH doesn't seem to want to fix himself. He wants to continue being miserable.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Feeling so alone
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Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, June 29th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wanted to tell ya'll something that I have been doing that has been really nice.

Our preacher talked about visiting with Jesus. Don't just bring him our troubles all the time.

I've tried something I wanted to share with you. I find myself a quiet place. I pray to Jesus but in a diffrent way. I picture myself walking with him down a lane. And I just visit with him. I have to try real hard to not bring up my troubles. I see this as though looking through my eyes. Mostly I just see our feet and our surroundings. I am just taking a nice walk with a Friend. I tell him about things that I enjoy. I tell him about our beautiful world. The mountains, the trees, the flowers, the butterflies, just anything I can think of at the time.

Please don't think me crazy. This has been very comforting for me. Not only is He our Savior but he is also our Friend.


Together we're working through an LTA

If a man says something in the woods and there's not a woman there to hear it, is he still wrong?


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Anjin
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, June 30th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for all, especially everyone with urgent needs. Momof3, ginger, heartbroken, hang in there...

so alone, that was a really nice description you gave of a new way to relate to God and Jesus. Thanks. I will try that.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
soverysad
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, June 30th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for my H -- and my family. H is losing his job, and I don't have one yet.

Please, God, show us Your Way. I am afraid. My faith is shaky. Help me, Lord, to help myself.



Posts: 518 | Registered: May 2007
tater
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, July 1st (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

soverysad- saying a prayer for your job sitch.

momofthree- continuing to pray for you.

ginger-saying a prayer.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
capri
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, July 1st (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello, and just joining this thread. I had a good week or two, and for some reason in the last couple of days, am crashing again with resentment and anger.

I struggle with prayer, feeling that I prayed for years for my marriage, and the answer was: it's even worse than you think! I wonder if there's any point any more in praying for ANYTHING other than "Thy will be done," and in the dark moments, my cynical thought is: well, it's pretty obvious what His will is in my marriage.

What I want most, and try to pray for, is that my husband would finally put an end to the charade and start telling me the truth-- did he sleep with any of them? Maybe not. But clearly it was not all so innocent friendships as he claims. I have NO friendships like that, and recoil at the thought of starting such a friendship with a married man.

There was an incident of his sister trying hard to break up our marriage, for reasons that never competely made sense-- and it would make a whole lot more sense if DH was already getting involved with OW#1 and told his sister. But for years, I was just told that she just 'noticed' what a horrible human being I am (paraphrasing here).

Please, pray for some peace of mind for me; please pray that God would give me wisdom in this matter. Please pray that my husband would finally see the need for a real and sincere apology and for finally confessing to whatever the truth really is.

Thank you.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

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