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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
capri
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, July 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Asking for continued prayers. I instated an in-house 'separation' 11 days ago. He has been very gracious and yes, even loving in some ways-- although I don't know whether it's loving or buy-me-back.

He did sort of open the door to talking last night-- this from a man who would rather stand in front of a raging bull in the middle of a forest fire than admit there's a problem and talk about it!

But that's hardly out of the woods yet.

I am praying for a complete healing and conversion for him and for the truth to come out.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
Gingersnap
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Member # 13025
Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, July 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

pryaing for soverysad - truth and financial troubles healed. (God will provide for you!)

and for Capri - so very lucky

Praying with you all tonight.

Lord thank you for the bounty of blessing you give me daily. Bless and hold K as he goes on with his life.
Amen


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
soverysad
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, July 17th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ginger -- thank you for remembering me and my family. Tomorrow we fly to the OW's state for the court hearing on Thursday. I hold each of you in my prayers daily. Asking God to show us all His way.

Blessings.



Posts: 518 | Registered: May 2007
capri
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, July 17th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gingersnap, I have to laugh at what we consider 'lucky' on this board, lol!

He's still sticking like glue to his story, which still wavers between, "Okay, so those friendships were a little inappropriate *shrug* but why are you so upset?" to "What did I actually DO??"

He's still receiving personal e-mails at his work account (although nothing serious that I saw) despite his promise to forward all such e-mails and be an open book, and he still gets very angry at being expected to show me his work e-mail, saying he can get fired. (Yeah, well, he should have thought of that before he had the bright idea to switch ow1 there and lie to me about it. He can get 'fired' from his marriage, too. )

All the same, opening a door is a major step forward for him.

I will continue to keep all of you in my prayers.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, July 17th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for Capri, soverysad, ginger, and everyone else.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
FeelLikeDying
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, July 18th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just feel the need to scream right now....God - please answer my prayer and put my marriage back on track. I've prayed and prayed for 8 months - I've read the book "The Secret" and put it in the atmosphere that I want my marriage to last.

How can my WH go from an upstanding, wonderful, God fearing man - to someone who hasn't set foot in the church in 8 months.

This OW is evil...she doesn't believe in God and doesn't go to church. How could he even be with her when he knows it's wrong on every level!!

When does God help us!!!! I have faith, I tithe, I pray, I thought I was doing everything right!!!


Posts: 175 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Kentucky
capri
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, July 18th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((feellikedying))))

Oh, I know so well how you feel!!! The biggest, most major meltdown I've had in all of this was in my sister's car a couple of weeks ago, when I told someone for the first time about all the years of intense prayer, fasting, time in church on my knees praying for my marriage, not to mention reading every book on what *I* can do to help my marriage, and on and on and on... and the answer was to eventually find out that not only were there all the other problems, but there's also a string of other women and enough lies over the past 14 years to circle the globe a couple of times. Talk about feeling abandoned by God.

I have done a lot of reading about the meaning of suffering, and the meaning of marriage, and I am coming to a better place.

My prayers are with you.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
Insomuchpain
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, July 18th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying prayers for all of you!


Not "insomuchpain" anymore...
Divorced

Posts: 362 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: A better place now...
confused2007
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Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, July 19th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for my WH to provide me with full disclosure, and when he does pray that I can accept it and not leave him.

Also pray that if there is no more to tell that it will be revealed and I can be at peace with what I know.

Thank you.


Posts: 39 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Ohio
tater
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, July 19th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

paying guys.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, July 19th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for Soverysad that truth will prevail today and that you give her the strength to face the OW in court.

Praying for gingersnap and capri and all whose WS are still so far away from you and in the darkness.

Praying the list and thanking God for tater and Anjin and the others who are so diligent with this board. Lord, please help me as we near the close in our long court battle. I lift up our finances to you. I pray that you will give direction to WS for a career and to earn money to help support the family, but that brings him closer to you and our family.

Amen.
Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, July 19th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PRAYING! (yes, I'm yelling!)

Thanks for all of you.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 2:22 AM, July 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I pray for all of you every day. You are all in my heart.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
Petrinka
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Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, July 20th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel like I've missed something - where is Maia? She was wonderful enough to start this thread, but I haven't seen anything from her lately. Anyone?


Divorced May 31, 2007

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Nevada Desert
tater
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, July 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying.
capri - praying that you'll get the answers you need.

feellikedying, confused2007 - praying for you.

Petrinka - sent you PM


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
got2moveon
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, July 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just seen the thread, how wonderful!

How does this work? We ask for prayer here, I get that but do we write out our prayers for others here or pray in our private time away from SI? So many different faiths out there, I know there are differences in beliefs and prayers.

Any ideas? I like to use quotes from the bible in my prayers...bring God in remberance of his Word about things like He says to do in the Word. Don't want to offend any, if I even could. So many different faiths out there.


When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.---Helen Keller

Thanks VanillaLatte :)


Posts: 5082 | Registered: Jan 2007
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, July 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone today. My 2 year dday antiversary is approaching, and I am deteriorating badly. Self-destructive behaviors have resurfaced and I am feeling lost.

Please God help me to find my way back to being healthy and to heal my M.

Amen.

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
tater
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, July 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

got2moveon-I think you can either pray in your private time, or you can post a prayer for others to read. It seems like people do both at times. I've never seen anyone get offended by other's prayers. I think we're all pleased to pray for others and for others to pray for us no matter how they do it.

Welcome and God bless.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, July 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

got2moveon-I think you can either pray in your private time, or you can post a prayer for others to read. It seems like people do both at times. I've never seen anyone get offended by other's prayers. I think we're all pleased to pray for others and for others to pray for us no matter how they do it.

Welcome and God bless.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
got2moveon
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, July 23rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tater,

Thanks. I love the power of prayer!


When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.---Helen Keller

Thanks VanillaLatte :)


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