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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
soverysad
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, August 23rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying prayers for crazydaisy. God, please let her know Your Presence.



Posts: 518 | Registered: May 2007
Petrinka
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, August 23rd (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying daily for all of us here, just haven't posted in a while. Praise God for blessing me with a new job which just started in the past 2 weeks, He is faithful and will restore many times over what Satan has stolen from us.


Divorced May 31, 2007

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Nevada Desert
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, August 24th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone, especially crazydaisy, Uni, and Petrinka.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, August 24th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying a prayer.
Uni - saying a prayer. That would be a hard decision.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
hearbroken
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Member # 8317
Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, August 24th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
bessie
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Member # 5103
Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, August 25th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It seems incredibly selfish to ask for prayers and positive thoughts when I haven't contributed but I am at a loss right now.

My mother died earlier this month, so I feel very lost. My house is up for sale, but nothing is being offered, well it was once but fell through. My health is worsening as each day passes as money is so tight and I need to sell the house. I also need to find somewhere to live for me and my DD.

I feel overwhelmed and my usual instincts aren't working.



And blame is not a one way street
The widest avenue
But cause me grief
And my belief, is harm will come to you

Posts: 6271 | Registered: Aug 2004 | From: Here
momofthree2007
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Member # 14766
Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, August 27th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H has one more month before he can get conclusive STD test results after his second A, I wasn't exposed after that A, so I know I;m clear, however, please pray that he's negative as we're trying hard to R. Thank you.


H - XWH (32) RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
mz_deelyte
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, August 27th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

some days are harder than others and we find it impossible to go on. remember that through God all things r possible and he will never give u more than u can bare. I know it hurts, we all hurt. but God please take care of us all. peace of mind and love to everyone hear. I'm praying


Smiling faces tell lies....

Posts: 33 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: NC
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, August 29th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bessie, it's not selfish at all. The title of this forum says it all

I'm praying God will help give you peace and wisdom. Even though it is hard, try and trust in Him with your whole heart. Is there a quiet place you and your DD could go spend an afternoon, just the two of you, to temporarily get away from the stress and clear your head? Something you both enjoy doing?

Momofthree, praying for clear results, and peace for you while waiting, and God's blessings towards your R.

I know I'm not on as much. My wife and I have been doing fairly well. She is still maintaining her own apartment, but has been here every night for the past 5 weeks. We've been enjoying spending time together, and took the dogs to the park this weekend. I'm not sure how this translates into how much healing she has done, and I'm not going to press the issue...just enjoying the time and praying. So, definite praise for that!

For prayer request: please pray that we would grow closer to R. Also, our oldest dog has been in the vet's office for a week now getting IV fluids and being treated for kidney failure. We're hoping it's reversible and we'll find out today.

Praying for all of you!


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
capri
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, August 29th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray that fwh would get good advice.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, August 29th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying Capri


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, September 2nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you guys. right now.

asking for prayer for polar and his W. He called me yesterday in tears.

they're pretty young in the reconciliation process, I have no idea what happened as he went to counsel with his pastor and let me go quickly, but please lift him and his WW up.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
Nvrthesame
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, September 2nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am praying for all. This is my first post here and I hope that an additional prayer will help heal us all. I seek wisdom and serenity each day and pray the same for all who are here.


"Be like a duck. Calm on the surface, but always paddling like the dickens underneath."
-- Michael Caine

"All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered; the point is to discover them."
-- Galileo Galilei


Posts: 434 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: VA
mz_deelyte
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, September 2nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

greetings to all, just wanted to send out prayers and blessings to everyone over this holiday weekend. I know we may all be in different situations but we r all here together. bless those who don't have the best relationships with there loved ones right now. remember yhat God hears u and he loves u.


Smiling faces tell lies....

Posts: 33 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: NC
soverysad
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, September 3rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Request for prayer -- I need help letting go of the anger in my heart toward the OW. Please help me God; I want to let it go.



Posts: 518 | Registered: May 2007
capri
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

soverysad, I feel for you. Most days I actually pity and have compassion for, ow3. I see what she's doing to herself and how she's viewed by others. But then I have days like last night and this morning where the rage at him and her just overtakes me again.

I'm asking for prayers because I feel very abandoned by God right now. I have done all the 'right' things for years, as far as praying, trying to keep the right view of people God loves, trying to forgive, praying for those involved (yes, the ow and fwh too), and yet I just can't get past this. The pain never really leaves. And then if I have one bad day for whatever reason, it all just explodes, all over everything.

I owe my husband a new 'lighthouse' garden decor right now. I smashed his brand new one, that sat above our pond, to pieces last night, and tore up the garden he'd just planted. It was just overwhelming anger at INFIDELITIES being dismissed as not infidelities at all, and having all of this shoved under the rug along with years of problems that he refused ever to work through. He thought just telling me I'm awful and it's all my fault and even his family, friends and co-workers notice what a loser I am (Ok, I'm paraphrasing a bit) would somehow solve everything!


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, September 5th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

capri, soverysad, polar, nvrthesame, mz_deelyte, and everyone...praying for you guys.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 12:12 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord, we pray for all who are hurting, and their needs. Please help them according to your will…

Capri – Shine Your light on her patch Lord, so that she feel your presence, and know that she is not alone. Give her your strength, and minister to her heart.

Soverysad – Help her let go of the anger in her heart, and replace it with your love and peace.

Nvrthesame - Grant your wisdom and serenity each day. Nurture her positive spirit.

Mz_deelyte – Please give her your strength and guidance through the tough times, and bless her prayerful and positive messages of faith.

Maia – continue to bless the work she does in Your name, and give her strength and peace at the times she needs it.

Momofthree2007 – give her your peace and strength, and continue to bless her and her husband’s efforts to Reconcile. Hold them in your grace.

Bessie – grant her peace, and solace, and strength. Send your angels to minister to her Lord. Help her to feel your presence.

Crazydaisy – Lord let her feel your presence.

Petrinka – continue to be with her Lord, and pour your blessings on her as she is underway in her new job.

Sonumb – Please give your strength and guidance.

Heartbroken – Let your healing hands be felt in her life. Give her your strength and support.

Unicornsearcher – be with her and her husband, strengthen them, enfold them in Your grace, and help them through whatever lays ahead.

Tnvolpa – bolster her soul, envelop her with your love and presence, and help her to continue to see You as her source of strength.

Feellikedying – nurture her Lord, and nurture her Husband’s spirit. Give her WH strength. Bless their efforts to reconcile.

HowToForget – We pray for the strength and wisdom that they need now, and bless their efforts in counseling. Help her to truly forgive her WH and help her find peace of mind.

Ruthesther – Help her to feel your presence, to hear your answer to your prayers, and have the strength and resolve to move forward.

LuvMyWH – Continue to support and nurture her, and strengthen her marriage. Help her to deal with the stresses and demands that life gives to her constructively, and give her and her husband your peace

Tater – please be a source of comfort, strength, and peace.

Gingersnap – Bless her life, feed her spirit, and help her heal.

fallenangel02 - God please comfort, strengthen, and minister to her. Help her feel your presence in her life. Protect her through these trials and help her find your peace.

Jimintexas – Bless him lord, wherever he is.

Lord, please help Tao.

God, there are many others who need you. You understand our needs, our hopes, our fears, our weaknesses. Keep us on the right path. Please Lord, minister to us. Help us to hear your voice in our lives, and to see your answers to our prayers. Help us to seek You and not just your blessings.
In Jesus’ Name I pray. Amen.

[This message edited by Anjin at 12:13 AM, September 8th (Saturday)]


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
hearbroken
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Member # 8317
Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying the list.

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
Petrinka
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, September 8th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Anjin, and everyone, always in my prayers.


Divorced May 31, 2007

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