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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, April 12th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Lord prayed while being nailed to the cross. Father forgive them for they no not what they do.

I believe that WS would not have had the affair if he had known the devastation his actions would cause me.

I forgive him.

me: BS
Dday 7/23/05
This former rock has been blasted into a mound of pebbles.

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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, April 12th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow Pebbles. That is brave and - well - just something. Good for you and your H. (((Hugs)))

Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06

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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, April 12th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for list today.

Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, April 12th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He did not know he would be picking me up off the floor because I was sobbing so hard I couldn't get up.

He didn't know that I would sob uncontrollably until I was exhausted.

He would give his own life to take back what he has put me through.

He didn't know. That's why I can forgive him.

It was not a deliberate act to bring me harm.

me: BS
Dday 7/23/05
This former rock has been blasted into a mound of pebbles.

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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, April 12th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pebbles, that is a beatiful thing. I wish that all W's would see that forgivness is truely a blessing and a gift. Praying for all tonight.

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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, April 12th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do believe we will all be fine too.

How optimistic. You're not Irish are you?

"I know the pieces fit cuz I watched them fall away
mildewed and smoldering, fundamental differing,
pure intention juxtaposed will set two lovers souls in motion
disintegrating as it goes testing our communication"
Tool - Schism

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Cool  Posted: 12:25 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, not irish but pragmatic. Being fine beats the alternative...

11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hey guys.

I'm going to spend some serious time in prayer tonight and repost the list. have been working through a cool book too, may share some of it.

We will miss you Unicornsearcher.

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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here today.

Divorced May 31, 2007

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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying tonight for everyone on SI. Special prayer request for mnhttn99. Tough week and day.

Peace to all. S

Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06

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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying a prayer for all. God bless.

Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Super special prayers tonight for all the wonderful peopel here on SI. Special prayer for rained, she needs to come on over and see how fUn and addicting we are .

PRAISE: WF bought a gift of grand gesture - a love ewe (easter decoration I was admiring last week at the store). Had it on the front porch when I came home from work last night. I bawled my eyes out beofre I reached the front door!

[This message edited by Gingersnap at 10:39 PM, April 13th (Friday)]

~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

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Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for all.....
adding rained and mnhttn99.
So many struggles....One AWESOME God.
Stay the course.

2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

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Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you all.


iwasblind- for her H to understand, he cannot be friends with OW. strength to remain strong in body and mind, help to put away those obsessive thoughts that get in the way of her healing. for WH to see that his actions were wrong and hurtful to not only BS, but to the kids and his parents and to everyone else lied to by him and the OW. for WS to find it in his heart to realize that monogamy and happiness are possible.

Markus ur Alias- for reconciliation with Sydnee. Or a relationship with someone that he can settle down with. Blessing on relationships with his sons

veryveryxow - help to forgive herself and know Your forgiveness. For xMM's BW who does not know of her H's A's. Lord we ask that you might stop this man from committing more adultery. And that you might cradle the BW in arms of love and comfort and healing when she discovers it all.

JMD16 - keep her from temptation, help her Lord to turn away from evil fully and heal her marriage, help her to get the support she needs.

New_me - to find strength to keep herself from her abusive H and to know You as her H

lied2 - lord ease her stress and strengthen her memory and aid her as she goes into her exams this week.

limboland - that her xH would let her move on without anymore strife or hatred or evil between them. guard her children

pebbles - PRAISE for her forgiveness of her WH, strengthen and heal their marriage, help her to keep walking in forgiveness

tater that WH actually have some empathy for the pain that he has put our family through.

NitWhit- Please pray for her & H to continue to heal and grow closer to God and for her ability to counsel and support the couple at church dealing with infidelity. that she'd be given words to say and a heart of wisdom

alwaystheenabler - that addiction treatment for her WS will stick and he will get his life back together. Drugs have destroyed him inside. help A to not enable, to be encouraged and to have hope

survivingorl - Please pray that thoughts of the OW are removed from his mind. Help him to let go of anger toward OW. Help him focus on healing his relationship and on his family and job.

drowninginsorrow -
that they continue to be able to ride out this financial storm yet remain happy and strong together and not let it start creating a rift

no mor surprises she was raised in an abusive home. Lord heal her wounds. Show her Your will on whether she should stay or not, confirm your will to her. (H had LTA) Give her relief from depression, help her to forgive and let go of anger and rage. Give her H true remorse and shower her with love.

despondent - help growing in his faith, encouragement and help with R, to banish pride

WhiteWolfWinning - not reconciling, please heal Wolf's heart and bless her and her child (wolflet) and lead them through this time

thrillisgone - lord, help her and her children. help them make it through this financial crisis, heal emotionally from WHs rejection, neglect, and cold heart. change her WH's heart.

Chance: help her deal with her anger Lord, continuing peaceful existence with her WH and that OW is soon removed from their lives.

cielo- extra strength and encouragement, relief from being so tired. the ability to take her weakness to you Lord, help her to do her work and not be distracted, help her to wait on You.

swift30 - that You will reveal to her the power of your forgiveness and redemption, that she be given eyes to see the love you have for her and that she hear your voice lord and come to know you in a deep way and be healed. Give her true hope.

2BFulfilled - give her continued strength in her reconciliation, a close walk with YOU lord. help her to know how to express her love to her H in a way that he can receive it and not doubt. fill her with courage and the knowledge that she is loved, banish shame and condemnation. Lord we ask for healing for Dead Inside . Give him mercy and grace, help him to understand grace and be able to forgive. Help him to let go of bitterness. Heal him father. Banish shame in him lord... he is so afraid. and hating himself for feeling as he does but he is trying to be honest and heal. Lord, lift him. have mercy on this family lord, show your glory and power and might that your name might be praised and all the glory go to you Father. We ask that you intervene directly Lord of Hosts and release DI from all suicidal thoughts and give him healing. We thank you and praise you for your perfect will.

SithGoddess - father give her comfort and encouragement and a deeper understanding of who you are, a deeper walk with you. she hungers for it Lord and we thank you for that but ask that you might draw her closer to comfort her in her grief over the loss of her friend and to come to know you as her Friend more deeply. give her ears to hear you.

Ivette- wisdom in how to deal with her H. Pray that he be sincere in changing and let go of the OW and that she be given wisdom in knowing how to proceed.

Imremorseful-help her as she walks through this divorce. It has turned ugly. Lord, encourage her, give her wisdom. Help her to return cruelty with kindness and to find courage. Give her H peace and help him to forgive. Keep their little girl from the storm, hold her through it. Calm her fears Lord, give her peace.

Maia -REQUEST: to be kept from temptation. to be led in honest change and to work and not avoid it, guidance in planning new recovery site she is building, help to quit smoking, help to be healthy and face scary tests and exams in strength and faith with no fearful and debilitating thoughts, to not be in more physical pain but to heal. to be able to fix the second car and the brakes on the first one and get H's driver's license back so he can drive and to deal with her new ticket and pay it quickly. (about $2K extra) that her BS would fully heal

Petrinka - encouragement, and relief from pain, and for her H that he might submit to You and know You. fill her with your spirit.

Abyss* -that the Lord enter her H's heart to heal the guilt and shame before he makes such a life altering decision of their marriage (separated while he is dealing with himself and their marriage.) turn him back to his family Lord.

rainedon - help finding her way back to God and help not to be angry with Him, help her to not avoid the prayer thread, and to pray.

ruthesther - to stop obsessing about FOW, that her WH let go of his feelings for her, comfort for ruth, guidance on whether or not she can trust, help for WH to be truly trustworthy

comingundone- lord, help this wonderful lady to seek your face with all of her heart and to find you and to turn from idols and to fall in love with you in truth and be healed. Help her family to move. help her to trust God on this. give her a NEON SIGN!!!!!!!!!!! PRAISE: for the work you are doing in her heart

vidajeanne - relief from spiritual oppression, strength in her battle and for her finances to be blessed (single mom), help in overcoming depression and pain and fear, help her to post soon, give her hope

BlueGirl's dad - bedridden with COPD, heal him lord. give him help help BG's mother and brother, who take care of him day in and day out.

whiteflower99 - to find the proof of her wh ea(he continues to deny it) or find the strength to start trusting him again. Strength today. to release anger and resolve the situations causing it. Not to lash out at her kids. Lifting of depression. Their house is about to be foreclosed on, ability for her to work and the financial needs met. Manifested relief and for her feet to be put in a wide place.

JiiminTexas - that the walls come totally down in their marriage and the fog lift completely, that Jim not separate from his W emotionally but that he love her, that this marriage and family be healed and glorify Your name father

tnt60 - Father we just thank you for tnt that she has joined us. We ask that you might carry her and comfort her through this painful time. Please father, help her to know that You are a husband to her. Surround her with mercy and comfort. Give her faith in a true knowledge of you. Draw her near to you Lord and reveal yourself to her and give her peace and joy and do not let the enemy near her. Fight for her father and let the enemy have no foothold in her heart. we thank you and praise you for this.

Anjin -
Help BW to read material and seek healing. She is very undecided, with one foot out the door. Please pray that God will help heal her heart; bless their time apart and keep them both close to you and draw them closer to each other as she is away on business

forgivingone - help her and her H to reconcile, draw her near to You Lord, give them peace and help them to communicate and hear each other. give them grace for each other.

akaKatie - H has detoxed from his pain meds successfully but is in pain, pray for relief. Lord help Katie to hold on to You for the strength she needs, remembering that this is a battle so she must be wise, cunning, see clearly, persevere, and act in accordance with His Word. Give her ears to hear you lord.

stillbelievin and her H - that stillb not lose heart and continue in God's promises, that she continue to see her H as she is supposed to see him, lies replaced with truth, the eyes of her heart enlightened, help her to deal with her past abuse and the wounds she has, let them be healed.

ukblue -that she find peace and comfort and healing, that her H will turn back toward her and love her again, that you strengthen her as she starts working on her own healing and focusing on taking care of herself and lets go of H.

hope4now - Please pray for her to be released from this anger and resentment she has in her heart. Please pray that she can be the wife and Mother that builds her family up with love...not the one that tears them down with angry words.

achingheart - Please pray for strength to endure and continued faith

just_s - Help j_S to open up and not protect herself. help her to not fear. guard her thoughts from the enemy and help her to dwell on true and good things in her mind. help her H to act on thoughts to spend time with j-S and reassure j_S and fight for his marriage. Help j_s to know the truth and be delivered from suspicion
Also - pray their properties will SELL. Finances becoming an issue. Properties are in joint with OW and her BH. Don't feel they will have closure until it is all settled.

spitintheriver - comfort him and guide him

Gingersnap: request: LORD please let your Spirit overshadow Gingersnap and deliver her from suspicion , show her the truth. Lord let the enemy gain no foothold in her heart through harbored anger or bitterness but renew her strength and compassion and fill her with your Spirit and your truth.

Kittenfeet - Father restore KF, give her strength to heal and hope that she will one day be happy again


LuvMyWH - REQUESTS: that God will deliver them from anger, bitterness, resentment, anxieties, and depression. That he will fill their hearts with love, joy, adoration, and respect for one another. That he will work in H, Luv, the marriage, the home, and the family. That he would take the driver's seat, move them out of the way if they should get in the way, and that He would be the foundation of their home. Lord, strengthen LUV!!!release their family from the strongholds of the enemy

for her WS to be kept from temptation and help him to overcome temptation as he works long distance and for him to get a new job close to home quickly. for uni to have peace. for uni's chest pains, that she be healthy and find out quickly if anything is seriously wrong. that WS would get the $$ he needs to live on until his first paycheck quickly PRAISE: extension granted on foreclosure and for help given to them with $$

for the children affected by the A in each situation on this board...whether they specifically know about it or just know something is wrong. that we can continue to be good parents and role models for our children. show us specifically what to do, how to love each child.

comfort and peace manifested quickly to all who need it here at SI. peace to those struggling to get through the betrayal chaos

wisdom and clarity and encouragement for all mods

clarity in marital decisions and job decisions for all who need them on this board, there are many

and for all those being harrassed with obsessive thoughts Lord, we ask for your intervention and their relief. there are many posting with this problem. We ask that you might grant them extra help to overcome these thoughts. thank you!! praise you!!

Lord you came to heal the brokenhearted. Glorify Your NAME. Mighty Counselor, Prince of Peace, Jehovah Rapha, El Shaddai. Emmanuel. Holy one.

thank you for hearing us. we commit these things to you and Your divine purposes and plan

[This message edited by Maia at 9:33 AM, April 14th (Saturday)]

We will miss you Unicornsearcher.

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The power of prayer- Thank you all for reaching out to me. I'm here- I know you guys are addicting Special thanks for Gingersnap. I am going to pray through the list this morning.
Prayer request: My H has an opportunity to move to the local police department as opposed to state police. Right now he commutes 1.5 hrs each way. Prayers, please, that this transition will work out as it allows him more time at home, therefore more time for us to spend in R. Thanks again. Praises for all of you- I'm so thankful for each of you.

"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

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Please pray for me for strenght and healing. I finally lost the long battle for my marriage and I am truely devestated.

I tried so long and hard but my H can't forgive himself and see past his guilt and shame to do what it takes within himself to save us. God bless everyone here.

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Praying thru the list this a.m. Blessings everyone! S

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DDay - 12/14/06

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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((abyss)))) Praying for you now.

"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thx Maia. I have been away from my beliefs since Dday happened.

When I read on here that God will not intervene in free will I realized that this wasn't a punishment.

I pray for all of you.

me: BS
Dday 7/23/05
This former rock has been blasted into a mound of pebbles.

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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No matter where I'm at in this journey...God continuously leads me back to the answers that I need so desperately.

I haven't prayed in a while...I don't know why, but I have so many excuses. And it's no coincidence that I'm back in a dark place again. Why do I hang on to this anger and depression as if it's something dear to me?

When all God is asking me to do is trust him... And he is SO incredibly worthy of that trust and faith. And just sitting here with tears flowing, reading the words that I needed to hear just reinforces that.

rainedon, I felt such a connection with a post of yours in another forum that I clicked on your profile & your recent posts brought me back to this thread... although you didn't know it, you were a blessing to me, so thanks!

Pebbles, what an inspiring message you posted about Jesus praying while being nailed to the cross. When I think about how he suffered it makes my own pain seem so much more bearable...and forgiveness much more possible.

Maia, I'm sorry for the pain you're going through.

I'm going to read over the list now and pray for the peace and comfort that only comes from God's grace for all of us.

God Bless & have a great weekend!

Me: BW 35
WS 40
2 sweet kids
2 OW (2005,2008)
filed for D twice
Struggling with R again

With God ALL things are possible. (I still believe!)

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