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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
tater
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, October 25th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying capri, uni, anjin vale. I pray although I don't always post it.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Petrinka
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, October 25th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haven't posted for a while here, but praying every day for everyone here. (((Hugs to all)))


Divorced May 31, 2007

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Nevada Desert
hope4now
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, October 25th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wanted to check in...and thank you for your prayers and inspirational posts!
Although I don't post often, I do lurk and I will continue to pray for all of us.

I have been feeling so good lately...It's kind of like this heavy burden on my shoulders has lightened tremendously. None of the circumstances in my life have changed...so I give God all the glory for these positive changes in my spirit.

Thank you all for opening your heart and sharing so much...you just never know how much it helps sometimes.

Take Care & God Bless!


Me: BW 35
WS 40
2 sweet kids
2 OW (2005,2008)
filed for D twice
Struggling with R again

With God ALL things are possible. (I still believe!)

Posts: 196 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Louisiana
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, October 26th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Checking in, and praying for everyone. Hope everyone is hanging in there and doing well.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
Maia
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, October 27th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll update the list tomorrow.

and I'm going to start posting here daily as i pray.

praying for you all now.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, October 28th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am praying for everyone on the list, but also ask for prayers for all those that lost homes or loved ones in the CA fires.

I give praise to Him that he safely guided my family through this time.

May He lift up everyone's sorrows and give them comfort to heal from the aftermath of infidelity in their lives.

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
capri
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, October 30th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FWH is seeing an IC. Please pray that fwh would be entirely truthful with this guy. I know he wasn't with our mcs. Please pray this would be a good counselor who would not have the wool pulled over his eyes, who will get to the root of things and be able to make a difference. Please pray that fwh really sees his need to change, and really WANTS to change things like the lifetime of lying.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
libbet_snider
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, October 30th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for release from fear and the light of truth for my FWH.


Me-BW, young 51 (mtn biker, skiboarder); FWH-48, 14+ yr EA(?)
Married-19 yrs; Kids-all 4-legged
DDay-2/21/06; And the lies just kept coming; Last (known) D-Day 04/07
Status-He's really trying. I have to accept that he's human, not perfect.

Posts: 194 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: mid-Amer.
JiiminTexas
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, October 31st (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello everyone:

Sorry, haven't been here in a long while. I guess I just had to get apart and come to the point where I was ready to take the next step, which I've done. We start counseling again tomorrow. I told me wife recently that our marriage can't continue as is. That I love her, I understand she doesn't love me in the same way, but that I can't go on that way.

If counseling can address this situation, great. But I'm also going to make it clear that I can't stay in this current marriage any longer. Either we change, or it ends -- regardless of what happens to us financially, kids, etc.

So I appreciate your prayers. I simply cannot continue in a marriage that has no physical or emotional intimacy. Can't just do this "for the kids" anymore. And I believe the Lord is OK with that. Divorce is acceptable in these circumstances, especially with the infidelity. However, I don't want a divorce. I just want my wife to know that she does want to be with me, that she loves me, and wants to be my wife, and wants to have a vital, passionate, fulfilling marriage with me. I'm willing to knock myself out for that. I'm not sure she is capable of that, however.

Thanks. Counseling appointment is in the morning.

God Bless

jimintexas


Me, BS, 44; Her, WS, 46
"Though the fig tree should not blossom and there be no fruit on the vines, Though the yield of the olive should fail and the fields produce no food, though the flock should be cut off ... Yet I will exult in the LORD.&#

Posts: 363 | Registered: Aug 2005 | From: Texas
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, November 1st (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone.

Especially Capri, Libbet

Jimintexas, glad to hear from you, and praying right now for your counselling session to bear positive results.

I wanted to share a link that Maia shared with me some time ago, and it is one of the most positive things I've experienced -

The DAILY PRAYER on mp3 version 4.0 - John Eldredge - download here: http://www.dividedheart.com/dp.mp3

God keep us all through this week!


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, November 10th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't come here often anymore but I want you all to know that I pray for ALL OF YOU every day.

You are all in my heart and my prayers.

(((Everybody)))


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
mz_deelyte
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Default  Posted: 2:36 AM, November 12th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HI everyone. Haven't been here in a while. I guess I have been busy with the baby and I guess just a lil too sad to come back. Need prayers as BF is halfway through Basic Training and I still have no idea where we stand, and my family is pressing me for marriage. He writes me letters a lot but I can't get any clear answers. And it seems that having the baby only made me realize more how much I love him and want my family together. Please pray that I will find guidance, and that BF will try to commit more to the Lord. I will pray for all of you. Remember that God loves you


Smiling faces tell lies....

Posts: 33 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: NC
pumpkin
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Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, November 13th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have never posted in here before.

I was just wondering if you all could please pray for me.

My life is not good right now. I need some strength and wisdom to guide me thru this. My WH has lost his mind and he is not in a good place at all. He definitely needs some guidance to see his way out of this mess.

Please remember me.


"Don't argue with stupid people, it will get you nowhere." - My Dad

Posts: 1862 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: tennessee
Petrinka
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, November 13th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((pumpkin))) I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I know how it hurts.


Divorced May 31, 2007

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Nevada Desert
capri
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, November 14th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((pumpkin))) You are remembered and being prayed for. Stay strong.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
tater
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, November 16th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pumpkin - saying a prayer.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
capri
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, November 19th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I gave my two books on emotional infidelity to fwh last night, and he actually sat down and started reading. I have no idea how much he read.

He is at the point where he's said for months he 'can see how' what he did 'could be' called ea. But it was clear last night that he himself really doesn't regard all this lying and deceit and time with other women as infidelity.

Please pray that he would actually read the book with an open heart and glean some understanding.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
capri
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, December 3rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi--

I'm just asking for continued prayers for fwh and his IC. I have been quite disappointed with our mcs, and know that his counseling is only as good as he is honest, and his ic is competent. I believe he's capable of lying to get the answers he wants (that I'm the problem). But there do seem to be baby steps forward, too, so I feel that he's less likely to do that than he was a few months ago.

But please just keep us in your prayers.

Jimmi, I feel for you. I do agree that infidelity is one of the reasons God has seen fit for divorce. That doesn't make it hurt any less.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
Sorrowfulfriend
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Helpless  Posted: 1:23 AM, December 6th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for my spouse to find some peace and neutral if only for a day or so. She has been non stop on a blue stread for a couple of days, and I would like to find some way to lift her spirits again. And if you could throw in some prayers for our continued R we would both appreciate it. Thank you for sharing!


(me)WS 40
BS 38 (pmlsea)
M 18 yrs
3 kids, 17,12,11

PERSISTANCE IS THE ABILITY TO MAINTAIN ACTION REGARDLESS OF YOUR FEELINGS. YOU PRESS ON EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE QUITTING


Posts: 980 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Florida
Maia
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Default  Posted: 1:55 AM, December 17th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jim, good to see you, you are in my prayers often.

praying now

Waking the Dead - John Eldredge, go buy it. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Go immediately!!!

[This message edited by Maia at 1:57 AM, December 17th (Monday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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